Some netizens said:? Is this an act of betraying your daughter? Some netizens said:? Now getting married is a game for the rich? Others said:? It's embarrassing to say it in advance.
Some netizens even ridiculed:? Talking about business is talking about business, just like getting married ? In this regard, people also express their opinions and opinions!
In fact, this is just a microcosm of marriage. This phenomenon is still very common in real life. As a result, many people will adopt a normal attitude that they are accustomed to after knowing such a thing.
For such an attitude, it is not numbness, but more helplessness!
Because there are many things, we can only accept or give in on the premise that we can't change them! This is both a kind of helplessness and a kind of sadness!
I don't know whether people's values have changed or their concept of choosing a spouse has changed. Nowadays, more and more blind dates and marriages are similar to those mentioned in the article, and gradually become business negotiations and business cooperation again and again!
If you have superior material conditions and strong financial resources, you don't have to worry about finding a marriage partner at all. The key is to see if you want to find it! It's like a powerful enterprise. Many customers don't have to find it themselves, they will come to the door naturally!
However, marriage is marriage after all, and business is business after all! The two cannot be mentioned in the same breath! A beautiful marriage should be based on the feelings of two people! And business cooperation needs to be profit-oriented and money-oriented!
However, in real life, more and more blind dates and marriages have become business cooperation and business negotiations again and again!
When the love between men and women becomes less pure, when the marriage between men and women becomes less pure, this reminds me of a sentence: love business! When two people's feelings are mixed with too many purposes and interests, they lose their original beauty and charm!
Although the economic base determines the superstructure, it also applies to marriage. A good economic foundation can really add a lot of color to the marriage of two people! However, when all blind dates and all marriages are found and combined on the economic basis, the essence of marriage and the beauty of love are lost.
Writing here, I still hope that contemporary people should consider not only material things, but also interests, love and inner self when choosing a spouse on a blind date! Because love can have bread, but there is not necessarily love in bread?