Both series explain the same point: love begins with the mouth. Zhiming and Chunjiao talk about street vendors from UFOs, and then spit out their predecessors; Jesse and Celine talked about the human soul from quarrelling couples, and then they talked about their predecessors.
In some places, Zhiming and Chunjiao are like love at dawn. Two people are walking in the street, chatting while walking.
And things that can't be done in one night.
Love is both simple and complicated. The first part is simple, and the second part is complex. In Love in Sunset Dusk, they meet again nine years later. A book, a song, all the things that can't be said. How many people have missed it, and how many people have a chance to start again.
But in buff's love, they didn't miss each other, and their feelings entered another stage, with more difficulties and tests. Cheating is one of the barriers, and it is also the barrier of countless lovers today.
Men's cheating is an instinct in zoology, which is in itself a thing that conforms to the laws of nature, just as it is difficult for you to ask a dog not to touch other dogs. Morality is sometimes very contrary to nature. According to Freud's theory, if you want to disobey the id and reach the superego, most people who can do it will achieve extraordinary achievements. And most people are just the realm of the id. If all men can be required to reach the state of superego and not cheat, then human society is not like this. If everyone can rely on moral restraint, there is no such thing as law.
In fact, what matters is not whether a man has cheated, but after cheating, he can know who he really loves.
The hardest thing is not that there is no separation and derailment, but that two people face life together. They have reached a point in "Spring Jiao Save Zhiming". If 30% of failed relationships die from a third party, then 50% of relationships die before marriage.
"Salvation" is actually growth, which is also the core of the whole movie. After on-off and on-off, Chunjiao is 40 years old, and she doesn't want to suffer any more emotional setbacks. So she was afraid of losing Zhang Zhiming, which made her very sensitive. A short message, a casual remark and an instinctive behavior may make her think for a long time.
Zhang Zhiming or Zhang Zhiming. He still loves to play and buy some boring toys. He doesn't seem to care much about many things.
Chunjiao always wants him to grow up, just like many girls want their boyfriends to grow up, play less games, spend money where they should spend it, settle down together and live a stable and happy life.
When two people are together, they will ask each other more or less, but the other person has changed, and it is not the original TA you love deeply. Chun Jiao actually knew that Zhang Zhiming would not change, so she always doubted whether this person was suitable for her. It was not until the aliens gave her the answer that any relationship has a 50% chance of success and a 50% chance of failure that she realized that she was simply thinking too much.
On the verge of losing, Zhang Zhiming also wants to know that what a woman needs is not what a man changes for her, but being able to bear everything. Jessie and Celine, who are used to the love life before midnight, have quarreled over trifles like many lovers, but they have accepted each other and the imperfect one.
We try our best to choose a dream partner for ourselves, hoping that the other person can achieve what we expect, so we try our best to choose a satisfactory option. Only everyone has shortcomings, which will make love imperfect, but love is imperfect and the world is not perfect.
No one needs to change for the sake of love. When he is together, he is comfortable and can be himself. This is true love, because the other person loves the true self. Maybe love can't be perfect, but at least it can be true.
Yu Chunjiao doesn't need Zhang Zhiming to change anything, but he can always take responsibility, shelter from the wind and rain, and support their home. Isn't that the most important thing? As for the fact that he likes to take dry ice to the toilet and buy a mecha, it doesn't really matter, because love can't be perfect, and there are always some things he doesn't like.
What men need is not to change for women, but to take responsibility. Maybe you can't be the pillar of the country, but at least you will be the pillar of a family.