In southern Fujian, the order of offering tea for marriage is from the inside out, from the old to the young, introduced by the groom one by one, and offered tea to the bride one by one, and the bride is called whatever the groom calls. The specific order starts from the family, starting from the oldest, such as great-grandparents (if they are still alive, the same below), grandparents, parents-in-law, uncles and aunts, eldest brother and sister-in-law, brother-in-law and aunt (some younger brothers get married before their brothers, but of course younger than the bride should also toast back to show respect)! Then there are the in-laws who come to the wedding banquet, such as uncles and aunts, grandparents, uncles and aunts. If they don't send representatives to the wedding reception, they can decide to respect them first, then cousins (from old to young), and then neighbors and friends. Finally, help!