First, if nothing else, there are more young women left behind, which can really solve the problem of marriage and childbirth for some young men. It is mostly young men who stay behind in rural areas, rather than young women who choose to stay behind and go out to work. Most of them look down on such men who have no fixed job and little ability, because they have high vision and many natural ideas. Therefore, if some young women stay, there is a real guarantee that she will get married locally.

Second, it is reasonable to encourage non-compulsion, and the local area does not prevent young women from going out to work. This place is not forcing young women to stay, but encouraging them to stay, so it is reasonable. There is nothing wrong with women wanting to broaden their horizons and live a better life. I am very supportive, but the key is to see clearly your position, what you are suitable for, consider your ability, your performance and so on, and whether you can settle down in a big city.

To tell the truth, although there are many choices outside, I may not be happy. I work in a provincial capital and have met many women from rural areas. Although I work hard, my income is very meager, and renting a house in the city consumes most of my energy.

Third, to really stay, we must solve the local employment problem. To stay, local authorities should create an environment for people to stay. Mainly to create employment opportunities, increase residents' income, create a livable environment, reduce the cost of education and medical care, and improve the happiness index. Only in this way can we keep young girls. Who wants to leave their homes? There is nothing wrong with advocating staying behind, but staying behind is also necessary for survival. If you can't even attend to the basic survival if you stay in one place, then no matter how high the population and the marriage and childbearing rate are, it will be in vain.

Excellent boys refer not to material conditions, but to personality, IQ, EQ and reliability. No matter in the city or the countryside, how can you not find a partner? There's a reason you can take off the sheets. Cynicism can't solve any problems, the key is to cultivate yourself.