1, according to the specified time

As we all know, getting married is a very troublesome thing. In the early stage, both parties need to make a long preparation, including choosing a date, booking a hotel, taking wedding photos, looking for a wedding dress, renting a wedding car, buying wedding supplies and so on. After everything was ready, the elders in the family died. If the interval is not too short, then it is suggested that everyone hold the wedding according to the previous time after burying the old man.

2. According to local customs

According to the stipulated time, the couple will not have economic losses, but in some places, filial piety is very strict. After family members die, they need to be filial for three months or a year, and some will be filial for three years. If the local people pay more attention to this custom, they will postpone the wedding according to the custom, so as not to be pointed at by others.

2. Can a granddaughter get married after her grandmother dies?

1. Whether a granddaughter can get married in a different place after her grandmother's death will have different customs. Some places think that there can be no happy events within three months after the death of an elder. Some places say that no happy events will be held within one year after the death of elders; In some places, elders should be filial within three years of their death and cannot get married.

2. The customs and habits of different places are different, so we still decide according to the specific situation. Moreover, when an elder dies, there is actually no express stipulation that everyone can get married as long as the time is right. However, when choosing a wedding date, it is still necessary to communicate with the elders at home, because parents will pay more attention to these customs.

Summary:

This paper introduces in detail how long it will take you to have a happy event and whether you can get married after grandma dies. I believe everyone knows something about this article and I hope it will help you.

Not three months, but a hundred days.

The first point is that parents will lose their lives for three years (because of the changes of the times, losing three years is no longer in line with the needs of society. )

The second deceased was grandpa, and the older generation had to mourn for a year. (called "opposite year")

The way to deal with this situation is to get married within 100 days. The function of getting married for 100 days is to let happy events wash away the bad magnetic field at home, and also to let the family get rid of sadness as soon as possible, which is called "rushing to happiness".

However, there are also taboos to pay attention to when holding a happy event within 100 days: no white gauze, no bright red, no firecrackers, no decoration, no extravagance and waste, and everything should be simple and low-key.

If you can't get married within 100 days, you can at least get married after the "anti-year". Therefore, if the wedding is held after the Chinese New Year, it can restore the excitement of general marriage.

So seize the opportunity to get married in 100 days, or it will be a whole year.

Of course, if your mother can witness your marriage when she is alive, it will be more complete ~ bless her ...