Winston was originally an ordinary guy from Henan. His family comes from rural Henan. His parents first opened a small restaurant, and the business was ok. However, an accident caused his father to die and his sister went out to work. He also experienced ups and downs and was finally admitted to a university in Zhengzhou.
Later, near graduation, by chance, he met Rebecca, an American girl from a foreign country. They hit it off, and after several years of love, they finally entered the marriage hall on 20 14, when Winston's salary was only 3000 yuan.
After years of marriage, Winston is now engaged in cross-border talent consultation in Zhuhai. After years of hard work, his career has achieved little, while Rebecca has given birth to two daughters and a son. Now she is more of a "housewife" and is married at home. Now the family lives a happy life.
Perhaps many of us are envious of this Henan guy, alias Winston, and think that he is a big winner in life and married a beautiful "foreign daughter-in-law", so we envy his colleagues and care more.
Why does an American girl want to marry a Henan guy with a monthly salary of only 3000?
Although the girl is an American, she knows and loves China very much.
Rebecca is a native American. What she has received and studied for a long time is mostly the cultural knowledge and customs of some western countries. In this case, it is absolutely impossible for her to come with Winston.
But for some work reasons, Rebecca is an out-and-out "China hand". It can be said that she is very familiar with some basic customs and living environment in China, so we can also conclude that she is actually half a China native.
This also led to Winston's related work in China after their marriage. Rebecca quickly adapted to the domestic life, and she was willing to stay in China for a long time. Otherwise, it will be difficult for Rebecca to adapt to domestic life.
Two. Although the cultural differences between the two people are limited, they both have the same interests.
Winston is a native of China, and Rebecca is an American, so their long-term culture, education and ideas are bound to be very different, but all this is not a problem, because they have the same interests.
Winston and Rebecca met at that time in a summer camp for orphans held by 20 12 school. Both of them are important participants in this activity. To put it bluntly, both of them are willing to participate in social welfare activities.
At any time, * * * is an important condition and factor for us to form a happy marriage and family, and so is transnational marriage. If two people didn't have the hobby of volunteering at the beginning, naturally there would be no later acquaintance, acquaintance and love.
The young man's subsequent actions touched the American girl and her family.
Winston and Rebecca met at a social welfare activity in China. After this activity, Rebecca naturally returned to America. However, after Rebecca returned to China, Winston was not idle, but kept in touch with Rebecca with social software every day.
On Christmas Eve, Winston spent all his savings, took a 35-hour plane ride with his luggage on his back, and went to an American state to visit Rebecca. In fact, he wants to tell her more about his love.
The young man is not far from Wan Li, and he goes to a foreign country alone. If he didn't like Rebecca, he couldn't have done it. Perhaps it is such actions and behaviors that deeply touched Rebecca and her family, and at the same time made Rebecca make up her mind to marry Winston. No woman will refuse a man who cares and loves herself, and Rebecca is the same.
The indomitable character of the young man is very recognized by American girls.
Winston didn't do very well in English when he went to college, but he didn't give up. But to make progress hard and finally make English scores far ahead. In addition, Winston tried to exercise his courage and courage by selling newspapers.
Perhaps Winston was really "financially embarrassed" at that time, even as poor as a church mouse, but he didn't give up on himself or sink into it. Instead, he took the initiative to fight his own destiny, a typical indomitable character.
Perhaps it is his indomitable character that makes Rebecca feel that even if Winston is down and out at present, it is only temporary. As long as Winston has the spirit of bravely climbing the peak and striving for progress, their life will not be like this, and they will get better and better one day.
Small and micro conclusion
Based on the above four points, we have reason to draw a conclusion: that is to say, Winston's marriage with American beauty Rebecca is not so much a "lucky" and unexpected move as an inevitable result.
For a long time, many of us have different views on "transnational marriage", always thinking that this kind of marriage is unreliable, unhappy, not long-lasting and so on. However, when we look at Winston and Rebecca's marriage, we find that their marriage is happier and enviable.
Then this is a reminder to all of us about "transnational marriage", that is to say, in a happy marriage and a happy love, nothing is static and there are no more rules to follow. More needs both sides to find, strive for, grasp, pursue and so on.
Therefore, at any time, a happy marriage has nothing to do with the age, country, wealth and so on of both men and women, but with our hobbies, cognitive outlook, personality and so on. If both men and women can truly meet and meet the above points, then no matter what kind of marriage, it will "bear the fruits of victory."