As a husband, Cao Cao is faithful to his wife despite the colorful flags flying outside. As a father, he loves his children deeply, at least he didn't abandon his wife and children like Liu Bei. Cao Cao knows the art of emperors well. He understands that women can only entertain them, but can't listen to them, lest the harem interfere in politics and the consorts enjoy their rights alone. Finally, although Mrs. Bian is from humble origins, she is quite beautiful, friendly and good at teaching children. Under such circumstances, Cao Cao naturally cherishes his Mrs. Bian, but it doesn't affect him to attract bees and butterflies outside!

Mrs. Bian's family has been engaged in humble occupations for generations, and they are singers and maidens who make a living by lewdness. It is said that when Mrs. Bian was born, the delivery room was full of dim lights all day. People thought that this woman would be rich or expensive in the future and would look like a rich husband. When Mrs. Bian was twenty years old, she met Cao Cao, an important figure in her life. At that time, Cao Mengde was only twenty years old and had not achieved anything. They fell in love at first sight, two of a kind. At that time, Cao Cao had a first wife, Ding Furen, so Mrs. Bian was a little lady. Later, Cao Cao married many concubines, and Mrs. Bian was able to live in harmony with them.

Ding Furen was Cao Cao's first wife, but before Cao Cao, there was a lady Liu who gave birth to her eldest sons Cao Ang and qinghe princess. Mrs. Liu died young and Ding Furen had no children, so she adopted Cao Ang as her adopted son. In the battle of Wancheng, Cao Cao lusted after Mrs. Zou's tenderness and was ambushed. In order to protect Cao Cao, General Dian Wei, his eldest son Cao Ang and his nephew Cao Anmin died in battle. After this incident, Ding Furen was angry because Cao Cao killed her son Cao Ang, and returned to her family, never coming back. After Ding Furen left, Mrs. Bian became a mistress; After Cao Ang's death, Cao Pi became the eldest son.

Mrs. Bian is well-managed and generous. She gave birth to four sons, Cao Pi, Cao Zhang, Cao Zhi and Cao Xiong, and naturally became Cao Fu's mistress. At the beginning of Cao Cao's uprising, it was widely rumored in Yuan Shu that Cao Cao was dead, and all his men wanted to go their separate ways. Mrs. Bian stood up and said to everyone, Cao Cao is dead or alive. If Cao Cao is not dead, how can you see your master again? This sentence left many subordinates for Cao Cao and laid the foundation for his future growth. After Cao Pi became Prince Wang Wei, Mrs. Bian became Queen Wang Wei. After Cao Pi proclaimed himself emperor, Mrs. Bian became the empress dowager.