Children in the rebellious period of youth are the most difficult to manage. Parents say that children don't care at all, and they either oppose you or ignore you completely. Minutes can make parents' blood pressure soar.
To treat rebellious children, some parents take the way of persuasion, and some parents take the compulsory hard blocking, commonly known as violence against violence.
It is said that boys are naughty and difficult to manage. Only after raising children do they know that sons and daughters are not fuel-efficient lamps. Since the child has a sense of autonomy, he has been playing with him every day.
Elders often say this when teaching their children, that is, "be obedient" and listen to mom and dad, grandparents and teachers.
China people advocate obedient children, and parents bring their own aura wherever smart and sensible children go.
But there is no standard for obedience. What will happen if you don't listen? Every family handles it differently.
A mother in Jiangxi told her daughter to kneel outside and cut off her hair with scissors because of her disobedience.
Adolescent girls love face and beauty, and hair is their second face. But the mother completely ignored her daughter's feelings and let her kneel outside in broad daylight and cut off her hair at random.
The girl knelt straight at first, until her mother brought scissors and began to cut her hair. The girl is sitting on the ground.
The woman has no rules. She grabs her daughter's head at random and cuts it wherever she catches it. Soon the girl's flowing hair was cut into a mess.
We can understand that parents want their children to succeed and their daughters to succeed. Parents take care of their children for their own good, and they can educate them through ways and means.
No matter what mistakes the girl made, her mother should not educate her like this. What's more, she just doesn't listen. This kind of education is so extreme that she doesn't consider the children's feelings at all. Let her beat her up.
Many netizens accused the mother of being too radical in educating her daughter and hurting her child's self-esteem.
This is not educating the child, it is insulting her personality and undermining her self-confidence. Every knife was cut in the daughter's heart.
I don't know if it's because I realize it's useless to resist, or if the girl thinks she is wrong. Let her mother cut her hair at will, and the girl kept her head down from beginning to end without resistance.
We don't know what the girl is thinking at the moment. Can an educational method like mom really work?
When my child was about four years old, she made a mistake while playing outside. I criticized her in front of her friends. She was unhappy that day. In the evening, she said to me, "Mom, don't talk about me outside in the future, ok?"
How old children have self-esteem and care about their own face, let alone teenagers. With such an extreme education method, can children really be obedient?
The fundamental purpose of education is to persuade children to make changes from the bottom of their hearts. Instead of making her appear obedient, this woman's education method is just the opposite. The child's obedience and intelligence are only forced out by your arrogance. I don't accept you at all, even quietly rebelled.