Why do netizens release these two? An old woman? Compared with the old ladies, the reason is that the parenting situation of these two ladies is basically similar, but their mental state in life is quite different. Although Ms. Sheng is two years younger than Sheng Hailin, Ms. Tian, 68, is far less energetic than Sheng Hailin, 70. In addition, Sheng Hailin is a single mother, and Ms. Tian, two years younger than her, is a perfect family.
0 1 The family situation of the two old ladies is different. According to the reporter's interview, the daughter born to Ms. Tian, then 67, was the third daughter that she and her husband welcomed in this life. Compared with Sheng Hailin who underwent extracorporeal surgery, Ms. Tian, then 67, naturally conceived and succeeded. This phenomenon is really rare at Ms. Tian's age.
The 67-year-old Ms. Tian gave birth to her third daughter. Not only was her mother and daughter safe, but Ms. Tian recovered well after delivery. It is worth mentioning that Ms. Tian still has a wife to rely on at home. In the month or two after her recovery from childbirth, her wife has been helping to take care of the baby. Moreover, Ms. Tian's family life is relatively well-off, and she can receive a pension of 10,000 yuan every month, so Ms. Tian's postpartum life is still relatively easy.
On the other hand, Sheng Hailin, 60, who underwent IVF surgery, had a child with her husband before, but unfortunately, her husband took the child back to his hometown to visit relatives, and his father and daughter died of gas poisoning at night. After the death of her husband and daughter, Sheng Hailing remained single until June 5438+October 2009 10, when the doctor transplanted three successfully conceived embryos into her body.
At that time, Sheng Hailin was over 60 years old, so during her pregnancy, Sheng Hailin, whose physical function had been seriously declining, almost reached the point where she could not walk, and she could only rely on wheelchairs for necessary exercise every day. It can be said that such a 60-year-old pregnant woman can successfully give birth to twin daughters without the companionship and care of her family, which is really a blessing for her later life.
Why did Mrs Tian lose to Mrs Sheng? Seeing the topic, I also had a detailed and in-depth understanding of the usual living conditions and appearance of the two old ladies. Mrs. Tian and Mrs. Sheng are only two years apart, but because of lifestyle and family factors, their young mentality is very different, and the elderly should also have a young mentality. Compared with Mrs. Tian, who already has two children, Sheng Hailin is now a single mother of twin daughters. 202 1, twin daughter is 1 1, and Mrs. Sheng is 7 1.
Mrs. Sheng was 60 when she had IVF surgery, and Mrs. Tian was 67 when she gave birth to three daughters. There is a gap of seven years between them, which is also the main reason why their mental outlook is obviously different. Mrs. Tian has a pension of more than 10 thousand yuan every month and is accompanied by her wife all day. One child and two children are healthy, and Mrs. Tian doesn't need to copy some in her daily life, so her mental outlook is getting more and more depressed and she doesn't exercise.
On the other hand, Mrs. Sheng, who is two years older than Mrs. Tian, has been busy since the birth of her child because she is a single mother. Although Mrs. Sheng was the retired dean of the hospital before, her pension was not enough to support herself and her two daughters. Although she has retired, in order to give her daughter a happy life, the 70-year-old lady Sheng has to move and be busy. In the long run, her activities and work play an important role in regulating her health.
What should elderly women pay attention to before and after pregnancy? Whether pregnant at the age of 60 or pregnant at the age of 67, such an elderly woman is really rare in real life. Although the country has opened the second child policy, the family planning policy has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people in the past, and some women have entered middle-aged and elderly life, so they basically do not choose to have children in the rest of their lives. What is more important is the physiological function of older women, which is a reality that women must face. After all, some people just can't be born.
So what details should elderly women pay attention to before and after pregnancy? First of all, because of their own physical problems, older pregnant women are more likely to cause fetal malformation or abortion than younger pregnant women. Therefore, preparation before pregnancy is very important. Both husband and wife should have a physical examination and stay away from alcohol, tobacco and radiation. Strengthen nutrition, avoid harmful behaviors such as hair dyeing, heavy makeup and strong tea, supplement folic acid in advance, and have sex according to the ovulation day to ensure a higher probability of pregnancy.
After pregnancy, we should have regular check-ups, exclude abnormal pregnancies such as ectopic pregnancy, monitor the growth of the fetus, and lay a good foundation for delivery. One thing that elderly pregnant women need to pay special attention to is that the incidence of various pregnancy complications in this group is high, especially gestational diabetes and pregnancy-induced hypertension. Pay attention to diet and exercise, supplement nutrition in an all-round way, eat a balanced diet, exercise properly, enhance physical fitness and resistance, control excessive weight gain, and maintain adequate sleep.
I hope Mrs. Tian and Mrs. Sheng can keep a relaxed and happy mood every day. In the process of raising children, besides taking care of their living conditions, it is more important to their health than children. After all, the two old ladies are over 70 years old.