Many ignorant mothers are a stumbling block to children in the present family. What they convey to their children is always how much they love you and are your strong backing. Please wake up, okay? The custody of the child is in the hands of the father, okay? You have such good backing and great ability to take the children away directly from the beginning. Don't say you have any difficulties. After all, you are not selfish, you want to relax. In today's society, as long as you are not stupid, it is still easy to raise a child. Which children don't make mistakes when they are young, and which children don't need education, but the children don't understand, and the stepmother's education may turn into abuse by their own mothers or other people. This is why stepmother is difficult.
There is no denying that the stepmother is more or less paying for the children. Even if the child is left unattended for a day, the money she and her current husband earn now is still a part of the child in law. Without your mother's support, you have no right to inherit and be supported. No matter what you say in law, you don't want to give your money to your children anyway, and no one wants it. The truth is this, but many children are picked away by their mothers because of these operations. Stepmother has gained loneliness and notoriety for more than ten years. In the end, the child is still close to the mother, and the mother is a family.
Look at the subject. If your mother is so involved in this situation, you are stupid enough to want to take care of the children. It is a good thing that the child has a mother who loves her so much. What do you care? You can also mind your own business. My suggestion is: let the mother take care of the children more, or change custody, and you pay alimony to see if the mother agrees. ? According to my observation, there is a high probability that you don't want it. Although you said you hurt your children, you were full of cowards when you used the real knife and gun, or you took it away when you divorced.
You don't have to consider whether your husband agrees or not. You are a ... Discuss what to say, grasp one thing, use the topic, and really act. Let the mother feel that because she wants children so much, you give her custody, and the opportunity is very easy to find. The advantages of doing this are: first, if the mother really wants to take the child away, you can give some money, which can be regarded as a safe day. Of course, the biggest possibility is the second one. If your mother doesn't want custody, then tell her that what she said is right and bad for the children and the family. Please shut her up. Also, at this time, the child realized that his mother didn't really want him, which was different from what he imagined. In the end, he had to rely on you and his father, and his attitude towards you must have changed. This is very important.
This is a bit cruel to the child, and I will feel that my mother doesn't love him, and I am very lost. But your family is also important. Since you are the hostess of this family, you should be responsible for your family. I saw a survey. The happiness index of adopted children is higher than that of children in this remarried family. Why? Because the adopted child has no one else to rely on, and no one to PK with the adoptive mother, the adoptive mother is the only one who can rely on. The living environment is simple, and the heart is simple.