Don't think that the unborn fetus does not belong to real life, but is called life after birth. This view is wrong.
In fact, when the fertilized egg is just formed, there is already a fetal soul inside. It's already a conscious life
This life has not only a body, but also a soul. If you kill it, it will be as painful as if you were killed.
Your finger hurts when it is pricked by a needle, not to mention being dismembered alive.
Can you put the child through this pain?
Do you have any reason to put your child through such pain?
Think about it!
Even if you don't sympathize with the child's pain, do you understand the risks and losses you have to bear?
What is the process of abortion?
What are the hazards of abortion?
What kind of influence will it have on your future life?
Think about it!
Obstetricians and gynecologists in some big hospitals in Beijing lamented with concern that the number of unmarried pregnant women was unprecedented. In the Obstetrics and Gynecology Department of Beijing Guang 'anmen Hospital, Chief Physician Jiang Xianhua pointed to the doctor's curettage register and told reporters that 30% ~ 40% of them were pregnant before marriage, and many of them had curettage for many times. What are the health consequences for such a large proportion of women who have curettage once, especially for many times? Is it really as cold as some people think?
Some women have abortions to make up for their fear of pregnancy. The pain of traditional abortion makes many women worry about pregnancy, while painless curettage makes some women not only worry less, but even mistakenly think that painless abortion is harmless. Director Jiang corrected: Painless curettage only injects anesthetic into blood vessels to form intravenous anesthesia. Although the patient does not feel pain during the operation, the injury still exists, and there will also be short-term, long-term or even lifelong injuries. She said that at present, the outpatient rate of infertility is high, except for gynecological diseases such as hysteromyoma or infertility caused by extremely special reasons, the main reason is related to the injury of repeated abortions.
Director Jiang made an analogy: the process of curettage is like a blind man scratching watermelon pulp. Doctors can't see the inside during the operation, but operate according to the feeling of clinical experience and judge whether it is scratched or not. If it is very shallow, it may bleed because it is not scraped, causing secondary curettage. If the curettage is too deep, it will inevitably cause endometrial trauma and destroy the function of the uterus due to excessive curettage. One uterine cleaning, especially uterine cavity adhesion and cervical adhesion caused by repeated uterine cleaning, will cause infertility. Endometrium is the implantation layer of fertilized eggs, such as the natural soil where seeds germinate and grow. The result of curettage is to destroy this functional layer. Repeated curettage will lose the soft soil suitable for seed growth, and thinking about pregnancy is like scattering seeds on concrete floor.
It is understood that infertility caused by curettage can be treated, but the effect is not ideal. The highest success rate of IVF is less than 40%, and it is expensive. What's more, even if IVF is successful, it may lead to abortion or ectopic pregnancy due to endometrial lesions.
Oral contraceptives are the most timely and effective method for women to take the initiative to contraception. However, Director Jiang said that in the outpatient clinic, some white-collar workers complained that taking birth control pills might lead to obesity or chloasma on their faces, so they would rather risk curettage than take birth control pills. Condom is the least harmful to human body, and some people are reluctant to use it because it will affect their pleasure. These practices actually belittle the harm of curettage, preferring to take the risk of pregnancy curettage rather than take the initiative to prevent pregnancy.
In fact, the more people flow, the greater the risk experienced during the operation, and the greater the damage to the cervix caused by the operation. Repeated operations will not only harm the whole uterus, but also cause cervical erosion and cervicitis.
Repeated curettage is not indifferent to women who are determined to give up childbirth. Director Jiang said that chronic pelvic inflammatory disease will haunt these women for life, and even if it has been treated, it is difficult to completely cure it. Chronic pelvic inflammatory disease will come out when the body's resistance drops, sexual life is frequent, fatigue and mood is bad. Chinese medicine and physical therapy can relieve symptoms. Sometimes, taking therapeutic drugs will make you feel lighter, but once you stop taking them, you will have another attack. Antibacterials are not helpful to this disease. Patients will have abdominal discomfort, backache and heavy feeling, which will greatly reduce their work efficiency and quality of life, and with the increase of age and the decline of physical fitness, their recurrent attacks will be more lingering. Therefore, for young and middle-aged healthy women, regular sex life is enjoyment, but for such women, pain is inevitable, because sex life is difficult to make them feel happy, not only because of the experience of illness, but also because of abdominal pain during sexual intercourse, which will worsen the next day. Harmonious sexual life between husband and wife is a necessary condition for emotional communication, otherwise it will inevitably affect the relationship between husband and wife.