There is nothing wrong with parents loving their children, but some parents dote on their daughters under the concept of "fostering their daughters". A male colleague around me married a beautiful girl and went home. All the housework is done by this man. Women don't even want to have children. They always think that this relationship between husband and wife is abnormal. Now that you are married, you should not leave all the responsibilities and obligations of the family to one person. Otherwise, even honest people will get angry after a long time.
2. Families where parents often quarrel.
In a family, the marriage relationship between parents can easily affect children. If parents often quarrel in a girl's family, or one parent has domestic violence, it will affect her daughter's views on marriage and mate selection, which will lead to the establishment of abnormal family views and ways of getting along with husband and wife when children grow up, and make their married life unhappy.
3. An ungrateful family.
If parents in a family don't know how to be grateful, so do most children. No matter how good a man is, a woman looks disdainful For a girl in such a family, don't let her son marry into this family, because no matter how nice you are to her, you may get cynicism and even increase your demands.
4. Families with poor parents.
In fact, this is the same for both men and women. Parents' lack of progress will make the burden on young couples heavier. Especially after having children, not only the old people can't expect anything, but also the young people have to raise them. If you don't take good care of it, you will be gossiped by the old man. It's really stressful.
5. Families that prefer sons to daughters
The man should also think about the girl who came out of the patriarchal family. It is good for girls to observe three times, and they are afraid of being "Defomo, Vogomo", which is painful. I have a colleague whose daughter-in-law is Mo. At the beginning, the bride price was given to my brother, who got married, and my sister gave money to buy a house and asked my sister for money. It happened that this younger brother is still an unaffordable dou, and the woman's parents also said that. Encountering this kind of family can kill people, but it is hateful that their daughter-in-law is still unclear, and they continue to empty their small families to make up for the family.