The way should be suitable for the characteristics of children. For children with strong or even paranoid personality, simplicity and rudeness are not appropriate. In that case, it may be counterproductive. The more you want your child to do something, the less he will do it. The more you don't want the result of your child's choice, the more choices your child has. Gentle wind and drizzle, slowly solve. To respect common sense and common sense, emotional things always need to be digested and solved slowly, and you can't be impatient.

The reason should be clear. Don't make puppy love so horrible, let the children know that it is really natural. Puppy love shows that the child's psychology and development are normal and his body and mind are healthy. At the same time, we should also tell our children to be rational and calm at this stage and concentrate on their studies. For their future, parents' responsibility, as children and students, there are too many important things to do.

As parents, we should be psychologically prepared for puppy love.

First, look at children's puppy love from the perspective of a growing person. Whether you are a father or a mother, please think about it. Do you have puppy love at your daughter's age? You didn't act, that's another matter, but it's important that you have that hazy mind. In this way, you can compare your heart with yours. According to your own memories of this experience, talking about children's puppy love won't make you fly into a rage and worry, just like ants in your pants.

Second, do your homework early when you have knowledge, so that you won't learn to sell now. Now that the Internet is so developed, you only need to search for relevant keywords, such as "puppy love", "how to do puppy love with your mother" and "reasons for puppy love", and you will find very professional knowledge and better methods. In fact, puppy love is not terrible. The terrible thing is that parents don't take puppy love seriously and lack the basic knowledge of puppy love.

The third is to carry out correct gender education and psychological education as soon as possible. Puppy love is not a scourge, but a natural, healthy and normal emotion, which needs to be experienced in the process of growth. Because of objective existence, parents cannot avoid it. As parents, you can guide in advance, guide in the process and strengthen afterwards. This process of preventing and solving problems is not indispensable.

Dealing with the problem of puppy love is very helpful for children's growth. Furthermore, it has a very positive enlightenment value for children's future "formal love", marriage and family, and it is a thing that will benefit children for life.

The above views are just sexual things. In fact, children's puppy love is very different, that is, particularity. This is to combine the child's personality and find a targeted solution.