@ Xu Jiawei Jovi: Yesterday, I was interviewed on the set. Who is the most handsome in 8090? Now I will tell captain Z Ryan ... Yes, I never think that the definition of "handsome" is simply appearance. Because you help others, you are broad-minded, you are humorous and kind, you practice well, and you are "handsome" in my mind ... Now I feel more and more how important a person's education is, not because of his knowledge. //@ Z Ryan z_ryan: Nothing but tears. What do you want to eat tonight?
//@ Z Ryan z_ryan: People don't think so, because food is the most important thing for you! On the contrary . Yeah, stop. I see. . //@ Xu Jiawei Jovi: Comrade Xiao Zhang, if you say so, the broad masses of the people will think that Comrade Xiao Xu is a superficial person. By the way, there's a new kebab across the street. //@ Z Ryan z_ryan: There is nothing to say, just tears. What do you want to eat tonight?
Then maybe the word "Weibo" touched Xiao Chao's nerves, or something else may have happened.
The small wave escalated the meager contradictions in an all-round way.
Jo Jiang: It doesn't matter whether you are poor, scheming or being an apple polisher, but don't talk nonsense behind your back. Don't push your luck, there will be retribution. Even people who think you are a good friend look down on you. You said how pathetic you are. I wish you, have it both ways, a sycophantic little man, a quick victory! You should refuel. I will support you silently.
Then Xiao Chao cancelled Wei Jia's attention. Everyone later learned that Xiao Chao had cancelled his attention to Javey.
Then Xiaobai canceled the attention to Xiaochao Mi Lu; Then Ma Le cancelled Xiao Chao's attention; Then the captain canceled Xiao Chao's attention. It's around 7 pm.
At nine o'clock in the back, Xiao Chao canceled his attention to captain Xiao Baile.
At about 1 1 in the evening, all the other Garvey grey beibei didn't pay attention to the tide, and then before 8 o'clock in the middle.
Everyone is still speculating about the relationship between Xu Jiawei and Sean.
Later, at eight o'clock, Rizo sent a message: Don't bully the students in the small class. Then Sean's official Expo will send a notice around 8: 30; It has nothing to do with Sean, calling for fruit deletion. As a result, the meager comments were halved in an instant. Li mm's position: support. Mimo ignored Wei Jia, deleted three meager articles, and advanced and retreated with Xiao Chao.
From 10: 30 to 1 1: 00, Sean's assistant Duan Wei canceled her attention to Xiaochao (here, Zongzi Bar didn't really pay attention at first, and it was wrong if it was wrong).
At about 0: 00 the next day, I came out to support the little white light. Uncle Dan came out to put out the fire at half past five. Jing Wong Jingjing also made a speech. Then all kinds of guesses and positions of Zongzi belong to the chaotic stage before 8: 30. 8: 00 to 1 1: 30, which belongs to various speculations. The wind is still Qiaojiang.
After Xiao Bai's killing game started in the early morning, the wind reversed and said that the combination was inappropriate. Tide Bar and Zongzi Bar all have posts attacking Xiaobai, accusing the captain and insulting Wei Jia. 8090 bar also began to appear to attack Jo Jiang, and 8090 other people's posts. (At this time, column 8090 is basically deleted. )
Let's go together. Official blog's speech: we should watch movies collectively in the afternoon holiday and wait for them to see what movies in the evening. How do we feel?
But wait for a post from Xiao Chao.
Thank you, really. I didn't expect you to keep telling me jokes to make me happy. Don't worry, I'm fine. I've been angry about why they can't tell right from wrong. Yes, my temper is really bad, but the mistake is not from me. I am very chilling. I just hope you can think about the problem carefully and don't just listen to others' one-sided words. Yesterday was really rude. I'm sorry I didn't do well.
Later, Guo Le posted a post, which was later deleted. Personally, I don't think this microwave oven is too much. Thank you for your concern, and so on. There is another saying that you are right. Personally, I think there is nothing wrong with this microwave oven, but I want to delete the post again, so please download the friend to post it.
Later, in 8090, posts criticizing Jo Jiang began to appear. Because it lasted for a long time, Jo Jiang sent a top post to the bar owner asking him to give a reasonable explanation, and called on Little Turtle to cancel the attention of six people and quit the group. After a while, 8090 began to fight back. Then it's just you and me. Now
This is the general development of things. Simply sort out the context
1. Wei Jia Post-> 2. Qiao Jiang Curse Sticker-> 3. Jiang Qiao dispelled Wei Jia's concerns-> 4. The other six people canceled their attention to Qiao Jiang-> Jiang Qiao will never admit his mistake-> 6. Guo Le deleted himself-> 7. The threat of choking fans is at the top-> 8.8090 big bar counterattack-> 9. Chaos
The conflict intensified, and there were two turning points in the melee, namely 2. Meager and 7. Fans join in.
Let's take a look at meager. This thing can be a bucket of money-tearing households, a tool of rich peasants and landlords, a weapon, and a post station for village women to curse the streets.
It doesn't matter whether you are poor or not, whether you are scheming or not, whether you are an apple polisher or not.
(The old man said: "Hit people without hitting their faces; If you curse them, you don't expose their shortcomings. " . It's a bit much to say these words)
But don't make trouble behind your back, talk nonsense, don't push your luck, there will be retribution.
This sentence smacks of children fighting.
Even people who think you are a good friend look down on you. You say how pathetic you are.
(the key is this sentence, saying that things between brothers should be solved by brothers. This sentence brings an outsider closer. Besides, this sentence is not pleasant to hear, which is a bit beside the point)
Brother, I am here to wish you, have it both ways, a sycophantic little man, a quick victory! You should refuel. I will support you silently.
As can be seen from this sentence, this person must be younger than Chao Jiang and not as red as him.
General comment: Objectively speaking, Jo Jiang's microwave article is a bit overdone. Some people say that he is straightforward and says what he has. In my opinion, it's a bit reckless and demeaning. Direct is a good word because if you are really direct, you will go directly to the client and say whatever you have. Even if the problem is not well solved, at least you can see an aboveboard personality charm. Therefore, no one thinks that criticizing others is straightforward. Bitch cursing the street can only be a temporary personal pleasure, and passers-by shake their heads and sigh.
General comment: this reckless personal attack is suspected of being a bitch and cursing the street, losing its value and intensifying contradictions.
So when Jo Jiang cancelled Wei Jia's attention, Wei Jia "reciprocated" and cancelled Jo Jiang's attention.
All-round melee originated from: the top sticker in Joe Fan Jiang's bar.
Speaking of which, I really don't know whether these fans are hurting him or supporting him. If it is an impulsive result that Jo Jiang canceled her attention and then committed suicide without admitting her mistake, then the reckless participation of fans is to put the top spot again, and it is difficult to retreat. The so-called progress is nothing more than further proving that you are right and approaching step by step, but it is not kind to be rude first and then approach again. The so-called retreat is nothing more than returning to the combination, the same as before. But one person's mud is good, and a group of people's faces are hard to lose. A person can talk and laugh, or he can divert his attention to unconsciously alleviate contradictions or temporarily avoid contradictions. As long as it is not intensified, there will be time to dilute everything. But when a group of people behind you won't let you back off. Qiao Jiang is really in a dilemma. Even if he really retired, because it involved too much, an apology on the surface is a reasonable explanation, but it is difficult to fill the inner gap.
This process is not without opportunities to ease contradictions:
The first chance was when everyone went to the movies on holiday, and then Jo Jiang sent a microwave oven. Said, "But the mistake didn't come from me." Family affairs are in such a mess that even honest officials can't explain clearly. What's the point of arguing about right and wrong? In this microwave, Jo Jiang admitted that her gaffes were a good thing. There is no need to add that it is smelly and hard: I am right. In a word, bring the contradiction of reduction back to the bottom.
The second turning point appeared: Xiao Bai said that he would play a killing game. This game seems to be very popular in the cast. I must have played all the groups when I was playing. Little idiot doesn't know if he is smart enough to bring the new Jo River closer to the group, or he accidentally stepped in. We don't know. When everyone is talking about their role. Jiang Qiao walked out. At this time, as long as he says the name of a character, he will naturally return to the time when everyone fought together. Jo Jiang also felt that she was cursing the microwave gaffes, but it was definitely not an easy task to say that she was wrong, but that the collective one build what did not build together would definitely ease the current contradictions. But this time, Jo Jiang insisted that he was right and missed the steps that Xiao Bai found for him.
The third turning point comes from: Guo Le deleted the microwave. I believe that Guo Le is a smart and knowledgeable person. At this time, although he had his own insistence, he deleted the hidden microwave to refute Jo Jiang, and others stopped sending microwaves. Here is a message. Several other people don't want to pester Jiang Qiao who is right or wrong, so they take the initiative to take a step back and give Jiang Qiao a calm time. It only takes time at this time. Let the group slowly solve the misunderstanding inside.
(But at this time, Jo Jiang has stirred up again recently, pouring a handful of oil on the gradually cooling fire, and continuing to push Jo Jiang forward, making Jo Jiang unable to get up or down. )
Let's take a look at the performance of each powder in the incident: in a word, the small tail calmly controlled the spread of things. Other domestic powders calmly treat the choice of responsibility, wait and trust, and the results come out. This avoids the situation of a pot of porridge. Little turtle's family was well controlled in the early stage. However, the post in the later period had to say that it magnified the incident and pushed Jo Jiang to a position where riding a tiger was difficult. The specific analysis is as follows:
Let's look at Xu Jiawei's post and say:
Jiaojiang's meager reputation is not justified, dear tail, why do you want to pour dirty water on yourself?
Dear little turtle, your master said nothing. Why take it out of context? To the onlookers, your master didn't say anything, so why did you fight? Let's put aside the definition of who is that person. Everyone doesn't know why, so why do we have such unnecessary quarrels? Be rational and tasteless, and worry too much about things that don't know who is right or wrong.
This sentence is very wise. Let Xiao Wei not act rashly and intensify contradictions. This time is just the right time. Avoid the scuffle between Zhujiang Bar and Xu Jiawei Bar. This is well done.
Jo, there is a passage in the top post of Jiangba:
To sum up, because the idol took the lead in canceling Sina's attention to Xiaochao, and the fans attacked Xiaochao after combining, I think it is necessary for us to protect ourselves reasonably. Before the above three items are properly explained, we will cancel the Weibo concern of the 8090 group members and withdraw from the membership of the 8090 group. We are rational fans. If the explanation is reasonable, we will post a sincere apology.
There are two mistakes in this passage.
The first one should be that the ginger is cancelled first, and the combination is finally cancelled.
Second, collectively withdraw from microwave concern and combine. Sticking to the back is nothing more than letting the 8090 taste the power of the little turtle.
Two big mistakes were made here:
1. overestimated their own strength.
2. Suspected of threatening the bar. And once successful, it gives people a feeling of "holding the emperor to make the princes." The turtle said savagely, don't be a little puss-head. Don't you know that the real turtle is powerful because it lives with its head shrunk? When biting each other hard, it is also the time when he is not far from death.
In addition, combined with the meager members, only the surface can be seen. Here, analyze the deep reasons through the surface. Since you are not a party, please look at this part and skip:
The center of contradiction: Jiang Qiao
Joe Jiang,
1. If I remember correctly, he should be the second oldest person in the group. He is everyone's brother except the captain. Is the most should cooperate with the captain to do a good job of management. But Jo Jiang is a bit "independent" everywhere. The combination needs individuality, and everyone needs to work together. If one person doesn't exert himself, it's useless for others to practice to death. It is not that people do not tolerate him, but that repeated tolerance will become connivance. What's more, tolerance is two-sided. What happens when one party's constant tolerance has no effect? In addition, let a group of younger brothers make way for their older brothers. Is there a problem? This era pursues individuality rather than stubbornness. Faye Wong, that's personality, always cherish words like gold to media fans. Faye Wong's charm also lies in her understanding. One thing is one thing. So today she can still stand and sing with Dou Wei's sister. Women are still like this, so when a man has a problem, can he not turn over his small intestine, engage in personal attacks, sow discord and drag another person into the water!
2. As analyzed earlier, the other six people didn't give up, but Jo Jiang stayed where she was and insisted that she was right. And always thinking about who is persecuting him. Don't forget to say thank you to the person who fucked him on Thanksgiving Day. People always live in the consciousness of persecution, and it is inevitable that they will be covered with thorns, hurting others and hurting themselves. Besides, when Jo Jiang realized his gaffes, he really insisted that he was right. Give him time to think about what to say and what not to say. What is frankness and when to lose your temper. When a person is not calm, saying nothing will further stimulate him. So it is necessary to give him time to calm down. At this time, well-informed fans should silently give strength and give him time. Instead of supporting his wrong insistence. Supporting his bad temper will hurt him. This will make him more wrong. Go further. You shouldn't break up with a big bar. There are problems to talk about, but how can we make Jo Jiang, who is already a little remorseful, take this step again? He can walk down this step. What about you? Yes, a simple apology is easy. But the sharp knife has already cut each other's hearts. Even if the best result is to bury the hatchet. But the crack between the windmill and the turtle can't be filled with one or two stickers. This can't be done in a day or two.
Therefore, learn from this case, the bar owner of every bar. Think twice before making any decision, what results you want and what your actions will bring to your idol. If the worst happens. Whether you can control it.
Wei Jia: Wei Jia's mouth is a bit awkward. Sometimes she hurt someone intentionally or unintentionally, but the speaker didn't mean it, and the listener shouldn't mean it. When the post leads to bad results. He chose silence to avoid the merits of the argument. From this perspective, the priorities are still very clear. The incident may have started with him. But his silence, his no longer microwave war, people have to look up at this little guy.
Xiao Bai: Xiao Bai, at two o'clock, but don't be confused by big things. He likes sleeping best, but he says he can get up if he has something to do. Dancing is his weakness. The child sprained his foot. He can really dance like hell. I think, although Xiaobai doesn't have any big ideas, the natural good boy's character is definitely not the person who needs to worry in the group when doing things.
To tell the truth, others won't comment because they are a little far from the center of the incident.
Miscellaneous comments about little turtles, and others.
There are actually three scuffles inside the 8090. Because it is not widely circulated, it is not mentioned too much.
1. Little turtle pushed a bar owner away in a big bar.
2. Little turtle takes the lead in making trouble. Xiao fan doesn't take care of it.
3. It's time
Three times, three times, the little turtle participated. The first time the little turtle won, the second time he left, and the aftermath of mutual harm was still there. We have to watch it a third time.
No matter who is right or wrong, if you have a certain fan for three times, it is easy to give passers-by the impression that someone is so aggressive, not to mention that it is not strong enough to hit anyone who wants to like America. Dominating only in small groups is inevitably a frog in the well.
Others: writing here, I have no position, and I prefer to explain the meager event like this. Other members have not advised Jiang Qiao before. But Jo Jiang closed the door of others' kind reminder himself. When everyone works hard in one place, one person does not work hard again and again. When you ignore everyone's reminder and argue irrationally. If you were, what would you do? No matter what you say, the other party just won't get in the oil and salt. Will you keep talking? Some people will say you can't afford to hide. However, the strong proximity of fans can no longer be concealed. Who is the group?
Finally, for all fans, fans must be rational. When your idol is irrational, be rational. Otherwise, fans will sometimes be like tornadoes. Your idol doesn't know where you will take him. Not everyone has the capital to suck powder by gossip.