When looking at a girl, you should have both aspects. These two can exist in opposition, or they can exist in one person at the same time. We can either only focus on the appearance or only the inside, but when it comes to real people, we should pay attention to both at the same time.
First of all, this world is a world of faces. The first thing anyone looks at a woman is her face. A good-looking face can ignore many shortcomings. An excellent appearance can save a lot of troubles in life, especially in relationships. Falling in love at first sight is your face, because it is impossible for me to discover your heart through your appearance. I am willing to communicate and develop with you, first of all because of your appearance. , so when looking at a woman, the first thing to consider is appearance.
Secondly, being able to have a deep relationship with a woman, and being able to put aside your face and treat a woman fairly is thinking, because appearance is the main thing that is born, and it will change very little the day after tomorrow, but thinking is the day after tomorrow. There are more ingredients. It is the foundation for couples to retain each other for a long time after appearance. I am willing to develop further with you. After all, appearance will age, but thoughts will always exist.
Of course, women who can do both are the most attractive. If neither is particularly good, but they can be combined and shown to others, and the two complement each other, it will also be attractive. A bright one. When thoughts and appearance are together, thoughts will eventually be considered, but now the world's label for women is appearance. You don't need to think too much, as long as you are beautiful, you can have a smooth life. In fact, we should also pay attention to women's thoughts. They not only have beautiful appearance, but women's thoughts are no worse than men. Paying more attention to women's thoughts is the respect for women, rather than treating women as vases.