First, pleasing to the eye-not every woman is lucky enough to be a beautiful woman, but she may also be unfortunate enough to become an ugly woman. In fact, what women attract men most is pleasing to the eye, not beauty. Because some women pay too much attention to their own beauty, but they are always not so harmonious with the environment. Pleasing to the eye means dressing yourself as beautiful, clean, exquisite, a little fashionable, harmonious and pleasant in color as possible. Let men see that they will think of a better life. This is the pleasing charm, a woman who reminds men of beauty, how worthy of men's treasure! It is pleasing to the eye, and almost every woman can do it. There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women. If a woman is slack, relaxed and careless about her image, her charm will be weakened. Being pleasing to the eye is just a simple job, but it is a quality that needs to be adhered to for a long time.

Second, reserve-the most feminine embodiment is reserve. How to be reserved? Very simple, the hesitation of raising one's hand and raising one's head, thinking before speaking, being careful when walking, and smiling slowly after hearing jokes all reflect a woman's reserve. Reservation means that a woman should regard herself as the same pride as a beautiful woman, a thoughtful slow beat, a cautious self-treasure, and a reservation that is not easily revealed. Reserved, reflecting women's cultivation. A woman who knows how to be reserved can often inspire a man to care for a woman's heroic plot, reflect a man's demeanor, and make a man have a strong desire to love this woman.

Third, interest-this is hard to say clearly. Women should know the inside story, the humor of men and the happiness of men. Interest requires some talents, but cultivation is also essential. If you can tell some jokes, it should enliven the atmosphere. Everyone expects you to sing well if you can, have fun if you can, and be happy if you can make a man unhappy. Interest needs some knowledge, some humor, a little petty bourgeoisie and some heartfelt happiness. Interest can be noble or vulgar, but it can't be without it. Interested women are often happy women, or at least women who can create happiness. How can a man not miss such a woman?

Peace-there are too many changes in this society, so don't let your heart panic. A woman who knows how to keep her heart calm is like a quiet teahouse in a bustling city, which makes people want to rest. A peaceful woman will not ask for so much, nor will she easily envy others' wealth and luck. Although they also feel that society is changeable and life is impermanent, peaceful women know how to remain indifferent in their hearts. Peaceful women don't ask so much and don't put too much pressure on themselves. Of course, she won't put too much pressure on men. Therefore, a peaceful woman always relaxes men and can be a port for men to rest. A peaceful woman will not be so persistent, hysterical or cry for the land. If she sees the man she loves with another woman, she won't make a scene in a hurry, but quietly, resolutely and slowly stay away from that man. A peaceful woman knows how to protect herself. Don't let yourself be so easily disturbed by the outside world. Therefore, a peaceful woman can always make men feel peaceful and relaxed, and make men want to be with her when they are sad, tired or even too excited.

5. Calm down-knowing where you look good and where you don't look good, knowing what your strengths and weaknesses are, and not demanding perfection is calm. Understand that a well-dressed man can be petty sometimes, and don't think it's shameful. Take it in stride and stay calm. A calm woman is neither supercilious nor supercilious, nor flattery, nor inferiority. A calm woman deeply understands that everything is impermanent, and the changes in life are often beyond her control, so she will not deliberately hide it when she is sad, but fully enjoy it when she is happy. Such a woman is sober and real. A calm woman, hardworking but not whimsical, knows how to bear. Not depressed, not artificial, natural and comfortable, let men feel very real, let men know that life is like this.

Exquisite-an exquisite woman is like a high-grade jewel, sparkling, exquisite and bright, which makes men fondle it. Exquisiteness does not necessarily need high-grade clothes, jewelry or other props to shape, but more is an attitude towards life. When making a pot of jasmine tea, put two petals of roses and add a spoonful of honey, which is very delicate. When drinking tea, it is exquisite to know that it is your favorite porcelain cup or transparent glass instead of disposable paper cups. Stir-fried dishes, placed in a clean plate of exquisite white porcelain, appear orderly and exquisite. Every night before I go to bed, I look at myself in front of the mirror carefully and think happily that I am still so beautiful and exquisite. It is exquisite to know that you should wear a dress at a party, a suit at work and sexy pajamas at sleep. Exquisite women pay attention to quality and exquisiteness, which makes men feel noble.

Intelligence-intelligence has nothing to do with a woman's education, but a kind of rationality and a way of thinking. Smart women are not proud of showing off their academic qualifications and knowledge, but pay more attention to application. Smart women know how to distinguish between men, what is good and what is bad, and will not waste their efforts on inappropriate men. Smart women know what kind of friends are worth making and what kind of people are untouchable. Wisdom is an insight into the world, sober, solid, and at the same time enjoy it. Exquisite women, beautiful and precious, make men feel hard-won and must be cherished. Only a delicate woman can enjoy life and bear wealth, and she won't want to give up when a man has money.

Eight, natural-natural women are beautiful, not reserved to make people feel reserved; I don't want to give others the feeling of being a lady.

Sincerity-sincerely thank the person who helped you, look him in the eye and let him feel your sincerity. Sincerely decline the date you don't want to accept, and you don't need to rack your brains to make excuses; Sincerely applaud the achievements of friends; When you get along with any stranger, you should smile sincerely.

If a woman can do the above nine points, I believe any man will be fascinated by you.

Intelligence-intelligence has nothing to do with a woman's education, but a kind of rationality and a way of thinking. Smart women are not proud of showing off their academic qualifications and knowledge, but pay more attention to application. Smart women know how to distinguish between men, what is good and what is bad, and will not waste their efforts on inappropriate men. Smart women know what kind of friends are worth making and what kind of people are untouchable. Wisdom is an insight into the world, sober, solid, and at the same time enjoy it. Exquisite women, beautiful and precious, make men feel hard-won and must be cherished. Only a delicate woman can enjoy life and bear wealth, and she won't want to give up when a man has money.

Eight, natural-natural women are beautiful, not reserved to make people feel reserved; I don't want to give others the feeling of being a lady.

Sincerity-sincerely thank the person who helped you, look him in the eye and let him feel your sincerity. Sincerely decline the date you don't want to accept, and you don't need to rack your brains to make excuses; Sincerely applaud the achievements of friends; When you get along with any stranger, you should smile sincerely.