First, today's society is a society that looks at faces?
1, our topic today is about today's society. We are ordinary members of society, so judging from the common phenomenon of society, this society depends on the face. ?
Face value is the premise for others to decide whether to understand your ability;
The competent people mentioned by the other debater, I want to ask, did they succeed when they first entered the workplace? A good image and decent clothes can give us more opportunities for work and cooperation. It's just a cloud. As the public said, at the beginning of starting a business, because it looks ugly, isn't it a wall to talk about cooperation everywhere? ?
It is closely related to our life. Why do you have to dress up for an interview? Isn't it because you want to impress the interviewer through your external performance and let the interviewer continue to understand your thoughts? If you don't trim your appearance and speak rudely to the interview, I would like to ask, does the interviewer have any idea of continuing to understand your ability? ?
2. Interview survey: In 20 14, South Korea released a public opinion survey, and the results showed that more than 80% of recruiters in Korean enterprises would value the appearance of candidates when choosing new employees. I want to ask Dong and Zhao, isn't the interviewer's image a major factor in your recruitment? Therefore, we emphasize that face value is the premise for others to decide whether to understand your ability.
3. Face value is the fastest way to make others like you and trust you. ?
For example, for example, our front-line sales staff, a beautiful and decent person, will always give customers a close first impression, so they can win the trust of customers faster. I worked as a sales consultant for three years before, and I have a habit that one thing I must do when I go to the sales center every morning is to spend 10 minutes dressing up. As long as I go to work, I insist on it every day, because I feel that I am not only a service person, but also a representative.
For me, I dress myself up beautifully every day and feel confident. I greet my first customers with full spirit every day, which is also a respect for customers, and it is easy to build mutual trust. Then the negotiation work in the future will become very simple. Customers trust you and their ideas will always follow me. So for so many years, I insist on sorting out my image every day, and I will be full of confidence and confidence every day. ?
Ask the other person a question: today's debate is about today's society, looking at face value or ability? So let's talk about some common phenomena in today's society? I want to ask another debater:
1. Cosmetic surgery: Recently, it was reported by the media that China has become the third largest cosmetic surgery country, and the demand for cosmetic surgery in China is increasing by 30% every year. According to the data, in 20 14 years, the number of plastic surgeons in China has reached 56,000. At present, the accident and dispute rate of China people going to South Korea for cosmetic surgery is increasing at the rate of 10% to 15% every year.
I would like to ask another debater, why do so many people risk their disfigurement and even their lives to have plastic surgery in today's society? Therefore, in this face-oriented society, people pay more and more attention to face value, and this trend is getting more and more serious. A high face value will make others notice your existence, and people will notice you, so you have a chance to show your abilities.
2. Not long ago, there was a story circulating on the Internet that male and female netizens met because female netizens were too ugly. I want to ask the other party to reason with her. If the female netizen is a sweet-looking goddess, will the male netizen still hit her? This does not show how important the first impression of Yan value is to others in today's fast-developing society. ?
Will you look twice when you see a beautiful woman on the street? Do you have a crush on good-looking people? Today's society is indeed "looking at faces" in all aspects. This is an objective public performance, and the facts are undeniable.
The second is whether ability is important or value is important. ?
1, Yan value represents face and foundation, which is a direct embodiment. People with poor image management can't convince people that you are reliable and capable. ?
2, things with high face value and good image make people look pleasing to the eye and trust you more easily. People like beauty and believe that beauty is good. ?
3, Yan value, that is, the external image is a direct manifestation of personal qualities, which is more applicable in today's fast-paced society, because it can make the other party like you faster. ?
4. It is not that ability is not important, but that high face value can reflect your value more quickly and directly, so high face value is more efficient than high ability, so it should be more important. People with ability will never ignore their own face value. Refute each other's questions:?
1. If the other side quotes Ma Yun's example: What is the topic of our debate? The topic of debate is in today's society.
Society is made up of ordinary people like us. Not everyone has Ma Yun's powerful ability. Why is there only one Jack Ma in China? Because it is only an example, it cannot be used to represent the situation of the whole society, and it is not universal and should not be included in the discussion. Moreover, Ma Yun himself said that because of his unattractive appearance, his entrepreneurial road has experienced more hardships than others. Doesn't this just prove that our society still looks at faces? ?
2. Beautiful but not necessarily capable. Why are there such things as vases? ?
Refutation: Just like when a company is recruiting, when the interviewer meets two people for the first time, will he see how capable these two people are? If one of them has a higher face value, will he have a greater chance of finding a job? Yan value is the initial judgment of people's first impression. What can people say about their abilities if they don't even have the ability to manage their own image?
Yan value is the premise of showing ability. Without face value, there may be no chance to show your ability at all. Then, why is a good-looking and graceful person unpopular? With connections and hard work, how can you not succeed?
3. What is the meaning of the phrase "beauty is a disaster" that has been circulated for thousands of years? Furthermore, Pan Changjiang, Ge You, Nie Weiping, Ma Yun and Gao are all examples here. Can we say that they also rely on looks? Every celebrity has a bitter history before becoming famous. Are stars famous as soon as they debut? Song Xiaobao, as you mentioned?
4. The richest people on the wealth list, probably many people don't know what they look like. Are they handsome? What we are discussing today is some common phenomena in today's society.
Example: Song Joong Ki: This is also a face-oriented society! Take the recently hit Descendants of the Sun as an example. Do you think the reason for the popularity of this play really lies in Song Joong Ki's magical power of "picking up girls"? Imagine, if the male host Song Joong Ki didn't have such a high face value, could he "seduce" the female host so easily? On the contrary, if the female host is not attractive enough, will the male host "tease" her? Don't be simple, please. The premise of all "picking up girls" or "being teased" is: Yan value! Yan value! Yan value! Say the important things three times. ?
The face value out of the leaderboard is the only criterion to achieve online celebrities:?
Look at the face offline, look at the face online. Upload a beautiful photo in the circle of friends and Weibo, and you will find that the attention is soaring. Compared with photos taken without PS, that's a gap! Naturally, Yan value has become a major criterion for whether we can become online celebrities. The face value is high, and you have to be an online celebrity to have hope!
Milk Tea Sister, Tofu Beauty and Cake Handsome Boy have gradually attracted everyone's attention. Which one is not because it is out of the list? Sister Milk Tea married the boss in JD.COM, so the society is still a face-saving society.