The reason why Hu Ge really wants not to get married is that Xue Jianing has never found the right person since then.

The fate of Xue Jianing and Hu Ge began in 2004 when Xue Jianing was filming the TV series "Unparalleled in the World". At that time, her junior brother Hu Ge, who also graduated from the theater, was also filming next door. Hu Ge's chance visit led to the creation of The acquaintance of the two. At that time, Xue Jianing was immersed in the pain of broken love. Hu Ge's appearance became an unexpected medicine. Finally, in February 2006, the two confirmed their relationship.

However, fate did not give them more favor. Instead, it gave them a blow when they were passionately in love. In the summer of 2006, Hu Ge suffered a serious car accident. After hearing the news, Xue Jianing felt that the whole world was about to collapse. Everyone must have understood Hu Ge's serious injury at that time. Xue Jianing has always valued family more than career. When she saw her lover hurt like this, she immediately stopped all work. From treatment to post-plastic recovery, Xue Jianing accompanied her throughout the process.

She was good at making soup, so she took Hu Ge to her home in Shanghai and took good care of him, making soup for him and helping him recover. In order to pray for Hu Ge's speedy recovery, Xue Jianing, a devout Buddhist, even insisted on being a vegetarian for nearly a year, hoping to move God. In the end, Huangtian paid off and Hu Ge recovered quickly under his care. Compared with those missed opportunities, Xue Jianing should value her boyfriend's health and safety more.

However, it is a pity that this "sister-brother relationship between female seniors" eventually broke up. Hu Ge will remember Xue Jianing's careful care in the past. It's just that he always liked to keep a low profile, but because he never thanked Xue Jianing in public, it became a regret that he would never make up for. Later, he choked up and shed tears when he mentioned her.

Using Hu Ge's own explanation, age, personality and other reasons led to the breakup. Especially because of his machismo, he did not allow his girlfriend to work hard to support him, and he had a lot of lack of confidence when he first came back.

He once said on a show, "Virgos are really difficult to deal with. Sometimes... I know how to manage my emotions... although I have many methods. There are many ways, but I can often tell that there is a problem. For example, I need space. I am a person who needs my own space. But as time goes by, I feel that I need to communicate. I need to communicate. I need friends. I need to be among the crowd. I don’t have the ability to be a person. I can’t maintain a state that I always feel like I have to eat something salty after eating dessert, and I have to eat something sour after eating salty food. This is the process.”

He is too good and generally has no confidence. People don't dare to approach, and he himself is not a proactive person. Girls don't dare to approach unless he gives others a signal.