In my opinion, a girl who is liked by her elders has the following characteristics.
Looks sweet. When I say sweet-looking, I don't mean that you have a beautiful face, but the kind that looks particularly friendly as a whole. You don't have to be beautiful to the extreme, at least you have to look comfortable. Whether it's makeup or light makeup, even if you don't wear makeup, you will have a feeling that people want to be close. And this kind of girl often has a good personality, because when she gets along with the elderly at home, she often gets the love and tolerance of the elderly.
If you meet this kind of girl for the first time, it will be easy to win the favor of others based on her face value and grace.
A country of etiquette, China is a country of etiquette. People who like their elders must have certain attainments in words and deeds. Observing words and deeds is the most basic. Clever obedience is a common means, and flattery is the most important thing. Take my generation as an example. I am the eldest son of my generation. I have a bad temper. Although I am reasonable, I am not that smart. When the elders talk to me, I will listen to what is right, and I will refute or even resist what is wrong. But one of my cousins is not like this. She listens to everything you say about her. Although she may not do it, she will never resist like me, let alone talk back to her elders.
When an elder conflicts with others or herself, she always grasps the scale and knows what to say and what not to say. On the one hand, it helps the elders to solve problems and calm their emotions, on the other hand, it can also get the greatest benefits for themselves.
Dress up. Girls today are different from those in earlier years. Apart from ideological differences, the biggest difference is dressing up. Many girls dress like "prostitutes" in pursuit of fashion, which may not be too much from the perspective of modern people. But for the elderly, based on their conservative thoughts and past experience, it is impossible to accept such a girl into the house unless the elders are like this.
An elder with a good temper and a certain self-restraint may tolerate her, but he will never like her, let alone protect her. If you meet an elder with a bad temper, it is normal and common to kick him out on the spot.
Therefore, if girls want to please their elders, they must meet their psychological expectations in appearance, clothing, manners, family background and other aspects. Then in order to please her elders, she can satisfy all the concepts of her elders in all aspects.
The deer yo-yo in this TV series is just in line with the preferences of Ling's elders, and this is the scene where the deer yo-yo is accepted, which cannot be copied, and in most cases it can't satisfy the elders at all.