The biggest feeling is actually an upward attitude, especially after she found a mentor.
She majored in psychiatry and studied mental illness mainly caused by depression. It happens that topics like depression and refined points attract me very much, so when listening to her stories and watching her Zhihu's answers, I feel as if I can often hear lectures on topics I am interested in, and naturally I have a sense of satisfaction.
In addition, I often receive health consultation, thank you very much.
Otherwise it's okay. I am a doctor of medicine. Father often talks about all kinds of miscellaneous medical related contents at the dinner table. Sometimes when I turn over the camera, a bunch of internal organs will jump out of the picture, which makes me used to it.
However, occasionally it feels a little strong, such as treating ham as a mummy (although it is true in essence).
2. Lifestyle:
I feel that she is very hard. Especially when practicing in individual departments. For a time, her enthusiasm for life seemed to be exhausted by work, and she was anxious and irritable, which made people feel very distressed.
Frequent medical incidents-every time I see the news of medical incidents, I think, there is no trouble there, what should I do if there is danger? During the time when she was trying to determine the direction, I was also worried that she would go to a department with high medical trouble rate.
Some time ago, a patient died in her department, and dozens of family members were trapped in the corridor (although there was no trouble, just sitting in front of the elevator crying). I just went to see her, and I heard a call from the nurses' desk asking the doctor on duty to lock the duty room door. I thought, forget it, I'll stay here with you, and I can help with some if anyone comes in. Fortunately, it's all right in the end. After that, I was more worried about her safety. Although it's no use worrying.
3. About the future:
Will be anxious about some problems.
It is imperative to reform some aspects of the medical industry. Facing the unknown future, people in it will naturally feel anxious. At this point, some professional friends should be the same.
I can only try my best to share the pressure with her and try to solve some problems. Accompany her to the restaurant you want to go to on weekends, walk with her, study by yourself (although it is clear that we like different self-study environments, it is better to study separately), and try to spend some happy time.
No matter which way she chooses to take, I will support her and hope to be her forward force.