I understand how you feel. Abortion will not affect vaginal relaxation. Our women's vaginas have their own elasticity. But if you think about it carefully, you can't rule out whether you are pregnant. If you can't get pregnant because you have miscarried before, the doctor must know. So it can't be worse for your husband to know. Although he must have his own secrets and can't tell him all, if he loves you, he won't always be sad about your past. Besides, he "I don't think it's necessary to do it with you" is not necessarily the first time. Of course, he can't know about the abortion, but it doesn't matter whether he is a virgin or not. "In the end, it's up to you." If you want to do it, the effect should be ok. "