In fact, many people never realize that they have these fatal defects that hinder them, but these characteristics do exist, although no one wants to admit it.
First, blx can't stand setbacks and blows.
Another synonym for blx is melodramatic, which is very common around us. Even a joke, a pertinent suggestion and a kind reminder will make such people feel depressed and even complain.
The cooperative guild recruited a new anchor years ago and wanted to be a talented anchor for singing. However, after many teachers' comments, I feel that the anchor is not suitable for singing, and the voice is a little higher, so it belongs to the subwoofer type. It is difficult to mobilize the atmosphere in the live broadcast room, and even worse, it will occasionally go out of tune.
So the teacher told her that although it was not suitable for singing, she could tap other advantages and resources and reposition the design of the live broadcast scheme. Unexpectedly, the anchor directly hacked the teacher. Afterwards, I heard the middleman say that she couldn't accept that she was not suitable for singing.
Second, I'm too suspicious and I love to wonder why.
There are also many anchors who have a strong sense of self-protection, so strong that nothing is good, giving people around them an invisible pressure. And this kind of people also think that this kind of consciousness is a sign of intelligence.
I once contacted an anchor and asked the teacher to help her improve her evaluation. After careful analysis, I summed up some suggestions for improvement and improvement.
When communicating with her, she will ask the teacher to explain everything to her. Why do you want to design like this? Why do you want to adjust like this? How many guarantees are there for the benefits of this adjustment? What if we can't reach it? The teacher will explain them to her one by one, and then she will compare the ways of other guilds. Why do other guilds do this and we have to do it?
There is also an anchor to consult. Before the teacher's conclusion was finished, people disappeared. Afterwards, the intermediary said it was taken out of context. Because it is a WeChat chat, it is judged by individual words that the teacher has other plans.
The root-seeking problem is a good methodology, but paranoia is the greatest weakness of human nature. It not only increases the communication cost, but also leads to the gap between the two sides.
Third, too introverted, doing things only by Nuo Nuo; Too thin-skinned, afraid of rejection
Many new anchors are too introverted and cautious in consulting questions, which makes teachers confused and don't understand the problems. Instead, the teacher passively induced the anchor to ask questions step by step. In the end, the anchor still hid half his face behind the guitar so that we couldn't see it, and he spoke very reserved.
The same is true of the live broadcast room. Even if you are well prepared and introverted, it will only lead to the fact that the live broadcast is not straightforward and frank enough, and the audience will never stay when they come.
Fourth, too conceited and competitive; Without an empty cup of gas, oil and salt will not enter.
People who are too conceited tend to be complacent. Complacency and self-confidence are similar, but there are essential differences.
Complacency means not knowing your own shortcomings, while self-confidence means knowing your own shortcomings but having the ability to make up for them.
Just like many anchor fans have low income, they never feel that their live broadcast technology is insufficient. They only complain that they don't deserve face, lack opportunities, help and recommendation.
When you told her about the shortcomings of live broadcast and how to improve it, you seemed to hum and haw, but you didn't listen at all. I will go my own way in the future.
Five, of course, there are also some people who don't listen to opinions and don't add oil and salt.
I can realize my lack of ability, but speculative thinking has the upper hand. I always fantasize that one day there will be a big guild that can package myself, and there will be a live V to take care of myself. I always expect a local tyrant to have a soft spot for himself.
Dream day after day, never come true.
Sixth, the last point: the above defects are all known, but even if they are killed, they cannot be changed. This is poor self-discipline.
So, which anchors are our free comprehensive service targets? That is definitely not this kind of anchor with the above characteristics.
20 18 will concentrate on training and supporting potential new and old anchors. In particular, many novices who are not dominant in face value and talent, have no live experience, but have strong plasticity, have been cultivated into network celebrities in a certain field through positioning, planning, design and packaging, multi-channel promotion and all-round drainage.