1, dress politely
To put it bluntly, women should be able to dress up and dress up separately on different occasions. They shouldn't wear whatever they want.
In real life, some women are paranoid that the more exposed and sexy women dress, the more they can attract men's attention, so that they dress casually and seductively regardless of the occasion and environment. For example, some women like to wear jeans full of holes; Some girls like to wear miniskirts that can only cover * * * *; There are also some women who like to wear a bottoming shirt with a low neckline, which is intentionally or unintentionally "domineering" ... In fact, this low neckline fashion can show the sexy and charming side of women when worn at leisure or at banquets and parties, but it is not appropriate for you to run around in the workplace in it.
Men's dressing for women can be basically divided into two categories: one is that men want women to wear as little as possible, and the less you wear, the more drooling he becomes. Most of these men are eating tofu, and they don't spend money anyway. Another kind of men want women to dress appropriately, dress elegantly and show off, but enough is enough and there is no bottom line.
Generally speaking, a man's first impression of a woman is often judged by his clothes, and what kind of clothes you wear will attract what kind of men. The so-called clothes tell people what kind of flowers will attract what kind of bees. This is also the direct reason why there are many scantily clad women around love rat. They eat your tofu, but they don't necessarily say hello. They even brand your face as "easy virtue". If you dress casually, men will think you are casual; If you don't dress properly, men will think you are unreliable; If you dress like a lady, men will think you are a lady.
Whether love rat is a good man or not, he will be attracted by a well-dressed woman. Most men think such a woman is reliable, meaningful and a good woman with rich details of life. Especially some successful people, they pay special attention to women's clothes. On the other hand, a scantily clad woman will focus a man's eyes on several points on her body; A well-dressed woman will focus a man's eyes on her whole body. The beauty of women is the beauty of the whole, not just a few points.
2. Speak well
Generally speaking, you should be eloquent and straight to the point, and you should not talk nonsense, let alone say whatever you want.
There are many women around us: first, we can talk about anything as long as we are happy; Second, they can complain as long as they are unhappy. Third, as long as you see who is not pleasing to the eye, you can say anything unpleasant, and your mouth is full of complaints and accusations, either a knife or a stab in the back. The first kind of woman is self-righteous. I say mine, whether I listen or not is your business, regardless of other people's feelings. For example, girls who swear at random in public. The second kind of woman is complaining. I have a bad life because you don't want me to be good. Most women who complain fall into this category. The third kind of woman belongs to the knife mouth type. If she doesn't like me, she will say, if you don't like me, I will put a knife in your heart. She is also called "knife mouth, tofu heart". If you throw a knife, you don't necessarily have a tofu heart. None of these three women are men's type. Because getting along with such a woman, men will be under great psychological pressure, and they will not listen or listen, and they will not get to the point. It can be described in two words: too tired.
Compared with the above three kinds of women, men are more willing to get along with such women: talking like flowing water, being clear-cut, sensible and comfortable to listen to. This is not to say that women say what men like to hear, but what women want to express, not only gracefully, but also clearly so that men are willing to listen. It is also a major aspect for men to judge whether a woman has connotation and can speak. Those women who often call names want to win men's good feelings, in one word: difficult. If a woman can talk, a man will listen sweetly, and then he will feel that a woman has a higher quality and is willing to get along with her. Women always speak out of tune, and men will be harsh when they listen, and may encounter communication obstacles. Therefore, the more eloquent a woman is, the more she can win the respect and attention of men.
3. Show your intelligence and wisdom.
In other words, be what you look like. It is not enough for a woman to have a beautiful appearance, but also to be smart. What sustains cleverness? Having goods in your stomach means having talent.
But what is a sentence we often hear? The handsome man covered up all the ugliness. Many women think that as long as they are born beautiful, as long as they are beautiful and sexy enough, even if their words and deeds are flawed, men are willing to bear it and can beat the invincible hand all over the world. This is also a big incentive for many beautiful women to be more melodramatic. A popular saying now is: This is a face-saving society. If you are not beautiful, you will miss many opportunities and many excellent men. As a result, some women began to be eager to move, and went into plastic surgery hospitals one after another, breast enhancement, hip lifting, face-lifting, liposuction and lip augmentation. Anyway, how beautiful they are. From the perspective of women's natural love of beauty, this is not wrong. If you want to change your destiny by this trick, then you completely underestimate men. It is true that men are naturally lustful, but it is absolutely wishful thinking to say that men will definitely pay for the beauty of women.
Many women are paranoid that as long as they are beautiful and sexy, they can find a good job, get a good salary and be promoted steadily. Actually, it's definitely not. Beauty can be used as a stepping stone, but you must be talented. You can't get along without intellectual support. Unless the boss of that unit is a rabbit who likes to eat grass near the nest. To get along with others, it is important to communicate with each other, which requires women to have good inner cultivation. If they don't have enough cultivation, others will stay away from them. For example, when men are looking for long-term partners, women's beauty only provides men with the possibility of approaching. It can only be said that the opportunities for women to choose will increase, but whether a man can give you a marriage certificate depends on the inner quality of women. Just like a shiny radish, if the meat is tender and juicy, it is definitely a good radish, and men will definitely put it in the basket; If the heart of radish is chaff, most men will stay away or even give up.
More importantly, a woman's character is often influenced by connotation. Women with connotation are generally gentle, reasonable and easy to get along with; Women who have no connotation or lack self-cultivation are often impetuous and rude, and it is easy to walk into a dead end. Men get tired with them. This is why, when looking for a long-term partner, men will put a woman's personality first.
Step 4 be considerate
That is, when men and women get along, women should change their roles in time and consider problems from the standpoint of men. The same thing, if you were him, what would you think and do?
Contrary to understanding, you just go your own way, say what you want to say, do what you want, and just look at your mood. As for men, you can completely ignore them. For example, after falling in love, some girls are more melodramatic and willful. They always want men to revolve around themselves. When they are unhappy, they will play a small temper, cry to the end, and even openly attack or expose men's old scars in public, making men lose face. Imagine how you would feel at this moment if you were that person.
For another example, some women always like to restrict men's freedom of movement after marriage; Friends who satirize men are all "bad friends" who can't get on the table; Staring at a man's money bag like a thief, for fear that he will suddenly go to the wrong bed; Be kind to parents, ignore men's parents, and even make irresponsible remarks about men's filial piety; Wait a minute. If you were a husband and he did this to you, what would you do? To some extent, love is a causal cycle. I am good to you, but you can't be bad to me. If you treat me badly, my kindness will run out sooner or later.
When she is thirsty, she will pass a cup of hot tea; Tired, she will pull up the stool; You laugh, she will laugh with you, you cry, she will help you wipe away your tears. When you encounter difficulties, she will stand up and try to heal your mental wounds; She will think what you think and do what you do. Such a sensible woman is the goddess in men's minds, and will eventually win men's respect and full love. Do you like this article? Share this article with more people ~
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