Zhao Benshan and his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen got married in early 1979. They gave birth to their daughter Zhao Yufang at the end of 1979 and their son Zhao Tiedan in 1982. On May 17, 1991, Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen went through the divorce procedures.
Zhao Benshan has a deep relationship with his daughter Zhao Yufang, but now Zhao Benshan is no longer her father alone. He has another family, and he also has a stepmother and half-brothers and sisters.
The absence of her father when Zhao Yufang was growing up caused her great harm. However, as time went by and Zhao Yufang had her own family, has the hurt in her heart been healed? Has she ever forgiven her father?
After Zhao Yufang was born, Zhao Benshan was still running around for a living, performing duets everywhere. After having a daughter, Zhao Benshan was even more stressed, but he was also full of hope for the future.
His daughter Zhao Yufang is simply Zhao Benshan’s lucky star, and his career is booming.
When Zhao Yufang was 3 years old, Zhao Benshan became famous because of a provocative scene called "Falling the Three Strings". At that time, many colleagues were secretly praising Zhao Benshan, and he gradually found his direction in confusion.
At this time, Ge Shuzhen gave birth to another son to Zhao Benshan, but the doctor told Zhao Benshan, "Your son is not very healthy and may have problems living in the future." Ge Shuzhen almost fainted after hearing this , Zhao Benshan also quietly hid in a corner and smoked all night.
In order to make his son more fertile, Zhao Benshan named him Zhao Tiedan.
Zhao Yufang has been sensible since she was a child. She helps her mother take care of her younger brother and makes her younger brother happy. However, her father’s busy work for many years rarely accompanies them. When he finally came home once, Zhao Benshan couldn’t even put on his shoes. He took off his clothes and went to see his children. Zhao Yufang and Zhao Tiedan couldn't wait to rush out and hug their father.
However, apart from being intimate with their children every time they came back, Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen were in a very cold state.
As time passed, Zhao Yufang gradually understood that her parents would divorce one day. When she was 12 years old, her parents really separated.
Zhao Benshan looked at Zhao Yufang with tears streaming down his face, and felt mixed emotions in his heart. He wished he didn't have to make this decision and could still live together as a family, but he couldn't do it.
While turning around to secretly wipe her tears, Zhao Yufang felt a little hatred for him. She still lost her father's love.
Ge Shuzhen took her two children out to find work, setting up a stall and working as a cleaner. This was all she could do. Although Zhao Benshan left her money, she could not just sit back and rest.
Zhao Yufang saw her mother's hard work and took the initiative to comfort her, "Mom, please be happy. I will study hard and take good care of my brother, and I won't let you down."
Ge Shuzhen’s heart was cut by a knife, and she couldn’t help but shed tears.
When Zhao Benshan married his second wife, Ma Lijuan, he specifically talked to his daughter Zhao Yufang. Zhao Yufang also met the stepmother. When they got married, Zhao Yufang pulled Zhao Benshan aside and said to her father with a smile. "I wish Dad and Aunt Ma can grow old together and give me a cute little brother."
Tears shone in Zhao Benshan's eyes, and Zhao Yufang still felt very relieved when she saw it in her heart. If her father could find happiness again, she would also feel very happy.
When Zhao Yufang was 15 years old, her younger brother Zhao Tiedan died of heart disease. Ge Shuzhen was very sad. She seemed to have aged a few years overnight. Zhao Benshan was also very sad. The sensible Zhao Yufang comforted her father and mother, and also Devote yourself to learning.
When she was in college, she was admitted to Dalian Foreign Language School. Ge Shuzhen found a store next to the school and opened a small restaurant. Although it was not big, the business was good.
In her spare time while studying, Zhao Yufang also helps her mother take care of the business in the store. The family still lives a peaceful life. Zhao Benshan even helped his daughter to enter the Benshan Art College to work. When her daughter is older, she can help. One point is one point.
When Zhao Yufang got married, Zhao Benshan helped her a lot. At the wedding, Zhao Yufang said to Zhao Benshan, "I hope you won't be so busy all the time, can calm down, let me accompany you, and let me count again." Count the white hairs on your head. Every time I see you, your hair becomes a little whiter..."
After finishing speaking, the father and daughter hugged each other tightly, their tears already blurred. eyes.
Whether it was the short happy childhood, the death of her younger brother, or the wandering life with her mother, Zhao Yufang continued to grow and forgive through tears.
Several decades have passed, and the hatred from back then has long since disappeared. Perhaps when Zhao Yufang looks back, she will feel that she has never hated her father.
It’s just that loneliness and loneliness, which has been transformed into a special emotion.
This emotion will create a quarrel between father and daughter...
There are too many families like Zhao Benshan, Ge Shuzhen and Ma Lijuan in the world, with laughter and tears. Don’t always say goodbye too much. We also need to think about what we can grasp in this world and cherish what we can cherish!