Of course, I use beauty myself. With the popularization of various mobile apps, almost everyone is beautiful. If something happens, I will also think about why people are so keen on beauty. The answer, of course, is: I may think too much. Everyone loves beauty. People want to see a more perfect self and show the world a more perfect self.
There is nothing wrong with loving beauty, but every time I see peeling, big eyes, thin face, rhinoplasty, freckle removal, acne removal and other functions. I think this kind of treatment is actually the same as plastic surgery. Of course, the difference from plastic surgery is that one is to make a fuss about his own meat with a real knife; One is to make a fuss about his avatar-selfie. In fact, there is not much substantial difference between the two. That is to fight against the truth. I always feel that I will be more beautiful and pursue superficial beauty. It is shameful to think that beauty is not beautiful.
? Of course, these are small things. But we can also see that, what's more, in order to pursue the so-called online red face, we lost ourselves and couldn't extricate ourselves. However, what is true beauty? What should we really be ashamed of?
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I wanted to buy a small thing some time ago, but I didn't buy it after asking. On the recommendation of a friend, I added a purchasing WeChat. As soon as I opened the circle of friends of Daigou, I saw that the business scope of Daigou was very wide. It can be said that it is a collection of shopping mall counters, airport duty-free shops and cosmetic hospitals. In addition to all kinds of product recommendation information, there are brainwashing chicken soup with selfies three times a day-about life, about inspiration and about beauty.
? As expected, the characters in each photo have fair and delicate skin, deep eye sockets, high nose bridge, sharp chin and different patterns and colors that change from time to time. Oh, my god It's the first time I've been in close contact with Europe and America! Nature has long been unrecognizable, plus a high degree of grinding beauty. Still, it looks good. I always feel that people who care so much about their appearance and people who are full of inspirational chicken soup every day should not have a bad experience when they get along.
? After placing the order, the shopping arrived a week later. As it was in the same city, I was free that day, so I made an appointment with a friend who recommended purchasing before to pick up the goods. By the way, I can also buy tea and rice for three people, because it is really difficult to buy, and finally I bought it happily. I also want to know this beautiful, confident and inspirational online celebrity Daigou.
? After meeting, I have a new feeling about beauty. My friend and I arrived first, and when we sat down to order, we heard a curse outside:
-"What is your service attitude! I ask you where table 2 is, and you take me there! Show me what you mean! I'm telling you! I have been running abroad for so many years and have never been to any high-end restaurants! "
-"Sorry, it's dinner time. There are too many guests to be busy."
—"***! If you are too busy, point it out to me! Take me away now! "
After a while, he came angrily with a bag in his hand, adjusted his mood and sat opposite. "I'm sorry I'm late. The service attitude of the waiters here is really poor. It's hard to find you. It's you, right? You bought this. " Pass the bag into my hand.
? On closer inspection, the difference between this person and his circle of friends seems too great. The acne marks on the face and the thick and light foundation indicate that the color difference between the neck and cheeks is particularly large, the teeth are particularly yellow, and a disgusting bad breath can be clearly smelled between words! Before serving, he took out three selfie artifact mobile phones and asked to take a photo with us. I declined, saying that I didn't look good taking pictures!
? After a few quick bites, we made an excuse and left. Afterwards, I still felt cold and scared in my vest. Of course, there is a big gap between the photo and myself. What's more, I feel particularly ashamed of this act of splashing and insulting the waiter in public.
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An interviewer who has worked in foreign countries for some time before. Due to the particularity of the job, there are some requirements for the interviewer's appearance and foreign language level. But for the ability and foreign language level, it may be more important.
On this day, the personnel department urgently assigned me two people. It is said that they are a pair of good girlfriends, graduated from a film academy, and have good looks and abilities. I was very happy when I heard that I finally had a qualified candidate, otherwise I was always urged to have someone important, but after interviewing so many people, none of them met the requirements.
? After calling their names, two little girls walked into the office. One is beautiful. Of course, at first glance, it looks like a knife, and even the double eyelids are not completely swollen. The other wore a little light makeup and a ponytail. Although not particularly beautiful, it is also very capable and generous. They are both very confident! In good shape!
The interview process is mostly the same. After a brief introduction, I asked them why they chose this job.
The girl with a ponytail said: This job requires a lot of foreign language and communication skills. I actively participated in various club activities in college, exercised and improved my communication skills, and studied English hard at school. At present, it is level 6, so it should be competent. But I still have many shortcomings, and it is precisely because of my own shortcomings that I can better improve my abilities in all aspects during my work.
Girls with plastic surgery are more confident: I think this job is mainly aimed at international high-end customers, involving foreign affairs and diplomacy, and the image requirements are definitely necessary and will be higher. I think my image fits perfectly.
I smiled faintly after listening: "Do you think there are other requirements besides image?"
-"yes, yes, but I think it depends on the face to find a job now. If you are ugly, it is difficult to find a good job. "
I then asked, "You know, we are engaged in diplomacy. Can you introduce your hobbies in English? "
She suddenly raised her voice and looked impatient: "I didn't learn English very much in college!" I didn't know your English requirements were so high! "
After the interview, I chose the girl with a ponytail.
? Not only because of English level. But from the expression and manner of another girl, you can see that she is confident, but this confidence has a feeling of castles in the air. It is precisely because of the lack of ability that such people will disguise themselves as a cocky and cocky self-confidence. In fact, under the body is lack of ability and emptiness of mind.
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? Read a lot of online opinions. Many people say, don't worry about the beauty of others, plastic surgery is not plastic surgery, that's someone else's business. The pursuit of beauty is everyone's right! There is nothing wrong with this, it is a sign of social progress. Everyone is rich in material things, of course, we should pursue higher spiritual enjoyment, such as plastic surgery, beauty and so on. Only rich people can have plastic surgery, and those who have no money are not qualified for plastic surgery.
? Indeed, from a personal point of view, beautifying yourself is really normal! It's too serious and has nothing to do with shame. Is it shameless to pursue beauty?
But it can also reflect some problems in this society. Putting aside the original sense of shame, the sense of shame is actually a manifestation of self-knowledge, an understanding and reflection on one's misconduct. We are ashamed because our behavior does not conform to the basic morality and values of this society. It is not because of the ugly appearance that I feel that I have no face and no value. You can't feel insecure or ashamed because your appearance is not outstanding. If so, then the shame of this society is not based on the most basic code of conduct, but on superficial vanity. Things that you are not ashamed of or proud of will be staged every day.
? With the development of the Internet and the hype of the media, institutions and enterprises constantly instill in the society the concepts that beauty is justice and beauty can change life. Appearance becomes ideal, truth becomes shame. Plastic surgery is described as inspirational and simply criticized as laziness. Then this society must be a vain society, people will forget the beauty of mind, morality and behavior, and everything is for vanity.
? Every time I see the news, college students are caught in a cosmetic scam, using high salaries as bait to defraud victims of loans for cosmetic surgery. Black companies and plastic surgery hospitals are in cahoots and share benefits. I can't help shivering ... vanity is fiercer than a tiger. When personal behavior becomes a common phenomenon in society, it will definitely set off a turbulent wave.
It is normal to love beauty, but artificial beauty driven by vanity is a deadly poison. Those who think about plastic surgery or self-deception are temporary. What we should be ashamed of is that we haven't worked hard enough, don't know how to study, don't know how to struggle, don't know how to create and don't know how to contribute ... Beauty in appearance, clothing and decoration can certainly increase the aesthetic feeling, but beauty in mind, behavior and wisdom can stimulate people's aesthetic feeling, which is much stronger than the former. The defects of appearance can be made up by inner beauty, but the filth of the soul cannot be offset by the beauty of appearance.
? Pursuing superficial moderation, inner cultivation is the right way.