There are three reasons why the friendship between adults can't last long. On the one hand, the status is very different, on the other hand, the economic strength is very different, and the cognitive gap in three aspects is quite large. It is rare to have a bosom friend in life, a bosom friend. In fact, it is the greatest blessing in this life to have one or two people become our bosom friends and become our bosom friends. Think about the concept of friends around us. I can tell you that my answer is that this friend is still with me, but our friendship is not as pure as it was then.

Why do you say that the friendship between two people will gradually alienate or fade after the disparity in status? Let's make an inappropriate analogy. Now you are the chairman of a large international company, and your friend is a cleaner. Although you two have a deep friendship, will you understand each other when you chat together?

You invite your friends to dinner in the most luxurious hotel in this city. What you are talking about is that I will buy two companies tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow I will take my own private jet and go abroad to talk about a big contract of 300 billion yuan. When your friend is listening to you and eating delicious food, he is thinking, I should clean up this meal. People with too different status can't maintain their previous friendship, even if you still have contacts.

Let's look at friends whose economic strength is too different. In fact, your friendship won't last long. I am richer than you, so I always invite you to dinner. We meet 10 times a month, and I invite you to dinner 9 times. You must treat me to dinner once, but my consumption for a long time is around 1500 ~ 3000. You invited me to dinner just for a flower. My annual income is10.5 million, so you will not associate with me any more slowly, because the poor also have the self-esteem of the poor, and I don't want to always take advantage of you, so it won't last long for two people to slowly start to alienate.

Thirdly, the cognition has changed, the three views have changed, and it is difficult to maintain friendship for a long time. Many friends can actually be called equal in status and economy, but why can't friendship last forever? It is because we have different attitudes, solutions and means to the same thing that there will be a huge gap slowly, so friendship will not last long.