Sure enough, at the Huabiao Award that night, the girl won the Best Actor Award for her micro-film Invisible Wings.

At this time, she 16 years old.

In the same year, she won four silver medals and two bronze medals at the Sichuan Disabled Games, which made her famous.

20 12 successfully entered Sichuan Radio and Television Station and became the first brokeback hostess in China.

Since then, she has been on the stage many times, smiling at everyone, telling her own experiences and encouraging those who are kept in the dark.

Today, her passion has dyed many people and won many people's praise.

Many people call her "Venus of the East" and "Brokeback Angel".

As we all know, the goddess Venus in the west has always been called a symbol of beauty because of her lack of uniqueness in her arms.

And she also lacks arms, has "unique beauty" and is honored as "Venus of the East".

Her name is Lei Qingyao, the brokeback girl, a lonely hero.

Even in the dark, don't forget to live in the sun and challenge your destiny.

She writes a beautiful life with her footsteps, shining with the ultimate light.

There are two kinds of people in the world, one is physically disabled, but the heart is extremely strong;

One is that although the body is healthy, the heart is very fragile.

Faced with these two choices, Lei Qingyao chose the former, and she made the most deadly roar to fate.

1990, Lei Qingyao was born in a family in Jiajiang County, Sichuan Province.

Xiaoqingyao is lively and cheerful, and often plays with friends.

However, on a sunny spring day, an accident caught her off guard.

That day, when friends were playing, the paper plane in their hands suddenly fell on the high-voltage line.

At that time, no one dared to take a paper plane.

Only 3-year-old Lei Qingyao stood up and decided to help her friend find the paper plane.

But she doesn't know what danger is. She just wants to take away the paper plane that fell back to the high-voltage line, that's all.

She got up the courage, volunteered to climb the high-voltage pole, and finally touched the paper plane.

But at the same time, she also touched the edge of death.

Lei Qingyao was stunned by high-voltage electric shock on the spot, and his arms were blackened and charred.

When the parents heard the news, they rushed her to the hospital. After examination, the doctor said: "The high-voltage line flows through her body and cannot be treated. She can only live for three days at most! "

The doctor gave a critical notice and told Lei Qingyao's parents to prepare for their children's funeral in advance.

Lei Qingyao's parents refused to accept that their daughter would wake up as long as she was alive.

They stayed up all night in front of the hospital bed, quietly waiting for the day when their daughter woke up.

I don't know how long the desperate days have passed, but suddenly one day, Lei Qingyao really woke up.

The burned arm fell off automatically and the condition did not get worse.

Although the accident didn't kill her, it changed her life.

She became a broken arm, unlike others.

Her life has entered a dark moment, and she will be laughed at by countless people.

At this point, Xiao Qingyao didn't know the seriousness of the matter.

All she knows is that her sense of existence has become very low and her parents have become fierce.

Dad will hold scissors, cry regardless of her life and death, and persistently cut off her beautiful long hair;

Mom will throw away all the beautiful skirts and warn her not to buy short sleeves in the future.

Facing the sudden change of her parents, she was in pain.

She doesn't understand why her parents deprived her of the right to wear beautiful clothes and long hair because she didn't have hands.

Until one day, she went to pick up something, and no matter how hard she tried, she couldn't touch anything on the ground.

At that moment, she was fully aware of the terrible without hands.

After that, she fell into fear and despair and had to accept her uniqueness.

She became more and more withdrawn and inferior.

This plain and hard life lasted for a long time.

Fortunately, it didn't last forever. Her life changed from reading.

One day, she was idle and found a Cinderella story book under the bed.

After reading it, Xiao Qingyao was moved to tears by Cinderella's strength and courage to win her happiness.

She looked at Cinderella and thought about herself. At this time, she felt as miserable as Cinderella.

She thought that Cinderella could harvest happiness with her own strength.

If I am a brave and strong girl like Cinderella, can I reap my own happiness?

With this belief, she began to challenge her fate sharply, and she was no longer trapped in difficulties.

She started a silent struggle with everyone, including herself.

Although life almost shut Lei Qingyao out, she refused to accept it.

The fewer people look up to her, the more determined she is to make achievements, just to tell others that she can live well without hands.

In a blink of an eye, Lei Qingyao is 6 years old, and all the children of the same age are old enough to go to school. She also shouted to go to school.

Her mother advised her that, unlike other children, she had to think clearly if she wanted to go to school.

Seeing Lei Qingyao's resolute attitude, her father told her sternly that if you want to go to school, you must learn to write with your feet.

When Lei Qingyao first started writing with his feet, his toes were too stiff to hold the pen.

Father tied a pen to her feet and practiced for hours, often until she reached leg cramps.

When her toes are squeezed by a pen, she won't cry hard and tired.

She just wants to write quickly so that she can go to school early.

After practicing day after day, Lei Qingyao was finally able to write on the paper.

She won the opportunity to go to school as she wished, but she also won the ridicule and supercilious look of others.

Naughty boys in the class often point at her and say she is a monster.

She didn't dare to resist or tell her parents what happened at school, for fear of losing her hard-won opportunity to go to school.

Although the ridicule of outsiders is terrible, after all, people have three urgent things, and her physical problems have become the most difficult thing to solve.

She can't take off her pants in the toilet, and she doesn't want to condescend to ask her classmates for help. She thinks it's shameful.

So she can only hold back when she goes to school in the morning and never dares to drink water.

When she got to school, she endured even if her lips were dry.

Normal people, even if they don't drink water at the end of the day, always go to the toilet, and Lei Qingyao is no exception.

Really can't hold back, she took advantage of half an hour's rest and ran home to find her mother for help.

But it often backfires.

Near the big recess, some teachers will drag their classes and take up her time to go to the toilet.

No matter how fast she runs, she has no time to go home, so she can only pee her pants.

When I get home, my mother who doesn't know what happened to her daughter always blames her.

Tough Lei Qingyao never tells what happened at school, which worries her mother, so she can only make excuses at will.

With this stubbornness, she not only achieved good academic results, but also challenged many sports.

Later, Lei Qingyao wanted to learn to ride a bike.

But her father quickly denied her and refused to teach her to ride a bike.

Without hands, you can't even hold a bike. How can you ride a bike?

Unwilling, Lei Qingyao secretly found a bicycle and practiced behind everyone's back.

In the end, she learned something. She can ride a bike even without hands.

Since then, she has learned to dress, brush her teeth, wash her face, embroider cross stitch, and even learn to swim with her feet.

She also won four silver medals and two bronze medals at the Sichuan Paralympic Games.

16 years old, also played the heroine in Invisible Wings and won the Best Actor Award in China Watch Award.

In her later years, she was successfully hired by Sichuan Radio and Television Station with excellent results and became the first brokeback hostess in China.

Counting everything in the past, behind every halo of her achievements, she broke the framework of life and reshaped her life.

For example, on 202 1, Lei Qingyao turned into a model, dressed in her own brand clothes, and walked confidently and gracefully on the runway, giving a new interpretation to the theme of "remodeling".

Everyone is born with a script. Some people's scripts are incomplete, but it still doesn't prevent them from becoming a good actor. With their superb acting skills, they won the best actor award.

Lei Qingyao's plays are obviously incomplete, but this does not prevent her from polishing the role of Wang Fried.

There is no frame in life, and the only frame is the heart.

Strong people choose to break the framework and reshape their lives;

Cowardly people choose to secretly hurt the gods and regret the beginning, so they can't get out of the shadows.

People often have differences between these two choices and live different lives from now on.

Lei Qingyao said:

"Women must become a landscape and strive to be the most beautiful one. In my opinion, loving beauty means loving yourself.

And beauty is not only a beautiful appearance, and a beautiful heart, but also the courage to declare war on imperfect life.

You were not given by God, but you chose. "

Lei Qingyao never considered himself disabled. She never exaggerates her shortcomings and feels sorry for herself. On the contrary, she believes that life should be happy and beautiful.

She likes telling funny jokes to her friends and watching others laugh.

Her optimism often makes friends have the illusion that she is disabled without hands.

Once, a friend brought her a gift on a business trip and solemnly said, "I know you have good taste. I promise you will like this gift this time."

When my friend came home from a business trip, she sat on the sofa and asked Lei Qingyao to hand her his hand at once.

When Lei Qingyao handed him his foot and said, "Maybe I can't put it on," my friend suddenly remembered that Lei Qingyao had no hands.

Friends often say, "When I was with Lei Qingyao, I didn't think she was disabled, but I thought I was disabled."

On the stage of Super Speaker, the tutor listened to her speech, exchanged a few words with her, and repeatedly praised "you are not a sunflower, but the sun".

Venus also praised her for her beauty and insight into life.

The beauty of Lei Qingyao's optimism and self-confidence is not only reflected in her inner level, but also in her pursuit of the beauty of life.

In life, Lei Qingyao is a very beautiful girl.

Before going out, she will paint delicate makeup and choose beautiful clothes.

Don't go out until everything is ready.

Because for a delicate woman, if she doesn't wear makeup, she feels like a nude.

Of course, she not only loves beauty, but also designs beauty.

As a designer, she often wears her own cheongsam to show the unique beauty of oriental women.

She also developed various beauty products and opened her own brand room.

She is willing to try everything beautiful and form her own unique style.

Just look through Lei Qingyao's life photos, and you will find that every photo of her is smiling, giving people a feeling of spring breeze and sunshine.

There is a saying, "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to recognize the reality and love life."

It is speculated that compared with ordinary people, life in Lei Qingyao must have many inconveniences.

She must have encountered many problems when she was growing up. Fortunately, she never gave up her pursuit of beauty.

There are no carefree people in the world, but some people, the legendary swordsman, are looking for something that can move people and make them happy.

Lei Qingyao stumbled all the way, ridiculed and satirized by others, rejected by others, and abandoned by normal life.

Even in the face of such injustice, she still chooses kindness, takes care of others' emotions and understands others' difficulties.

In a blink of an eye, Lei Qingyao reached marriageable age.

Because her parents forced her to get married, she participated in a blind date program.

She seldom appeared in the program.

Even though many boys are attracted by her optimistic and cheerful personality and throw out love signals one after another, she has repeatedly discouraged male guests in inappropriate ways.

When the host asked her why, she hid her face and wept, saying that she was afraid of others, because she was moved for a moment and chose her by mistake, which made her miss her life.

It is often said that those who are hurt the most have the softest heart.

I don't know how much supercilious look and ridicule a person has received, so he will be considerate everywhere, considerate of others everywhere, and tearfully say that he is afraid of delaying others.

In fact, her gentle heart is not only around people, but also extends to every corner of society.

When Lei Qingyao was in college, he founded "Leyao Sunshine Studio" to improve the mental health of college students and encourage others to live a positive and optimistic life.

In 2009, she went to Leshan Prison to have psychological communication with more than 1000 prisoners, so as to dredge the mental health of criminals.

In fact, in recent years, Lei Qingyao not only ran around giving speeches, telling his own stories and encouraging others to be optimistic, but also really paid the price.

On 20 10, Lei Qingyao learned that there was a big earthquake in Yushu, Qinghai, and she immediately called for support.

She stared at the computer all night to keep abreast of the disaster situation, and quickly raised 6.5438+0.3 million yuan in donations and materials to rush to the disaster area.

In May of the same year, she learned that there was a drought in Yunnan and went to the disaster area overnight.

Send warmth to the victims and accompany the children in the disaster areas to tide over the difficulties.

Because of the huge cost of repairing the dam, she tried her best to sell her Chinese paintings and raised 6.5438+0.25 million yuan to donate them all.

She is like an angel, with invisible wings, who has walked through her darkest moments and is also under the wings of others to help them through the darkest moments of life.

Lei Qingyao is a very proud girl, and her heart is hard.

As long as it is the right thing, she always holds the attitude of not giving up until she reaches the Yellow River, not hitting the south wall and not looking back. She wants to see what is behind the south wall.

With this perseverance, Lei Qingyao bumped into Glorious Life, Our Days and Venus in the East.

From being looked down upon everywhere to becoming a painter, designer, speaker, host and dresser, she knocked out every step.

Although most people will think that people who don't hit the south wall and don't look back are too persistent, they will think that even if the south wall is broken, it will be futile in the end.

But in fact, sometimes, behind the south wall is not necessarily a broken head, but also a paradise.

On the road of life, with the determination to hit the south wall, maybe you can really break into a world.

Because no one can really predict what kind of life is hidden behind the South Wall.

When you hit the south wall, you must bear great fear and pressure.

But this is not enough to destroy a person's mind, because the most difficult thing to cross in the world is the prison designed by oneself.

Lei Qingyao, sweet and cool, rushed out of her small world and walked towards the light.

I hope readers who read this article can also bump into their own beautiful life.

Author: Zhu&; Ai Yong