Second, the nurse's wife doesn't know how to take care of people. Don't think that a medical student will take good care of his body. In fact, she has seen too many seriously ill people. If you complain that you are not feeling well, she may casually tell you to take a rest or let you take some medicine. If you are really ill, don't expect her to be caring and attentive. You must learn to take care of yourself. If you are really ill, he must care about you more than others. You are his favorite person. One more thing, she will find out that your symptoms will be recorded in her mind before other wives, and then secretly ask the doctor who says she doesn't care about you. )
Third, the nurse's wife is usually lazy at home, maybe she is too hard at the hospital. As soon as she got home, she lay on the sofa waiting for you to eat. Don't think that she will help you clean up after dinner. She would sit there motionless, looking for a newspaper and watching TV. Although you are furious, I can't bear to say anything when I think that she has been in surgery for more than ten hours and just worked for the director's class. (Please forgive me for this. He is really tired. If he has a rest, he will definitely tidy up the house. You can't stand it. Why don't he just do it himself? He will love you more, show off to his colleagues and consolidate your position as a good husband. After all, his wife is married to pain, not a Filipino maid. )
Fourth, the nurse's wife makes you dare not be careless. They are usually diligent in observation, pay attention to all aspects of details and analyze and summarize the data. Find major problems from the details, so if you are a little playboy, it is difficult to deceive their keen observation. Wrong, they are so busy at work every day that they are exhausted. Unless it's really exaggerated, they steal food, don't wipe their mouths, love to leave evidence and love her, so don't do anything wrong to her. )
Fifth, the wives of nurses in different departments also have their own disadvantages.
For example, nurses in surgery are informal (not good), nurses in orthopedics are rude (not attending meetings), nurses in internal medicine are obscene (seeing too many chronic diseases), nurses in obstetrics and gynecology are tough (who said that), nurses in pediatrics are hypocritical (obviously, it is not good to be rejected by children), nurses in otolaryngology are perfunctory (on the one hand), nurses in psychiatry are lazy (because of patients), and nurses in emergency departments are impulsive (please, every day) Nurses in hospice hospitals tend to be violent (this is a personal problem). Nurses in public health are very picky (how can you tell), and nurses in plastic surgery are all fake (this is because men love to watch, so it is not enough to please men) (please, these are different from person to person. Sixth, the nurse's wife is in poor health. The pressure and hard work at work may make youth and beauty slip away faster. Don't think that doctors must know how to maintain. In fact, most doctors from clinical medicine only taught her how to treat diseases, but not how to prevent them. On the other hand, heavy and intense work puts them under both physical and psychological pressure. Long working hours, anxiety and nervousness make them more prone to stomach ulcers and high blood pressure than ordinary people. (So what? Won't you spend more time caring about them? They are all women. Why do nurses have to be strong women and not get sick? )
Seventh, the nurse's wife has a bad temper. Under the medical system like China, nurses have to respect "God" when facing patients under the pressure of heavy work and high medical risks. When they get home, they need to vent. Of course, they want to turn over and be masters. Can you expect her to be gentle and considerate to you when she comes home, or even be an innocent girl? You should habitually accept the "lion roar" that appears from time to time. What will happen if you have patience? Only nurses can? Won't others do this? Won't you? Understand each other, okay? ) but ... add a few points.
Please look down again.
This is the daily life of nursing staff, not exaggerating, because it is really staged every day.
1. On call, the mobile phone can't be turned off or dead, otherwise the boss will think that you did it on purpose and will say that you didn't buy a better mobile phone after making so much money.
The only reason for asking for leave is that there are dead people in your family (this is what my boss said, don't doubt that I have many witnesses).
You have to go to class during the holiday. If you don't pay attention to the dog's life, being too tired and oversleeping will be regarded as intentional omission.
4. Changing units frequently is called training.
It's normal to take care of serious infectious diseases. Don't think that leaving your job is an insult to your vocation (who can tell me what my vocation is, because I only know that death is called dereliction of duty).
6. It is really in line with the aspirations of nursing staff, especially in ICU, not for two skills or master's degree.
7. Work for six consecutive days and take a day off. Most of them fell asleep in bed during the holiday.
8. If you get off work at 7 o'clock in the morning and have a holiday, you often go to the day shift the next day, which is also a rest day.
9. I have a holiday every month, and I have to take turns to release the holidays. Sometimes I forget to make an appointment for a holiday.
10. You must work in three shifts, unless you are pregnant or have given birth for one year, even if you are unmarried or unable to give birth, you deserve it (even if you have three children, refer to 1.2, who cares if you have a rest).
1 1. There is no overtime pay for overtime work, so your class is called "responsibility system".
12. I've been doing it for several years, and I haven't finished it for you once. It's only half a month at most.
13. Put up with the doctor's bad temper at work.
14. Remember the gloves and blades that every doctor wears at work.
15. The doctor didn't talk back when he was scolded, and other units hung up on you, so it was bad luck for him.
16. The ward takes care of 9 patients in the day shift, 12 patients in the night shift and 15-20 patients in the night shift. Besides patients, family members should also take care of them. As long as the patient has a condition, he is waiting to work overtime.
17. ICU takes care of 2-3 patients. As long as one patient has a condition, he can't eat or go to the toilet, let alone two patients have to pick up a new patient (I suggest that miss ICU take UTI medicine routine to avoid suffering from more than class photos).
18. In addition to taking care of patients, you should also do paperwork, quality control standards, on-the-job education, instrument maintenance, service attitude, project report and innovation. These working hours are not overtime except for meetings, and the time for doing homework at meetings is always on holidays or before and after work (and you are required to be promoted to N3. N4, but even though you have worked hard to write the report, you still can't be promoted to supervisor.
19. You are responsible for eating and drinking Lazar for patients who have no family to take care of, not to mention more than one.
20. It is not serious to have family members to take care of patients and cheat them together. If patients don't cooperate, they must be tied up ... and blame us for our impatience.
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22. The patient is too anxious and depressed to blame you for not loving.
23. Be considerate of the patient's discomfort when being tied. After being untied, the patient promised not to pull the tube indiscriminately. If the pipe falls off, you will be deducted from your salary for writing an accident report (sympathy for the enemy is cruelty to yourself).
24. I'm too busy to eat, and I can't make up for it. It's all your fault for not eating or ordering lunch.
25. It is rare to have a holiday. If you don't want to go back, you will be deducted from your unit performance.
26. Nurses' Day is not a make-up holiday, but you have to perform on stage to make everyone laugh.
27. If you get sick with a cold, you have to go to work as long as you are not hospitalized, not to mention having diarrhea dozens of times.
28. Newcomers should leave thousands of people, so as not to take them with them when they leave.
29. Newcomers must be allowed to eat when they first go to work. Although his patient's condition is not good and yours is worse, she still has to carry it down and let her eat it in case she wants to leave.
30. It is normal to stay in the hospital for ten years without being a team leader or a nurse.
3 1. It is common to have no boyfriend.
32. It is common for unhappy marriages to be responsible for the health of the whole family.
33. I have to accompany my family to see the clinic after the night shift. It is very important to take care of my sick family.
34. Distant relatives and neighbors call to ask about their illness, so they must answer enthusiastically.
35. Don't say that you don't know the problem not far from your major.
36. If you are sick, someone asks you and says, If you go to see a doctor, you will be interpreted as unloving.
37. after asking questions, answer: it doesn't matter. I also told you: Are you sure? Don't you need to see a doctor
38. All kinds of incurable diseases must be made into drugs ... free of charge.
There are dozens of wards and hundreds of nurses in the hospital ... Say your name, people must know.
There are dozens and hundreds of doctors in the hospital. You should know them and keep in touch with them at any time.
4 1. Be kind and patient in your work. If you have a bad breath after work, you will be chanted: How can you take care of patients like this? Will be accused.
Vast ... Who said that nurses are angels in Guanyin in white?
Do you know what the average monthly salary of nurses in Taiwan Province Province is if they are not in public hospitals or working night shifts? ..... is about 32500 yuan. Maybe for some nurses, it takes years of seniority to get paid. You will think, "More than 30,000 yuan is the average monthly income. What are you complaining about? " . I believe everyone who has lived in the hospital will know that if you want to find a doctor or nurse, you just need to press the button beside the bed. Soon, a man in white will come to your bed. The doctor gets off work at 5: 30, so please be early tomorrow. But if you need to change clothes, sheets, diapers, a glass of water or even a blocked toilet, you can call a nurse 24 hours a day. No matter where medical treatment is conducted, there will always be nurses. In the emergency, it is the nurse who handles the wound first and then asks the doctor to sew it up. In the operating room, it is the nurse who prepares the instruments in advance, gives the correct instruments to the doctor and helps you with the scalpel. In the ward, it was the nurse who asked about your illness first and told the doctor to let the doctor see you in the ward. In the outpatient clinic, the nurse receives you first, helps you prepare your medical records, and then the doctor sees a doctor. Is there an occasion when there are only doctors and no nurses? But the salary of these nurses is only 1/5 higher than that of medical students who leave work at 5: 30 on time. Some people say that "the doctor will study for seven years, of course, there is more money ...". Do you know that nurses need to graduate from college now? If I add three years of nursing school, I will never spend less time than doctors ... In recent years, there is a shortage of foreign nurses. If I want to emigrate, I will definitely be faster than the doctor. Do you know what will happen? Because nurses work too hard, they don't want to. Moreover, the social and economic status of nurses and doctors abroad is the same. Nurses only need to go to work for 4-6 hours every day, the number of patients they take care of is about 6-8, and the monthly salary is about 2,500-3,000 dollars. We go to work for 8-9 hours every day and take care of about 15-20 patients at a time, so I take care of these patients for 25-40 minutes on average, not counting the time for eating and going to the toilet. This is where foreign medical treatment wins us. They allow nurses to allocate more time to take care of patients. And get the same respect as doctors.
I haven't heard anyone say that "the doctor in a certain hospital is very skilled and wants to see him", and I haven't heard anyone say that "the nurse in a certain hospital is very considerate and needs hospitalization to find him". Why? Because when you get sick, you want to be cured, and when you are really cured, you are full of joy, and of course you will thank the person who made you recover. But in the course of pain, seemingly inconspicuous actions (such as hot compress, patting the back, changing clothes, giving medicine, etc. ) are taken for granted.
After reading this message, I hope that the next time you accept the help of the nursing staff, don't forget to respect it.
When P.S. gets sick, people will ask you, "Will nurses get sick, too?"
Really, really realistic. It's really good. Let's try to spread it.
See if it can finally reach the guild (or the presidential palace)
I'm telling you: this job is not done by people at all! !
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When I first read this article, I really wanted to cry. Now it makes me feel that nurses in Taiwan Province Province are really hard and tired to death. After work, I have to stay and "do my homework" and go to the hospital for classes on holidays. Sometimes they have to stay up late after the day shift, which you may not understand. Let me explain, usually the day shift is from 8: 00 to 4: 00, and the night shift is from 12 to 8: 00 in the morning, which means you only have seven or eight hours to rest, but it's usually the day shift. After deducting the transportation time, I have a meal and a bath, and there are still six hours to sleep. It is amazing, and it is even more pitiful to live far away. Some people will say that it is cheap and convenient for hospitals to have dormitories. Why don't you live there? But in fact, my sister has a colleague who lives in a hospital dormitory, and her roommate is a senior who works at night. That senior sleeps very lightly, and the slightest noise will wake her up, so my sister's colleagues have to wander around the community every day after work in the day shift until ten o'clock before returning to the dormitory to live outside? Near the hospital is an expensive area. Do you want to help pay? Less than six hours of sleep, waking up and working the night shift, completely disrupted the biological clock. So it is not without reason that nurses are in poor health. Please don't say that nurses are human beings, not invincible, but also need to rest.
Because of the inhumanity of work, many excellent nurses want to leave, but the attitude of the hospital is still: leave if you can't adapt, anyway, you are not bad! It's true. We should control the quality, ten or twenty at a time. Are we gods? ! If you go on like this, you can only be advised not to get sick. Otherwise, in the hospital, you will meet nurses who muddle along and know little about medicine, because all the good nurses are gone. ...
In ICU (intensive care unit), a senior had a fever of 39℃ and had to work the night shift, and the whole person was confused. It is almost the same thing that another senior in the same group is in charge. After all, it is ICU, and there are many more germs than ordinary wards. It is easy to get sick for three days when the resistance is weak. I heard that this senior caught a cold, and that senior had a fever and was seriously ill.
Many people will say: it's good to be a nurse ~ the salary is high! Elders especially like to say: which job now earns as much as a nurse? Otherwise, say: all walks of life suffer, at least your salary is higher than others. It's not that other industries are not hard, but that wages that are completely out of proportion to the workload are exchanged for your life. Do you want it?
Just like many people look at flight attendants, they think that flight attendants just walk around on the plane wearing bright clothes every day and have a meal with a plate, which leads to high salary and many affairs. Men also have a daydream about flight attendants, so it is easy to make boyfriends, but they don't know that flight attendants have abnormal schedules because of jet lag, and their biological clocks are as chaotic as pushing heavy dining cars and luggage. An affair is rarely answered by a passenger with a tofu boyfriend, because it takes a long time to fly around and it is easy to be cheated. !
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After reading the following article, I hope we can respect this hard-working nurse more.
My wife is pregnant and goes to work with a big belly every day. Sometimes she has to work late to come back. When she was examined by the hospital, she could not eat normally. Busy work and growing baby make her body overwhelmed. How many times at night, she has a stomachache and tears; Although I am a doctor, I deal with nurses every day, and I have long been used to their work. But at this time, seeing someone else's wife walking leisurely in the community or park during pregnancy, while my lover is still paying for her work, I feel very unhappy and feel very sorry for her, which coincides with the story sketch of the department nurse. I specially compiled this article and dedicated it to my lover and every angels in white.
Occasionally, we met; Angel's smile, we fell in love; A true confession, we are in love; On the day of celebration, we got married. In the eyes of others, how lucky I am to find a gentle, beautiful, kind and considerate nurse's wife. However, looking back on my emotional journey over the past few years, I can't associate luck with me. Even, I thought repeatedly in my heart: If there is an afterlife, please forgive me for not marrying you again. Although I also work in a hospital, I really can't stand her endless overtime, and I can't stand the long wait at the hospital gate, especially at the beginning of quality care in the hospital. I can't stand her washing her face, feet and nails, and sometimes she laughs at her being a senior nanny many times. But now, after watching my wife get pregnant, I get pregnant every day, work all night, work overtime and forget to eat or sleep. My mind has changed.
Hospital is a special environment, and nurses are a special group in the special environment. They wear white and pure hearts. A unique swallow hat is an important task to protect life. Countless sunny mornings, they listened to the concerto of the therapeutic disc; Countless sleepless nights, they feel the symphony of life and death. They are responsible for every point of this ward, from medical rescue to dressing, and there is no shuttle for them here. As the saying goes, when a doctor opens his mouth, the nurse breaks his leg. It is the nurse who walks in front of the doctor to observe the condition; It is the nurse who carries out the doctor's orders behind the doctor's back; It is the nurse who keeps her eyes open every day to be alert to whether the doctor's advice is wrong; The doctor's advice was wrong, the nurse carried out the wrong doctor's advice, and it was the nurse who accepted the punishment; It is the nurse who protects the medical records from being taken away by patients and avoids data loss; Patients need to find a nurse for infusion, dressing change and treatment; If the patient can't eat, he should call a nurse. If you can't pull it out after eating too much, ask a nurse; The hospital pool is blocked, the TV light is broken, and nurses are needed; If you are not satisfied with the environment and companionship system, you should find a nurse; When the patient can't find a doctor and needs to find a nurse ... when checking, it is on the ground, on the bed, under the bed, on the bedside table, on the wall, in the air, on the balcony, on the quilt, on the mattress, on the pillow, on the hair, on the skin, on the fingernails, on the toenails, in the office, in the treatment room, in the dressing room, in the trash can, in the classified garbage, in the disinfectant bucket and in the oxygen bag. But I don't know that some patients only remember their attending doctor. Although you run in front of her every day, she still doesn't know or remember. I remember a doctor once joked that a nurse in the first year had an apple face, white inside and red inside; The nurse in the second year was a cucumber face with blue face and acne; The nurse in the third year has a bitter gourd face and is worried about getting married with wrinkles. Maybe you don't believe it, maybe you think it's just an example, maybe you say it's alarmist, but this is the true portrayal of the nurse's face passing away. When they are on the day shift, they can only be woken up by n alarm clocks N+ 1 time in the morning; During the night shift, doctors can sleep, but they can't close their eyes for a minute. On the night shift, their eyes are black, their lips are white, their faces are yellow, and they have no blood. Finally looking forward to the holiday, they don't want to do anything, just want to sleep in bed. How many times have they bathed for the absent patients, washed and groomed, and washed away the dirt on their faces for the unaccompanied elderly; How many times have they sent warm encouragement and support to cancer patients? How many times did they pull the quilt corner for the sleeping patient? How many times have they shed tears of sympathy and expressed sympathy to the families who lost their loved ones? How many times did she forget to eat and sleep in order to save the patient? How many times when others reunite, they are guarding the patient; How many times ... from their swollen legs, from their calloused feet, from their hands soaked in disinfectant, from their tired figure after work, we can see their hard work.
Therefore, you should not think that nurses' wives are all beautiful, dressed in white, blue or pink uniforms, as beautiful as angels, because they have never applied powder and makeup; Don't laugh at her deeper and deeper dark circles and her delicate and ruddy skin, because they never rest regularly; I don't want her to be young forever, because their faces have passed away in the night shift; Don't think that people who study medicine will take good care of your health. In fact, she has seen too many seriously ill people. When you complain that you are not feeling well, she may casually let you have a rest, or let you find some medicine at will. If you are really ill, don't expect her to be caring and attentive. You should learn to take care of yourself, because she will always have patients much more serious than you. Don't think that they will be as diligent at home as in the hospital, washing and cooking for you, perhaps because it is too hard in the hospital, and they will lie on the sofa and wait for you to eat as soon as they get home; Don't think that she will help you wash the dishes after dinner. She will sit still and watch TV and fall asleep quickly. Don't think that the nurse's wife will treat you as well as her patients. Under the medical system like China, nurses should respect "God" when facing patients and need to vent when they get home. Can you expect her to be gentle and considerate to you when she comes home, or even condescend to pretend to be an innocent girl? You should habitually accept the "lion roar" that sometimes appears; You don't think ...
If your wife is a nurse, please cook, wash clothes and mop the floor at home until she gets off work; If your wife is a nurse, please give her a basin of hot water before going to bed and let her soak her feet well. If your wife is a nurse, please don't blame her for not returning your message. She may be checking the doctor's advice or saving the patient. If your wife is a nurse, please don't blame her for not answering your phone at work, because a little distraction may add the wrong medicine, because she is facing life; If your wife is a nurse, please turn your mobile phone to mute at home. Don't make her nervous because she is nervous in the hospital all day. If your wife is a nurse, please don't wake her when she falls asleep watching TV on the sofa, because she may just come back from a busy work and night shift. Please turn off the TV gently, lie quietly beside her and wait for her to wake up quietly. If your wife is a nurse, please give some understanding when she can't accompany you on holidays. Everyone is on holiday, but life can't be without a holiday. She should always stand in her post and let more people enjoy life and holidays. In fact, she doesn't want to spend that wonderful time with you. If your wife is a nurse and can't spend the anniversary with you, please understand her difficulties. Her job often doesn't allow her to get off work on time, and she always listens to the arrangement, because she once vowed to devote herself to nursing in front of Nightingale.
If your wife is a nurse, please don't complain about the time difference she gave you. You let her rest for work, and you let her rest for work. In fact, the person she misses most is you. Once she has time, she will come to visit you at the expense of her rest time, even if she secretly looks at you in the corner where you can't see at work. Then send a message or call you to tell you that she loves you, and then say a few words, dear, be sure to have a good meal. Please forgive me if I can't take care of you ...
If your wife is a nurse, she can't always take care of you when you are sick, please don't blame her. Besides her parents, she is the one who is most worried about you, but her job is to face more patients. They put all their energy into the patient, and she will take care of you as long as she has time.
If your wife is a nurse, please comfort her patiently when she is in tears. She has faced too many places where you are going and seen too many tragic scenes. She's not heartless. She hasn't seen too many things that she doesn't feel. She can't cry. In order to make the work go smoothly, to make her family accept the reality, and to give the deceased more dignity, she must be calm. Only when she faces you will she shed tears, because you are the one who makes her feel most relaxed, safe and trustworthy. Such an important news must be shared to let more people know!