Methods of adjusting mentality
First of all, we must continue to live bravely and actively, and be worthy of those who have passed away. They helped us a lot in the process of our growth, so we miss them very much and thank them very much. Because of this, if we want to be worthy of those who have passed away, we must live hard and pass on beauty and positive energy, just like when our loved ones are alive.
We should try our best to prove our worth, because our lives carry two lives or even more power. Can we not be strong? We should live well for them and experience a different life for them. They can also be happy for the living if they know something underground.
We should learn to divert our attention, put our time on work, study, work hard and help others. If a loved one dies, it becomes fragile, which also punishes the deceased from the side, as if to say, look, this is the person you teach. We have to live more vigorously to be worthy of their efforts. As you said, she has paid a lot in your growth. Then you have to live well, which is really worthy of her. Instead of every day in Lacrimosa, it seems that you can't live without big trees. Let him know from the bottom of the spring. You have a good life because of him. I hope he can rest assured.
We should turn grief into strength and think more about the road under our feet instead of indulging in recalling the past. The people who really know how to be grateful are those who bravely practice their original promises with the power of life and constantly strive to realize the expectations he gives you.
My personal experience
Like my grandmother, she died in her eighties before I graduated from college. I handled this matter with deep feelings. I know my grandmother helped me, especially when I was growing up. And if I don't live well, it will also hurt her, so I try to change myself, make continuous progress and pursue Excellence. I believe grandma will smile and say to me when she sees all this, son, you have grown up!
In fact, life is more than family. Affection is not used to follow, but to commemorate, not to be decadent, to reflect, not to mourn, but to be grateful. Recalling the past can be an article. If you are really grateful to them, you can commemorate them with words, tell their deeds to the younger generation, awaken gratitude to her with more people's memories, and awaken his energy with more strength!