The event review not only sent money to different netizens again and again, but also Liu Fengling, a woman from Liaocheng, Shandong Province, came to Qingdao with Cui Wanli from Handan, Hebei Province because of "I like you". However, after "borrowing" 7,200 yuan from her, Cui Wanli disappeared. On September 3rd, Liu Fengling went to the reporter with a money order for netizens, hoping that her netizens could see the news and return the money to her. Talking about the reasons for not calling the police, Liu Fengling said that she hoped to give netizens a chance to "change their minds" and was more worried that they might be accused of fraud.
"Can you find Cui Wanli? When will he pay me back the money he owes me? " On the afternoon of the 3rd, 38-year-old Liu Fengling asked after seeing the reporter. Speaking of his experience of being cheated, Liu Fengling from Liaocheng can simply say that it was a day.
"When I was working in Handan last year, my husband fell in love with a Sichuan woman. He said that he has no feelings for me and only loves that Sichuan woman. " Liu Fengling said that her husband not only didn't love her, but also often beat her. In desperation, she confided her situation to netizens online. In a QQ group, Liu Fengling met Cui Wan Li.
"I had a good chat with him. He told me that he could find a way to get my husband's heart back to me." Recalling the first meeting with Cui Wan Li last September, Liu Fengling still remembers it vividly.
Soon after chatting with Cui Wanli, Cui Wanli said that she liked her, and Liu Fengling, who had no feelings for her husband, was quickly melted by Cui Wanli. Later, Cui Wanli began to borrow money from her. At first, he borrowed 200 yuan to thank his relatives.
At the end of February this year, after being separated from her husband for many days, Liu Fengling left Handan and went to Qingdao where Cui Wanli worked. "At that time, he met me at the train station, and then we lived in China and Korea." Liu Fengling said that the relationship was good at first, but Cui Wan Li continued to borrow money from her. Cui Wanli found various reasons, took care of her sister, went out to travel and repaired her motorcycle, and got 7200 yuan from her.
Liu Fengling, who now works in a jiaozi store, always hoped that Cui Wanli would pay back the money, but Cui Wan Li disappeared after taking her 200 yuan money for the last time. I can't find the phone or text message.
Carefully wanted to think Cui Wanli means, Liu Fengling didn't feel cheated. "On one occasion, Cui Wanli told me that the motorcycle broke down in Jimo and asked me for money to repair it, but he appeared after waiting for him for more than 20 minutes. It's so far from Jimo to the south of the city, how can it be so fast? " Liu Fengling said with regret.
In fact, before lending Cui Wanli more than 7,000 yuan, Liu Fengling did several stupid things.
In 2009, after meeting her online, a man named Gao Kai borrowed 5200 yuan from her in various names. Until recently, she contacted Gao Kai's father, and Gao Kai returned her 3000 yuan. I don't know when the remaining 2200 yuan will be returned.
20 1 1 Linyi A man named Zhang Cunyu has been calling her "sister" since he met her online. "As soon as I listen to my sister, my heart softens. Zhang Cunyu said that his mother was seriously ill and needed surgery, so I sent him two thousand yuan. " Liu Fengling took out the money order for Zhang Cunyu from the plastic bag around him and lit it one by one. "This is 5,000 yuan, this is 1000 yuan, and there are 5,000 yuan." Liu Fengling said that she remitted 18000 yuan to Zhang Cunyu.
Liu Fengling pointed to her plain clothes and told reporters, "I can't earn much money working in a restaurant. I am reluctant to buy my own clothes. I gave them tens of thousands of dollars, and now they are gone. "
"You help me find these people, how long will I earn this money!" Liu Fengling, with a sad face, said that when she was in Handan, she also wanted to call the police, but her husband always beat her. If she knew that she had lent money to netizens, I don't know what would happen. "As soon as he saw my money order, he gave me a good beating. Later, I never dared to let him see it again, let alone call the police. " Later, when she came to Qingdao, she also thought about calling the police, but when she thought of the good things that netizens said, she relented.
"Now I have money orders, recordings, QQ chat messages and text messages. I just want them to pay me back in time. I still hope that their conscience will find out and give me the money when they pay their wages. " After showing the reporters the QQ chat information in the mobile phone, Liu Fengling went on to say that she wanted to give them another chance.
"If I call the police, they are likely to be accused of fraud. We have known each other for so long and feel very embarrassed. " Liu Fengling said that if her netizens continue to be "opinionated", she must call 1 10 to call the police. (Popular Network)
Pan Xiao commented that if Liu Fengling's husband hadn't cheated, surely Liu Fengling wouldn't have come to Wan Li to give his life to netizens. If Liu Fengling could treat her husband's infidelity rationally, the scam in the news would not happen. Now married men cheat everywhere, and married women cheat because of their husbands. If the woman's infidelity is to punish the man's infidelity, it will only make the feelings between the two more indifferent, so that marriage and family will break down. Marriage needs to be run with brains. Married women are baptized by life because of housework, which is not as good as before, so some men have the idea of cheating.
How to prevent men from cheating? From the perspective of women, we should do ten things: first, dress beautifully and don't be a yellow-faced woman. Second, don't save yourself money. Third, we should constantly enrich our own connotation. Fourth, don't sympathize with him. Fifth, we should have our own hobbies. Sixth, you can be a princess, a maid or a sexy woman, and you should be multifaceted. Seventh, there are many men. Don't give up the opportunity to see handsome guys just because you get married, and don't give up the opportunity to write poems with talented people. Eighth, he is not everything to you, at best, it is 3%. Ninth, let men shoulder the burden of life. You can have a career and get a lot of money, but you have to pay for all the expenses at home. Tenth, be yourself and don't change.
In fact, marriage is like a house, and the generation of garbage is inevitable. Set up a "recycle bin" where you can put anything that makes you sad, angry and unwanted. The "recycle bin" of love is actually tolerance and acceptance. In the face of sudden betrayal, the once fiery vows of eternal love have dropped to freezing point, and your relationship with your husband is undergoing an unprecedented test. In the face of her husband's infidelity, a woman should do this:
First, whether your husband is having an affair for a while or for a long time, you should face it rationally. While facing the reality, you should take the initiative to tolerate and influence your husband. If you want to bear the burden of humiliation and work hard, you must influence your husband with inclusive heart and love and let him return to your arms. This is cruel to you, and you don't have to be so great. You have your own dignity. But you can't always indulge in helplessness and self-pity. You need to get rid of it and replenish nutrients for your injured soul. Take part in more parties or outings. These activities can distract your attention and, more importantly, help you find yourself.
Second, don't be furious in the face of your husband's infidelity. You can travel alone, calm down and make plans. Don't be too hasty; you will quarrel and divorce easily. This is not good for children and their families.
Third, ask people in the industry for help, find experts in marriage and feelings, and let them give you advice, defeat mistress, and save your marriage with your husband.
Fourth, don't take tough retaliatory measures, because twisting melons is not sweet. In the face of her husband's infidelity, taking a tough approach can only make things earlier, while revenge may harm others and yourself. Therefore, instead of revenge, it is better to seek the next wonderful thing in life again. Take a step back, radical measures will only make things worse. However, don't give up on yourself and often cheat.