Maybe everyone has a dual personality, lively and sentimental, gentle and stubborn.
A person's heart needs hardness. In this law of the jungle era, it is difficult for Lin Daiyu with various customs to survive. An efficient person like Xue Baochai can be independent. In this rapidly developing society, the pressure of competition is constant, and you are not strong or fragile. You need to digest yourself slowly if you are wronged, do not adapt to the new environment and work is not smooth. No one will spoil you and take care of you outside. If you are not strong at this time and don't let yourself become hard, then you will only be eliminated. Even if you are eliminated, no one will give you half pity and half sympathy. In this society, you can only rely on yourself. Life and competition in cities have far exceeded the limits that people can bear. A particularly popular sentence recently. No one cares about the bitterness and innocence behind you, and no one cares about your inner struggle and helplessness. In this case, who are you weak and vulnerable to? Do you cry together? Oh, the problem of hunger is easy to solve. Of course not. It is precisely because of these strong people that this society can develop rapidly.
However, if a person is strong for a long time, it seems that life will gradually evolve into a mechanized and mechanical way of going to work, taking the bus and subway, going home from work, eating and sleeping. Everything is plain, plain, almost crazy. At this time, will you be moved to tears when you hear a good song? Will you still cry or laugh about the fate of the hero in the movie? On the way to work, will you unconsciously show a gratified and loving smile when you see lively primary school students skipping to school hand in hand? If you can, it means that your heart is still tender, and your life has not been completely covered up by this so-called city rule. Because of gentleness, I will be moved by a cat, stop for a bird, and occasionally enjoy the romance of life after a difficult and complicated life, so that everything will not be just boring, and I will find that there are fairy tales in this world.
Everyone wants to live a good, happy, carefree and simple life. It doesn't matter whether you are gentle or stubborn. When you are alone, listen to some music to pass the time, and the melodious melody slowly surrounds you, putting your whole body and mind into the world of feeling and experiencing music. Feel your own world quietly, and shout with the big guys when you get together with friends, as if life is such a crazy toss and turn, and enjoy it.
Listening to a friend say a word, sometimes a word can make us burst into tears, and sometimes we find ourselves walking a long way with our teeth clenched.