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The most important thing between husband and wife is trust. You cannot impose your own insecurities on the other person.

No one can tolerate each other's suspicion. Conflicts between husband and wife often start from a lack of trust.

A woman's arrogance may destroy a family. You have to decide which is more serious.

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Wang Ying grew up in a broken family. Her parents divorced early and she grew up with her mother.

The trauma of divorce on her mother is difficult to heal. Wang Ying has seen her mother shed tears over the failed marriage since she was a child.

Women who grow up in such an environment are inherently insecure and always unconsciously reflect their parents' marriage on themselves. Wang Ying is a lucky girl. She met her husband Zhang Yuan who truly loves her.

Zhang Yuan has a good job and a considerable income. After the two got married, Zhang Yuan asked Wang Ying to quit her job and stay at home as a housewife.

Originally, Zhang Yuan cared about his wife and had good intentions, but unexpectedly it sowed the seeds of conflict in their marriage.

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After Wang Ying resigned and stayed at home, the focus of her life was her family. Because of her natural insecurity, she is sensitive and suspicious, and has a strong desire to control her husband.

In the first few years of her marriage, because her children were still young, she was so busy with the children alone, so her control over Zhang Yuan was not as strong as it is now.

Now that her children have grown up and started going to school, Wang Ying's life suddenly becomes empty. The life of a housewife is always boring and monotonous, and Wang Ying suddenly begins to feel panicked. She is always worried that her parents' tragedy will happen to her.

As a result, Wang Ying strengthened the control over Zhang Yuan. Wang Ying required Zhang Yuan to go home after get off work every day. If he needed to work overtime, he must report it in advance and ask colleagues in the company to prove it.

In order to control Zhang Yuan, Wang Ying put a lot of effort into the colleagues around Zhang Yuan. In her own words, she planted spies.

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Once Zhang Yuan accompanied a client to dinner and explained the reason to Wang Ying in advance. In order to achieve a successful cooperation that time, Zhang Yuan drank a lot of wine with his client, and was finally drunk and unconscious.

It was a female colleague from Zhang Yuan’s company who sent him home. At that time, Zhang Yuan could not stand firmly. The female colleague had been supporting him and took him downstairs to the community, where he happened to be taken out to take out the garbage. Wang Ying saw it.

Wang Ying's face became ugly at that time. Seeing that the situation was not good, the female colleague handed Zhang Yuan into Wang Ying's hands and left quickly.

From that time on, Wang Ying became suspicious. She always felt that Zhang Yuan was having an affair with a female colleague. She waited downstairs for Zhang Yuan to get off work every day, which made Zhang Yuan's colleagues laugh at him.

Zhang Yuan advised Wang Ying not to come to the company again. Wang Ying immediately jumped up and said that Zhang Yuan did not dare to let her pick him up from get off work because of her guilty conscience. His suspicions were further confirmed and he went to Zhang Yuan's company to cause trouble.

The female colleague was an unmarried woman, and her innocent reputation was framed by her. The female colleague ran to the leader to complain.

After the leader's clarification, it was proved that the two of them had no inappropriate relationship, but Zhang Yuan's incident had a negative impact on the company, and the leader fired him with justifiable reasons.

Zhang Yuan couldn't bear it and chose to divorce. When he divorced, he left a message to Wang Ying: Your suspicion hurt me and ended our ten-year marriage.

There is nothing wrong in the world, and it’s up to the mediocre to disturb themselves. Because Wang Ying lacked a sense of security, she passed this bad factor onto her husband. All day long, there are bows, snakes, shadows, and all the grass and trees are soldiers.

She didn’t even trust a man who had slept with her for ten years. What she did violated a taboo in marriage. What men hate most is women being suspicious and making things out of nothing.

A woman's distrust of herself often makes a man lose face. Such a relationship between husband and wife is like a bow that is too tight and may break at any time.

For two people to come together, it is not just about love. The key is to trust each other and not to do stupid things impulsively and destroy a family because of your own suspicions.