This paragraph is so sad!
But when asked about director Ang Lee's thoughts on this passage, the director said a meaningful sentence:
I may say hello all my life, and I seldom have a chance to say goodbye!
It seems that constantly meeting new people will make us less sorry when our friends leave!
Shy babies find it hard in their hearts-
In fact, before making friends, you need to learn how to strike up a conversation and chat.
From meeting to chatting, from chatting to becoming friends, I don't know how many steps there are. Do you know some details?
If you want to learn and do the above three points, you must learn to deal with strangers and establish relationships. Does teaching really take a few days?
Here are some simple tips for you:
One? Invest time, or it's no use contacting us.
Send business cards to everyone,
Shake hands, give your name and route, and then call.
Why does it feel like business instead of making friends?
That's right. If you want to contact me in social situations, it's actually a coincidence not to say three words.
You left without saying anything? Hey, you said you really wanted to know me. If you want to know me, why do you want to talk to me again 10 yuan?
That's it-
Think about it, did you talk for a long time at the party through friends you met at social occasions?
That's it!
You need to spend some time talking to the people you want to see!
At the end of last year, there was an expert gathering. I just sat in my seat and didn't go back and forth too much to meet new people. I still made 3-4 friends during the 2-3 hour party.
Yes, you just need to talk to people you want to know more about.
I chatted with a radio host about her career development and listened to her story for about 15 minutes.
Two days ago, she read my article on WeChat official account and said that she wanted to record it as a voice version and play it on her program.
I had a long chat with another girl who was doing micro-plastic surgery, and then we exchanged a lot on WeChat.
There is also a girl who does image design, and later we also made an appointment to meet for afternoon tea.
These people are all friends who talked for a while at the party at that time.
If you can't talk to each other for more than 10 minutes, then basically your initial hierarchical relationship can't be established. Even if you want to get the contact information, there will be no in-depth communication.
So, is it an important skill to learn to chat and spend more time with the people you want to see?
Second, chatting means that you say one thing and I say another.
Many shy babies will say that I don't know what to say when others come to talk to me.
Many people have encountered similar embarrassment!
Seriously, in this example above, neither of them is done well?
1. The person initiating the conversation needs to leave room for the other party to answer the phone:
I like the necklace you are wearing. It's beautiful! Where did you buy it? I wonder if I should give one to my friend as a birthday present.
There are details, there are future actions, and there is room for the other party to take a message. It will also instantly make the other party feel that an unintentional small match can also affect others, and the two are still strangers. It feels so good!
When you answer someone's words, you must look concerned about them:
"Well, you also feel good. Actually, it's quite appropriate to give a girl a birthday present. You really care about your friends. " After chatting for a while, remember to compliment each other: Look at this one you are wearing (your hair is beautiful, your glasses frame is beautiful, your clothes are in good color, etc.). Just chatting. It's important to say something about me.
Note: If the other party just says something when breaking the ice, don't be too addicted to the topic of Taobao Bay. You need to draw your attention back to the current conversation or the other person at an appropriate time.
3? When you respond, you can show your curiosity and ask questions to lead to the next topic.
How do you usually kill time when you are not at work?
I like playing ball and reading books. What about you?
Don't underestimate this "what about you", many people are really sincere babies, and you can't answer anything others ask. Adding "what about you" to the response will make the other person feel that you are willing to talk to him.
You can use short questions to keep the conversation going, or you can learn more about each other from their words and find the next topic.
Is it that simple?
Three? "I'm hot and beautiful. Why don't you know me?" Bah?
It's very important to put your mind right. Everyone wants to be a princess, not a waiter.
So, don't be too arrogant.
In social life, don't think that you are a queen or a king. Why should others kneel down and lick you?
If you want to make friends, you have to move on! Otherwise, all the handsome guys and beautiful women are hooked up by enthusiastic and active people like me.
Quietly tell you a secret:
If two people have the same level of face value, you will be more likely to make friends with someone who is passionate about you without knowing who is more helpful or beneficial to you!
Everybody does!
So, if you have a crush on someone, and your face value is not as good as that of Song Hye Kyo or Song Joong Ki, then I suggest you take the initiative to express your affection, because you will get a response from others more easily.
Again, it really takes a long time to talk about how to chat and make friends. Let's discuss this question a little today. Everyone usually uses it.
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(Note: Just after Tanabata, many children say they have no object! You know, making friends is a prelude to making friends. You haven't talked about the prelude yet. Where are the partners? )