Personality condition is the first condition to become a relationship counselor. The so-called personality refers to a person's whole mental outlook, which is the sum total of certain inclined and stable psychological characteristics, including temperament, personality, interests, beliefs and abilities. It is necessary to clarify the purpose of individuals to engage in the gender relationship counseling industry.

If you lack sympathy and caring character, can't be honest with others, can't win trust, and lack sensitivity to interpersonal relationships, you can't become a qualified consultant.

Two, with rich professional knowledge and skilled professional skills.

It is necessary to master professional knowledge, but it is not enough to have professional knowledge. How to turn these professional knowledge into your own business is very important! Consulting is a major, which has its own theory, method and technology, but the biggest feature is that we are an application part.

Third, resist the pressure of consultation.

New consultants are easily influenced by the words and deeds of visitors. For example, a disdainful look from a visitor or a dissatisfied sentence can make the consultant fall into deep remorse and guilt.

Consultants must have a supercilious attitude: as long as I am present, I am worth the price. Being able to face the "persecution" of visitors calmly (most of them come directly to find the answer), that is, the consultant has been abused for thousands of times and treats visitors like first love, even if he is a qualified consultant.