However, a micro-video I saw on the Internet subverted my view that not all parents are suitable for "thinking about change if they are poor".
The three protagonists in the video, one is distressing, the other is admirable, and the other is so angry that he wants to say that he doesn't deserve to have children.
Have you ever heard of anyone who leads a three-year-old child from an employer to find his parents? Ordinary people will find it incredible that such a small child is not a treasure in the hands of parents.
However, this thing really happened. In Guiyang, Aunt Tian works as a nanny in a family. One day, the employer and his wife discussed with Aunt Tian that the house they lived in was rented and they didn't want to rent it. They asked Aunt Tian to help them bring their children back to their hometown, paying 6,000 yuan a month and signing the contract.
Aunt Tian doesn't want to promise. After all, it's hard to explain why someone's child ran into it. As a result, my aunt said all the good things and asked Aunt Tian for help. Finally, Aunt Tian promised to take her children back to their hometown.
After Aunt Tian took the child back, more than a year passed, and the family only gave Aunt 10,000 yuan. She owed 48,000 last year and 36,000 this year. What's more, the parents of the child have never seen the child.
In a blink of an eye, the child will be three years old and has reached the age of entering kindergarten. Aunt Tian contacted the mother of the child. At first, his mother said that she would try her best to return the money to Aunt Tian. Later, she changed her mind and asked Aunt Tian to find the father of the child. Mother told Aunt Tian that she had divorced her father, who had several houses outside. During this period, the child's mother never showed up.
Aunt Tian had no choice but to turn around and contact the father of the child. The father of the child is even more wonderful. He doesn't answer the phone or send text messages. Anyway, he has been in a state of losing contact.
In the video, Aunt Tian holds her child and looks helpless and worried. She said that salary is a trivial matter and the children are growing up. When she is old enough to go to kindergarten, she can't delay her child's future. She hopes that the parents of the child can take the child back as soon as possible and put an end to this matter.
The chubby three-year-old child is holding Aunt Tian's hand tightly. Perhaps in his heart, Aunt Tian is his closest relative. A simple child, I hope he will not leave the psychological shadow of being abandoned by his biological parents.
Some people occupy the title of parents, but they are not worthy of the word "parents".
Children have no choice but to be brought into this world, but they can choose whether to be parents or not. I hope those who can't be parents, choose carefully, like the parents above, will harm others and themselves!