We can't escape the crowd who are good at pointing fingers, and we can't escape the seclusion of Nan Shanmei's wife, He Zi, and die alone. Therefore, we should listen to others' demands with a smile and say: What you said is true. Then swallow the sentence: but I don't live for you. When you are manic, you are a person who has accomplished nothing. When you are unhappy, it is you who are more difficult.