I think the difference between the two (I don't think it is a gap) should be divided into two types:

1. Family brought it to you.

Personal efforts have brought you.

Let's talk about what family has brought you:

1. The first is the appearance.

This era looks beautiful, but in fact, dressing and makeup is more important than natural beauty, because most people are ordinary people. Nowadays, dressing up is very expensive. 3000+ for a good dress and 500+ for cosmetics. And rich girls don't have to worry about the future, they can live more easily day by day, and then they will look young.

2. Education boils down to.

Nowadays, education is really a financial competition to a great extent, such as studying American books. I know a rich girl, from primary school to university to graduate school, almost all of them went to good schools. We rely on our strength, and she relies on her parents. According to her real ability, she won't sit in the same classroom with us at all. She just passed the college entrance examination, but she went to a hot major in a good university. Then the graduate students went to an American minority college of arts and sciences to study business.

Speaking of ability, I think she is really average. She is not only gifted but also hard-working, but she has been in a good school and with excellent classmates, which is brought to her by her family.

3. Intelligence

Because there is no need to consider livelihood, rich girls generally have a better mentality and a better life.

As for what personal efforts have brought you, I think there is no gap between people, they are all made by themselves. In this respect, there is almost no difference between the two.

About finding a husband, I really want to tell you that it varies from person to person:

1. I am excellent and my family is relatively rich. I am really rich and handsome. I don't care about the woman's family when I find a girlfriend. Because he has everything he needs. He will pay great attention to her own characteristics, such as appearance, cultivation, speech and knowledge.

I talked to Fu Shuai about the rich girl I mentioned before, and most of them said they didn't like such a girl, because when she went out, her family was really an ordinary girl.

He looks ordinary, but he is a fake Gao Fushuai at home. He usually listens to the advice of his family, because he can look good, largely because of his family. If he loses these, he is also an ordinary person.

Therefore, my conclusion is that no matter what people are looking for, the ox people will eventually be with the ox people.