When you vent, have you ever experienced the pain of others?

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I used to be selfish, impulsive, unreasonable, regardless of anyone's feelings, just to defend my instant dignity; But in the process of growing up and thinking mature, I began to feel lonely, inferior, sad and helpless. At this time, I gradually realized how ignorant and naive I used to be. Desperate venting has deeply hurt others.

Man-a spirit unmatched by any living thing on earth.

The reason why people don't have fighting scenes as often as animals is because people's thinking is comprehensive. People should not only grow physically, but also go through the process of ideological maturity. It's really hard to be a man, because you have to stand in the other person's perspective and consider what kind of fluctuations your words and deeds have caused to the other person's emotions. In fact, maturity is essentially synonymous with the gradual development of comprehensive thinking. Any mature person, when he has completed his heart,

It all stems from empathy. She is a shining wisdom, a rational traction, a touch of faint fragrance, a low-key detachment, and an tolerance that saves the day. Liu bang will be lenient with others because he can understand the subordinates who make mistakes from the perspective of others; Cao Cao will tolerate betrayed soldiers because he can understand the escape psychology of soldiers when the enemy is strong and we are weak. Empathy can produce great personality strength, with strong cohesion and appeal. It is like a clear spring, which douses the anxiety fire of resentment and jealousy, and can turn conflict into peace and hostility into friendship.

It is a selfish outlook on life to stick to one's own opinions without considering each other's needs. When Zhou Wang indulged in luxury, pleasure and pleasure, did he ever realize the pain of fame? When the sages were demoted, did the emperor realize the sad life after being demoted and touched the hearts of loyal ministers? Stars die because of public opinion. Do those who dig other people's privacy know the embarrassment after privacy is turned into a public topic? Why do they only consider their own gains and losses and pursue themselves in their own world? Why do they only base their happiness on the suffering of others? That way of living is detestable and despicable.

Empathy just makes you think more comprehensively, just a small compromise, just a small change, maybe just a moment, maybe just a change, and you can have a bright future. When you are venting your emotions, consider whether you have hurt others, perhaps unconsciously causing others' disgust, or inadvertently damaging the bridge of communication between you and your friends. Controversy is coming, change your position first and then consider it. Such a simple procedure, try to change your attitude, go beyond your own point of view and think for each other. You will find that it makes details interesting, resolves conflicts, lengthens your sad face, and.

Perhaps, only when you really feel the pain caused by each other's words and deeds will you know how important empathy is. Then when you are angry, please remember: put yourself in the other's shoes and think of the realm.