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My son is eight years old. He is a left-behind child. He is very naughty and makes mistakes all day. What should I do?
It is normal for an 8-year-old child to be naughty in the second grade. Don't worry about it.

First of all, we must understand why children are naughty.

For naughty children, in fact, from another angle, you should be happy, because such children have flexible minds and active thinking. Have you ever seen a silly child naughty?

There are many reasons why children are naughty: First, they have few friends, do some things and make trouble, trying to attract the attention of people around them, including parents and left-behind children, who are usually less concerned by their parents. Once parents are at home, in order to take care of their children, parents often use materials to satisfy their children. In fact, children at this stage need "playmates" more; Secondly, children's behavior habits may have disadvantages. Of course, there are no big shortcomings here, just some manners, cleanliness, hygiene, psychological activities and so on. Parents or teachers here should guide them correctly.

To find the right reason, we must prescribe the right medicine. In addition to playing with peers, children are very willing to play with adults if they are childlike, and they are also very happy to play with adults. Only in this way will they treat you as a friend and tell you everything. In the process of playing, you should find the right time to correct his bad behavior and habits. For example, you two are playing a game of "fighting", and the child may take a wooden stick as a gun and dance with it. If this happens in school, it is likely to injure other children by mistake. At this time, when you play with him, tell him in the child's voice first: "This is very dangerous and it is easy to poke others' eyes. " .。 . How about we make guns by hand? "If he really doesn't listen, during the game, you pretend to be" injured ",cover your head and make a painful expression, and then secretly observe his reaction. At this time, children will generally stop and be at a loss. At this time, you should find the right time and tell him that it's just a minor injury, nothing, but you must be careful in the future, because you almost poked your eyes and so on. And tell him with examples, life.

In short, these processes are mostly guided by children's parents or teachers, and cannot be solved by simply beating, scolding and blaming. Children of this age don't understand most of the truth. They will only be intimidated by adults, but they won't understand, which will lay a lot of bane for their future growth.

In addition to the above guidance, we should care about our children more often than spoil them. We should make more friends and playmates with our children. After grade five, our children will be better.

Don't worry, your child is very clever. If you guide him well, he will succeed in the future.

Pure hands, I hope I can help you, thank you.