Daughter Cindy has been born for 8 months. (I can call it Mom C for short) It's too hard to shit around her every day. She should be given a record of her growing experience, and when she gets married in the future, it will be used as a dowry. Who told her mother that I quit my job and have children? That's all that's left.
Isn't it popular to have children in the United States, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, France, Germany, Japan and South Korea? That's nothing. I'm going to give birth in Phuket, Thailand.
Eight months pregnant
After full term, my parents came to Phuket from China to live with me. Friends around me heard that I actually gave birth in Thailand and began to worry about me. My parents are even surrounded by all kinds of public opinion. There is no water heater in Thailand, so bathing is cold water! The situation in Thailand is very chaotic. What if Phuket was bombed and the hospital was razed to the ground? Thailand is a shemale. Very dirty. What should I do if my baby is infected with infectious diseases? There are many ghosts in Thailand. Weak after confinement will be haunted by ghosts! Thailand is full of drug dealers. What if the child is sold? Thai hospitals are poor in technology, and ordinary diseases will die if they are not cured. . . . . . As a nurse, my mother is not worried about the medical technology and environment in Thailand. She is also curious about what it's like to give birth in Thailand. Before I came here, I taught myself a midwifery course, and I brought my own first-aid medicine, syringe and infusion set. I am ready to rush to the front line to save me at any time in case the Thai people are not skilled when giving birth. Oh, my God, where are we going to Thailand? This is the rhythm of going to Africa to support! Phuket is like this, okay!
Anantara Beach, Phuket
My baby and I both like swimming.
2013165438+1On the afternoon of October 9, the family drove to the hospital nervously and excitedly. My parents came to the hospital in Phuket for the first time. Bangkok Hospital, the most authoritative hospital in Thailand, is said to have plastic surgery, sex change and IVF in the center of Phuket (that is, boys, girls and twins). The hospital didn't give me an advertising rebate. I will get some when I have time.
The hospital has western food and Thai food.
Rest area
There are also Thai musical instruments to adjust the mood of patients' families.
The nurse is so melancholy.
My attending midwife is a man! ! !
This is the baby he delivered and the most skilled doctor in the hospital.
I'm going to be tortured
Last ultrasound before delivery.
Along the way, I still complained that my husband came to the hospital too early and his contractions were irregular. Afraid of being thrown in the corridor or pushed to the cold delivery room early, I can't wait to sneak home when I think about it. We all came to the production area of obstetrics and gynecology with uneasy hearts. The midwife arranged us in the waiting room and pushed open the door: TV, computer, sofa, refrigerator, dining table, bathroom, toilet and various monitoring equipment. This is the legendary operating room for giving birth? It's different from the TV series!
This door is to enter the sacred production area.
The director of the waiting room is like this
Honey, my parents can stay with me in this room. I suddenly relaxed, tied with various testing instruments to watch TV, my husband surfed the Internet, and my parents sat on the sofa chatting with me. The nurse's internal examination hasn't been opened yet. It is estimated that she will have a baby the next day after sleeping all night. The midwife will always accompany me and start to explain to me how to feel contractions, how to count contractions, how to use force during childbirth, and so on. My husband translated for my parents while listening, and the whole family took prenatal classes together. My mother blamed my father and said that when I was born, I was not alone in it! I don't know what the women in it have suffered. Do you think women are great when you see these cold instruments below? Do you think a man who quarrels with his wife should kneel and scrub ~ ~ ~)
Wait for the baby to start.
I dare not look directly at this terrible thing.
The midwife gave me a hundred thousand answers to why.
In the evening, my parents were arranged to live in the family room upstairs in the hospital, which is the ward where I will live after giving birth. This solves our big problem, otherwise my parents can't speak the language, my husband can't accompany me, and I will go out to find a nearby hotel. Watching nurses and waiters smile patiently is simply KTV's kneeling service. My parents said: this can also follow people with children. The key word is: no money! No money! No money!
The atmosphere in this corridor
My husband and I were left in the delivery room to rest, waiting for my daughter to start. I can't sleep, listening to the quiet corridor outside, why can't I hear the woman who gave birth? After reading many mother's delivery strategies, I am most afraid of listening to the screams of pregnant women waiting for contractions. Are all the rooms in Phuket Hospital soundproofed? I never understood. I will definitely study it when I have a second child.
I gave birth in a closed room.
Open three fingers, I can also concave the shape.
Feeling the contractions getting stronger and stronger, the midwife came in and started to accompany me, touching my stomach, counting my contractions, smiling all the time, telling me to stick to the natural delivery and not to give up, and they would help me together! At this time, I officially opened the Xianglinsao model. As long as someone comes in, I will recite the scriptures. I want a natural delivery, not a side cut. I want a natural delivery, not a side cut. Since I was pregnant, I have been trying to learn the methods of natural childbirth, yoga for pregnant women, weight control, swimming, going up and down stairs and jasmine tea. I'm almost ready for the Olympics. I am most afraid that the doctor will come over and sentence coldly: cut!
Open seven fingers, I have lost my way.
It's been two hours, and the contractions are regular, and each time they are more intense. I want to make the legendary painless that can make people ascend to heaven instantly! I started chanting again: I want to be painless! I don't want to suffer! The midwife doesn't give me pain, because I can't do it. Let me insist! At this time, there are 7 fingers in the internal examination. In order to keep my strength, I didn't shout, just snorted and didn't give me any pain. I just mumbled: all liars! They are all liars! They are all liars! My husband and my mother were studying whether I was a little delirious and talking nonsense, so they called the midwife. The midwife pushed a little anesthetic into the infusion bottle of oxytocin. I want money? No money, more! In an instant, I floated up, and this is the feel!
(This is 10. My fingers are all open, and I am completely devastated. )
In fact, I haven't reached the point where I tore my heart out and grabbed the railing to tear up the list. I thought it would be a long time. At this time, the internal inspection 10 fingers are fully open! It's only been three hours, and every time the midwife opens 1, she will inform the midwife's delivery team to give guidance outside 10 Finger: 1 Finger! Three fingers! Seven fingers! 10 is what it means! Every time I received the notice, they were happier than when I received the instruction. They came in to encourage me, and said it was fast. The doctor said you were going to have a baby around 3 o'clock.
After receiving the instruction of 10 to open the fingers completely, the nurse asked my parents to leave the room and turn off the TV in an instant. Only the nervous husband stood next to me with a mask and a sterile hat. Eight people suddenly appeared in the room, and all kinds of surgical instruments, production instruments and baby examination instruments were pushed in, and the room suddenly became an operation site. I don't even have to move, just lie there and be slaughtered.
(Hey Mom! My husband's style! )
My attending doctor finally appeared at the moment when my 10 fingers were completely open. His opening remarks are: natural delivery, because it is cheap! When he was fully armed, he told me: when the contractions came, it was as hard as shit! The point is very simple, suitable for me with short circuit at this time. Looking at the people around me, I probably remember eight people. I can only see their eyes, which are all encouragement! Contractions are coming, and my soprano should come in handy at this time. Shout: ah! ! ! . A midwife guides: one zero three. Then all the midwives and male doctors shouted together: Ah! ! ! My husband also shouted to me: Ah! ! ! The delivery room is like a sacred ceremony held by a tribe in Thailand, and there are voices everywhere. Drowned the voice of a pregnant woman. I feel very powerful. Every time the contractions come, everyone shouts with me: Ah! ! ! My parents also told me afterwards: it's too emotional to have children among you! I've never seen so many people shout together! It only took 15 minutes, and the baby came out with a whoosh and put it on my stomach. I was shocked. I didn't expect to be born so fast! The first thing I saw the baby say turned out to be: shit! What single eyelid!
After examining the baby quickly and treating my wound, the nurse immediately taught me how to breastfeed. She brought the baby over and put it on me to suck. Does it have to be so soon? I am still hungry! ! ! When the baby is born, he will use * * * and suck it hard. The nurse requires that it be sucked every 15 minutes, so that the breast milk will come down quickly and can be fed smoothly!
Wow! It was born!
Please ignore my messy shape. Is it easy to have children?
After that, I was escorted to my ward by nurses, nurses and doctors. The moon meal has been put in my room. After the break 1 hour, a nurse will supervise me to take a bath, urinate, walk around the ground, eat more fruits and defecate as soon as possible. The nurse supervised more diligently than my own mother, and was arrested several times for being lazy. During the hospitalization, I didn't have to walk, and the nurse escorted me in a wheelchair. I'm just responsible for guiding him where to go. Before leaving the hospital, there will be one-on-one neonatal nursing course teaching, which will teach me how to care for my baby when I get home very carefully. Everything is so smooth!
The baby finally landed safely.
There are balloons.
Moon meal collocation is very scientific, Thai pregnant women must drink ginger tea, probably the same as brown sugar water.
There are all mountains outside the window, which is beautiful.
He was soon urged to take a bath and take a walk in the field.
3 hours ultra-fast delivery, the cost is about 7000 RMB. There is no pain, there is a side cut, there is no way, who makes the baby's head big! I thought I would die in pain in a foreign country where I didn't understand Thai, or be threatened with being stabbed in the stomach by a doctor, or my child was abducted by a doctor at birth, or my kidney was cut off and sold when I was in a coma. . . All kinds of worries have been rejected. Thai kindness, Thai smile and Thai medical skill all made me have no shadow when I gave birth, but full of happiness. Well ~ ~ ~ you can consider having a second child!