Recently, there is a saying, "My parents gave birth to me, and the plastic surgeon made me!" A joke. This sentence shows the proliferation of plastic surgery and the development of plastic technology in Korea. However, as long as plastic surgery, you can get rid of this situation?
Through the job of stewardess, I have met countless people all over the world. This experience also established my view on appearance. Congenital appearance is important, but more importantly, the expression on your face and the degree of inner confidence, even if they look exactly the same, will look very different with the difference of expression and confidence.
No matter how beautiful a person is, if he doesn't modify his appearance, his beauty will disappear. On the contrary, believe in your own value and dress up carefully, with the right hairstyle, choose clothes that can highlight your own advantages. Even if you look ordinary, you can become a fashionable and rich person. Besides, if you always smile, you will definitely be considered attractive.
Although the face can be shaped, the expression can't. Moreover, as long as you work hard, you can change your expression, and everyone can find their own unique expression.
Recently, I watched a TV program with the theme of transforming a housewife who has no time to dress up properly. After changing the feminine hairstyle, she became a completely different person through clothing, modeling and makeup. Miraculously, I dressed up and went to my husband's company, but my husband didn't recognize my wife and went straight over. Therefore, it is very important to shape the shape that suits you, and people will look like 180 degrees.
A few years ago, I worked for the comedian Hong Luji on the plane. Although, his appearance is nothing like a handsome man. However, although he was not dressed formally that day, he could still see that his modeling took some effort and he had a different fashion sense from others. Everyone calls him a fashionista in the entertainment circle, and he really lives up to his reputation. In addition, his charm is not only his appearance, but also a pleasure to chat with him. Thanks to him, I had a pleasant flying time and sincerely felt that he was a really attractive person.
I became a cockpit master around the age of 35, but for me, such success is not entirely a good thing. As a team leader, besides having my own job to do, the most stressful thing for me is to help the flight attendants score a * * * point every time they fly. In other words, it is a very important evaluation to convert the performance of each flight attendant into the number of components as the basis for future promotion decisions.
Therefore, it is necessary to give an objective score for each flight attendant's work performance and service attitude. But because the team leader has his own work to do, there is no way to follow the team members all day. Especially for large aircraft, there will be nearly 20 flight attendants in each flight; On a short flight, it is impossible to carefully observe the work of each team member and then give an evaluation. In order to solve this problem, I specially consulted a senior who is famous for his work ability and rich experience.
"Liu Duichang, what do you think of this player? It is difficult to do my job well. It's impossible to watch them work one by one, which really bothers me. 」
"When I evaluate, I will look at this person's appearance first." I'm a little unhappy to hear that. "What is this? Too much! What should I do if I only like beautiful people! 」
When I first joined the company's distribution team, he was the cockpit owner at that time. To me, it's like a father. I was really disappointed to hear him say that, so he began to persuade me.
"Golden cockpit, I didn't mean that. Does the owner of the golden cockpit only grade the flight attendants on the plane? 」
"No, starting from the briefing time before take-off, I will start asking about flight-related information and see how they answer, because I have to carefully study and prepare flight-related matters before take-off. 」
"I mean, there is one more thing to observe during the briefing. 」
"Hey? 」
"That is, people's appearance, pay attention to his appearance and clothes. If his clothes are neat, it can be judged that he is a person who manages himself well. In other words, people who take good care of their appearance and keep their uniforms clean will definitely try their best to finish the work. 」
After listening, I totally agree with what he said. Because I have hardly seen anyone who looks neat and beautiful, but works uneasily. In addition, the flight attendant is not allowed to have any messy hair, the hairstyle must be fresh and neat, the nail polish should always be neat and beautiful, the uniform should not have any wrinkles, and the shoes should be polished.
If the stewardess's uniform is stained with coffee stains, long hair and Chili powder stuck between her teeth, it will not only look uncomfortable, but also be difficult to give a reliable impression. Be sure to check your clothes and appearance again before you go to the passengers.
Can you give others a sense of trust today? Asking yourself such questions is the first step in shaping your image. As the saying goes, "If you don't cut the jade, you won't be able to cut it." No matter how beautiful it is, if you don't dress up, you can't give full play to this advantage, and you can't let others know. If you are not satisfied with your original appearance, think about yourself from now on! Only in this way can it become a dazzling jade.
Other people's impressions of me are engraved in their minds when they first met, so the first impression is not easy to change. Because every time that person thinks of me, his mind will keep thinking of things he remembered before. Although it is difficult to be a beautiful person in others' eyes, you can be attractive in others' eyes through hard work. The memory of handsome men and beautiful women is easy to forget, but attractive people can make people forget.
This article is authorized by the times/the charm of Kimberly: a shocking technology.
Charm: a shocking technology.