Simply put, it is to manage yourself into a male god according to the needs of the girl market. Through the expression of male gods, we can make love and life smoother and better convey our thoughts and ideas, that's all.
In fact, there are very few congenital male gods, and most of them are designed and operated through the day after tomorrow. In the American presidential election, image designers carefully designed all the factors that would affect them, such as clothes, hairstyles, voices, gestures, postures and expressions.
Again, being a male god does not make you a different person, but through some methods and skills, polish yourself from the inside out and show your best self.
The method is not difficult, the important thing is to stick to it. If you are ready, let's try it together!
First of all, do you have a strong desire to change? Different intensity of will will lead to completely different results. Therefore, first of all, we must be clear about our goals and strengthen our motivation. According to the SMART principles of management by objectives: 1, clarity, 2, measurability, 3, acceptability, 4, relevance and 5, time-limited. Make the goal concrete: ask yourself how long you want it to last, what it will be like ... write it down and see how to achieve it.
Self-orientation: Ask yourself, what kind of feeling do you want to create? What kind of message do you want to convey? Do you prefer the big brother type like Huang Lei, the funny type like Show Lo, or the idiot type like Lu Han ... According to your own characteristics, tap your own bright spots and list your own advantages.
As long as you look for it, you can always find some touching points.
Images, your most direct display.
Some boys think that the smell of wine is not afraid of the depth of the alley. As long as you are talented, you will shine sooner or later. This view is out of date. In people's sensory system, the proportion of most people using vision is much higher than that of feeling and hearing. This part is done subconsciously.
Therefore, image will affect most people's psychological judgments and results. If the first impression of you is good, then good information will be collected to confirm her first impression in the future contact process. If she has a bad first impression of you, she will also collect negative information to confirm her first impression of you.
This is a two-minute world. You only have one minute to show people who you are, and another minute to make them like you. If you miss this opportunity, it will take a lot of time and energy to prove your ability in the future.
Many men don't care much about image, which is why if you care, don't you stand out?
1, figure-is the best decoration.
Your figure is the best ornament, muscle lines and clothes can't be hidden. Maybe, your girlfriend will say "I just like your little belly", honey, don't take it seriously. Look at her favorite star. Which one is pregnant? Muscle tension feels different.
Find your favorite sport. Whether it's swimming, playing ball, equipment ... as long as your emotional elephant is willing to cooperate, you can try it. The premise is that the calorie intake is greater than the calorie intake. Many friends go to eat and drink after exercise, and go straight to bed after dinner, giving up all their previous efforts.
If you are a little fat, slimming down will already have a plastic effect.
2, hairstyle-is the beginning of concentration
Hair is the closest decoration to the face, and the important role of hairstyle is self-evident.
Talk to the barber more and find the hairstyle that suits you best. If you want to dye your hair, choose your own color system.
3, clothing-appropriate is more important than expensive.
Refer to the size of your body feeling and the straight curve of the outline to find the clothing style that suits you, and choose the clothing that suits you according to the suitable color and style.
Pay attention to the first principle of dressing when dressing. Time, place and place are all important. If the occasion is wrong, no matter how handsome the dress is, it will be particularly abrupt.
4, self-confidence-from the books you have read, the roads you have traveled, and the things you have experienced.
But many boys are not unattractive, just don't know why, just don't have confidence. This timid expression has been greatly deducted, and we will find that not all male gods are handsome, but they all have natural and unquestionable self-confidence.
Where does people's confidence come from? On the one hand, it comes from our self-awareness and on the other hand, it comes from external feedback.
Simply put, self-confidence comes from the books you have read, the roads you have traveled and the things you have experienced, which will all grow into a part of you.
We will find that many Korean stars will have a transformation after joining the army, more determined, stronger and more masculine, which is the light that can only bloom after a certain experience.
Appropriate social activities can help you improve and understand the mode of getting along with others. If you live in an old house, you will lose many opportunities to experience and your social skills will gradually deteriorate.
Read more, walk more, see more and experience more. How much experience will make you calm down when you encounter something. How much knowledge you have can also increase your wisdom and your spirit of keeping calm in times of crisis.
When you have a comprehensive understanding of yourself, you will find that, perhaps, you are not as bad as you think, but actually quite good.
5, talk-practice eyes, smile, voice.
Concentrated eyes
The eyes of male gods are lethal, and the concentration of eyes is the most obvious signal of "listening" and also the feedback to the speaker. Look around, dodge, erratic eyes make people feel disgusted and misunderstood. Practice your eyes, even the smallest eyes can emit charming light.
Smiling expression
You Jin once wrote: "Smile! Let the sunshine break through the haze and let the warmth replace the cold. Laughter is a silent courtesy, and a smile makes you win the world. "
Practice your most lethal smile in front of the mirror. It doesn't have to bloom for everyone, but seeing her will be very lethal.
sound
Some boys said, "I have been communicating well with her on WeChat, but she was cold when she called, which made me very depressed."
In interpersonal communication, 58% is achieved by vision and 35% by hearing, which includes sound quality, audio, intonation, tone and pause. In telephone communication, voice accounts for 90% of the communication effect. The generous and deep voice makes people feel authoritative, credible and reliable. If the voice is unclear, the breath is too weak and too girly ... it will directly affect the feelings and results of the other party.
You can record your voice and listen to it. Is it too fast or too slow, with a strong accent? Whether listening is pleasant, clear and clear will give people a feeling of powerlessness, and then make targeted adjustments.
6. Communication-find communication channels and keep positive and optimistic.
Pay more attention to emotions and less attention to preaching.
The root of the quarrel between boys and girls is often not the problem itself, but the way of expression. Girls are more inclined to express their emotions, while boys are more inclined to be reasonable. The more reasonable they are, the more emotional they will collapse. Therefore, at this time, more efforts should be made to appease each other's emotions and less preaching, so that girls' emotional reactions will be less intense.
Have a sense of humor, positive and optimistic.
A goddess said that boyfriends are standard. "Making me laugh is the most important thing."
Even if some boys are not handsome, they have a good sense of humor and can get extra points. Who doesn't like people who make themselves happy? When you are struggling with depression and sadness, it is easy to hit her emotional elephant when there is a humorous person around you who makes her laugh.
However, the sense of humor is not low. Smart people are not necessarily humorous, but humorous people must be smart. Humor is actually a kind of life wisdom, which comes from life. At the same time, giving positive feedback in life can find more beauty in life and keep a positive state.
Remember, humor is not the same as satire. Sometimes you can laugh at yourself, but don't take irony as humor. Everyone has the quality of flash. Don't be a professional critic and be picky everywhere.
7. Planned, responsible and not stingy.
You may not succeed in your career, but don't be as confused as a headless fly. At least you should know what you want, have a clear plan for your future, and have the strength to realize it step by step. People with clear goals and firm eyes bring their own light.
Have responsibility, don't shirk, have a sense of responsibility. If you are a man, you have to bear what a man should bear.
It's not stingy, on the one hand, it's economic. It's not necessary for all boys to pay the bill, depending on your specific situation. However, if you need to pay the bill, don't talk about it. It's very expensive. On the other hand, being stingy, oversensitive and narrow-minded is also a taboo.
8. Details-Tell your story
Self-cultivation is often not in big things, but in small things that I have never been careless about. Reveal your problems silently and tell others your story quietly. For example, do you spit everywhere? Will there be falling dandruff? Can you shake your legs? The smell of your body ... it is these details that may be overlooked that will ruin the image you have worked so hard to create.
The end said:
Body language is more subtle and credible than language. If you want to present the feeling of a male god, you must psychologically believe that you are a male god. You can dress like that until you become like that. So, let's start with a small adjustment to change your body shape.
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