"I want to give my children what they think is best. Turned into such tears. " On May 27th, the author of Weibo Great V@, who has been questioning the Wangs for the first time, published an Weibo, apologizing to the Wangs, civil affairs, public security, village cadres and all those who were hurt in the storm.
Wang Henan, a three-year-old girl, died of retinoblastoma on May 4, 20 18. On May 24th, an official WeChat account published the article "The Death of Wang's Child", accusing his mother of using her daughter's illness to raise 6.5438+0.5 million yuan in donations on platforms such as water drop raising and volcano video, but not using the donations to treat her daughter's illness, but to treat her younger son's cleft lip and "cheat with little hope of survival".
Subsequently, Wang's family was denounced by netizens. In the plight of poor rural families facing cancer, family members and volunteers once fell into the "Rashomon" of mutual distrust and mutual accusation.
From May 25th to May 27th, a large number of media reporters always gathered in Wang Jiali, Liangwen Village, Zhangji Town, Taikang County, Henan Province. On the afternoon of May 25, facing the lens of media reporters, Yang Meiqin said, "Without money, she can't get the best treatment." She couldn't go on, crying almost fainted and shaking all over.
She also told reporters that her family was unwilling to accept Chen Lan's apology. Next, they will defend their rights according to law. If the negotiation fails, they will sue the relevant public welfare people who participated in the hype.
Debate on "fraudulent donation"
As early as April 8th this year, Weibo's "Little Tree of Hope" and Weibo's "Writer Chen Lan" began to publish articles in Weibo, questioning Yang Meiqin's fraudulent donation. On May 24th, the article "The Death of a Prince and Daughter" pushed Wang Taiyou and his family to the forefront of public opinion.
As pointed out in the article, Wang Taiyou denied that his family used the money to treat his grandson's harelip. He said that his grandson's rabbit lip was treated in April of 20 17, and Wang found out that eye cancer was in June of 1 1 year. The expenses for treating rabbit lip were borne by the Angel Fund, and there was no possibility of misappropriating funds.
A staff member of Beijing Yanran Angel Children's Hospital confirmed Wang Taiyou's statement. The staff told the Beijing News reporter that at the end of April last year, Yang Meiqin's family applied for the Ranyan Angel Fund and brought their children to Beijing for surgery. The operation fee is free and he was discharged on May 3rd.
In fact, online articles questioned that Yang Meiqin used the money to treat his son's cleft lip. It started at 65438 on February 2nd last year, when Yang Meiqin exposed a photo of Angel Children's Hospital in Yanran, Beijing in a circle of friends, and distributed the words "A big place is not as clean as it is". Yang Meiqin said that this time, she took her son for three reexaminations, in May, July and June. Weibo was sent to "express gratitude to Ran Yan and help Ran Yan to publicize".
"After cleft lip surgery, review three times in half a year. This is a routine diagnosis and treatment procedure. The review is also free, and family members only need to pay the registration fee. " The staff of Beijing Yanran Angel Children's Hospital told the Beijing News that the registration fee is now only 160 yuan, which is cheaper than last year.
Wang's family also disagreed with the online "raising 6.5438+0.5 million yuan". 1.5 million is only the expected goal, not that much.
On May 25th, the official statement of Water Drop Foundation said that Yang Meiqin launched two personal help-seeking sessions on the platform of Water Drop Foundation on1October 3-29, 20 17+065438+20 15-27 and 20 18 respectively.
On the same day, Shanghai Dashu Public Welfare Service Agency issued a statement in its official Weibo, saying that "although it participated in the rescue under the appeal of caring people, our agency did not set up a project, raise funds or allocate funds for this project".
Wang Taiyou told the Beijing News reporter that Yang Meiqin raised a total of 38,638 yuan, including 2,949 yuan raised by WeChat red envelopes and live rewards.
On the afternoon of May 25th, accompanied by the staff of the Civil Affairs Office of Zhangji Town, Taikang County and the media, Wang Taiyou went to the Social Welfare Unit of the Civil Affairs Bureau of Taikang County, Henan Province, and donated the remaining 130 1 yuan to charity organizations.
In order to explain where the money went, according to the existing bills and memories, Wang Taiyou listed a detailed list of expenses, including "filming expenses of 3,000 yuan", "milk powder expenses 1 1000 yuan" and "ambulance expenses 1400 yuan" and so on 14, respectively.
Wang Taiyou said that these donations were mainly used for Wang's infusion therapy, milk powder and toys. "We want to satisfy the child's wishes and let her eat and drink well. We buy more than 200 bottles of milk powder and all the toys we want. "
But for this detail, the person in charge of the Propaganda Department of Taikang County Public Security Bureau said that some data could not be verified by the police. "For example, we really can't find out how much it costs to buy fruits, toys and milk powder. The account of the village clinic is not recorded. "
For non-profit organizations questioning that family members are unwilling to let their children go to large hospitals for chemotherapy, Wang Taiyou said that it is mainly economic conditions. Later, I lost trust in volunteers and caring people and was unwilling to accept their help.
"I can't afford this money."
Yang Meiqin lives in Wenliangkou Village, Zhangji Town, Taikang County. Yang Meiqin has five children, four daughters and a son. Wang ranks fourth.
I remember a few days after Wang was born, she found that her daughter's eyes were a little reflective when she lit the lamp. "I wonder how her eyes are so bright that they are gone." After that, my daughter did not have any symptoms until she was two and a half years old.
Last September, Wang suddenly began to have eye pain. Yang Meiqin took her to a private eye clinic in Nanzhanglou Village of the same town, where she has been infusion and eye drops ever since.
"Her initial symptoms were eye pain and tears. I diagnosed her with keratitis and cataract. The treatment is eye drops and infusion, and infusion is an anti-inflammatory drug. " On May 26th, Zhang, a doctor in this clinic, told the Beijing News reporter.
At the end of last year 10, Wang suddenly had a high fever. After a week of intravenous drip, the fever still didn't go down, and she even said that her eyes hurt.
On October 29th, 65438/KLOC-0, I took Wang to the Department of Ophthalmology of Taikang County People's Hospital. Wang was diagnosed as retinoblastoma by axial CT and magnetic resonance imaging, but there was no obvious abnormality in his brain.
At that time, Zhang Kaihua, an ophthalmologist, was admitted. "After the inspection, I told my parents that this disease can only be treated in large hospitals, and there is no rule of law in county hospitals." He told the Beijing News reporter that Wang did not use his real name this time, but used the name of another five-year-old child, Yang Moumou. When he opened the referral form, the family told the child that he did not participate in the new rural cooperative medical system. "Only by participating in the new rural cooperative medical system can the referral be reimbursed. I asked her to come again next time. "
165438+10.2, I took Wang to the People's Hospital again and asked for a referral certificate. This time, she provided her real name.
Regarding the problem of "seeing a doctor under one's name", Wang Taiyou told the Beijing News reporter that Wang had run the new rural cooperative medical system before he was diagnosed with eye cancer in 20 17, but he could not be reimbursed until 20 18 1. So, the family treated Wang in the name of his nephew so that she could reimburse him. "At first, I didn't know what disease Feng Ya was, but after I found out it was a disease, I insisted on using my real name."
After refusing to issue a referral certificate, he took Wang to the old campus of Taikang County People's Hospital for review that day. A diagnosis manual of Taikang County People's Hospital (1 1.2) provided by his family showed that Wang suffered from retinoblastoma, and the doctor's advice was: "Our hospital has unconditional treatment, and it is recommended to transfer to a higher-level hospital for treatment."
Page 2 /(* * * * 3) Zhang Qin, an ophthalmologist who participated in this consultation, told the Beijing News reporter that she advised her family to transfer to another hospital that day, even without prescribing medicine. "This disease can't be cured in our hospital."
According to family members, they took Wang to Zhengzhou on1October 3rd, 165438. In the First Affiliated Hospital of Zhengzhou University, the doctor saw the film taken by the county people's hospital and confirmed that it was retinoblastoma. "The doctor said that if she wanted to consult an expert and the cancer cells had not metastasized, she would be operated on immediately."
1October 9th, 165438+, the family took Wang to the affiliated hospital for expert consultation again. Wang Taiyou recalled that there were six or seven experts consulted at that time. He asked the experts what the treatment plan was. An elderly doctor said that the operation could not be done and the eyes could not be saved. Chemotherapy is recommended.
Chen Yue, chief physician of the Eye Center of the First Affiliated Hospital of Zhengzhou University, attended the expert consultation. She said that she couldn't remember the details, except that Wang was an outpatient. "We told our family that there is surgery, chemotherapy and radiotherapy, and surgery is eye-picking. Family members don't accept picky. I said don't lick your eyes for chemotherapy. "
A diagnosis of 20 17 1 1.9 in the First Affiliated Hospital of University showed that Wang's disease was bilateral intraocular medulloblastoma, and it was suggested to be hospitalized for further examination and chemotherapy if necessary.
However, the family members did not choose hospitalization chemotherapy. Wang Taiyou said that at that time, the doctor said that no matter surgery or chemotherapy, no one could guarantee how long the child would live. Moreover, you have to pay 20,000 yuan for hospitalization and do chemotherapy once a month. "If we can't get the money, we'll go home and raise money."
Cancer cells metastasized to the brain and skull.
Wang Taiyou said it was to raise money for children's chemotherapy. After returning from Zhengzhou this time, Yang Meiqin began to raise money on the water drop platform in early 165438+ 10.
For the first time, Yang Meiqin only raised 12000 yuan. Yang Meiqin said that in February this year, at the suggestion of her neighbors, she posted a photo of Wang on a volcano video to attract attention. Some netizens left a message suggesting that she publish her mobile phone number. Later, some netizens added her WeChat and sent her a red envelope. "In March, some netizens suggested that I open a live broadcast, saying that the live broadcast rewards earned a lot. I started the live broadcast and accepted the reward. "
However, Wang's condition continued to deteriorate.
After returning from the First Affiliated Hospital of Zhengzhou, Wang Yizhi lost anti-inflammatory drugs in Nanzhanglou village eye clinic. Doctor Zhang told the Beijing News that it took about 1700 yuan during that time. "After treatment, the child's eyes have improved and he can open his eyes."
It snowed at the end of 65438+February last year, which was too cold. Wang was transferred back to Wenliangkou village clinic by his family. Wang Dongliang also confirmed to the Beijing News reporter that from June 65438+10 to March this year, Wang Yizhi was giving him mannitol (reducing intracranial pressure), antibiotics (anti-inflammatory) and nutrient solution, which cost 1900 yuan.
After raising about 2000 yuan from the volcano video and live broadcast reward, I took Wang to Taikang County People's Hospital again on March 14.
The doctor who was admitted to the hospital that day was still Zhang Qin. She told the Beijing News reporter that Wang's right eye was obviously prominent at that time, and his family said that the child had stopped eating. The hospital did a magnetic resonance imaging of the brain for Wang, and found that cancer cells had spread to the brain and obstructive hydrocephalus appeared.
"At that time, my family asked me how many days my child could live. I said, I don't know. " Zhang Qin told reporters, but under normal circumstances, this situation may be fatal, and life can only be prolonged through treatment. However, she met Wang twice and did not say that she should take conservative treatment. "I can only suggest that they go to a big hospital for treatment."
On March 14, the doctor who had seen Wang also saw the child again. She also suggested that Yang Meiqin take the children to a big hospital for examination. At that time, Yang Meiqin was in a bad mood. "She said that all the big hospitals have seen it and said that it can't be cured."
After this inspection, Yang Meiqin raised funds for the second time. According to the statement of Shuidichou, the fundraising date is March 20 18, and 15 to 27. It is estimated that150,000 yuan will be raised, and actually 233 16 yuan will be raised.
However, Wang still failed to go to the big hospital for treatment. On March 6th, at 5438+05, Wang was sent to Zhangji Town Health Center for hospitalization. Yang Rongguang, the attending doctor, told the Beijing News reporter that Wang was emotional, kept crying and had a fever, but his consciousness was still relatively clear, and he would cry because of hunger and not give fluids. "I saw the inspection report, cancer cells have intracranial metastasis. According to common sense, this is terrible. We don't have any good treatment plan, we can only give her more nutrition and energy; If you have a fever, you will cure a fever, and if you cough, you will cure a cough and try to prolong your child's life. "
It was during Wang's treatment in Zhangji Town that volunteers began to intervene in this matter and began to "compete" with Wang Taiyou's family for the position of Wang.
The person in charge of the medical assistance project of Shanghai Dashu Public Welfare Service Support Center provided a copy of "Wang's Rescue Process" to the Beijing News reporter, saying that on March 18 this year, a volunteer turned to a public welfare organization for help, saying that a person named "Peace Forever" on WeChat said that the child was ill and needed help to raise money. However, when the volunteers saw the diagnosis certificate provided by their families, they found that Wang Yizhi, who had retinoblastoma, was treated in the town hospital and had never undergone chemotherapy. Volunteers offered help many times, but all failed. "We are particularly puzzled about this. Feng Ya suffers from "neuroblastoma of retina", and the malignant tumor develops very rapidly. It is impossible to control the disease without chemotherapy. How can she hang water in the town hospital? "
Fight for the king
On April 5th, Ma Chanjuan, a loving mother, rushed to Taikang, Yang Meiqin, and offered to bring her children to Beijing for treatment.
Yang Meiqin said that when Ma Chanjuan came to help, she was very grateful. I don't know how such a good person could be like this. "She cried with me when she came."
At first, Wang Taiyou also held a trust attitude towards horses. "She said that she had contacted Beijing Children's Hospital for us and passed our documents to volunteers in Beijing. They will handle all the formalities. We can go directly to the hospital and then agree to go to Beijing with her. "
At eleven o'clock that night, Wang Taiyou and his party boarded the train going north. Arrived in Beijing at nine o'clock the next morning. "At that time, seven or eight volunteers came to Beijing Children's Hospital to take pictures of us." Wang Taiyou told the Beijing News reporter that when they arrived at the hospital, they found that Ma had not actually contacted the hospital. On the same day, the volunteers did not help Wang hang up the number. At first they used someone else's hospital card. At about noon 1 1, they gave Wang a business card of the emergency department.
Wang Taiyou said that when he was in ophthalmology that day, the doctor told him that Wang's condition was very serious and the operation was meaningless. The child is too weak to receive chemotherapy. At eleven o'clock at noon, they took their children to the emergency department and asked to give them nutrient solution. "From the afternoon before, she hardly ate at noon the next day. When she was in the sleeper, she was too weak to drink milk powder. "
After waiting for a long time, Wang can't infuse. Wang Taiyou decided to go out to the clinic to give the child an infusion first. "After losing fluids in the clinic outside that day, we chartered a car to go home overnight."
Wang Taiyou told the Beijing News reporter that his distrust of volunteers accumulated little by little. The reasons include always taking pictures of children, failing to fulfill his promise of being hospitalized in Beijing, telling his mother that "the more you cry, the more money you donate", and so on.
In this regard, Ma said in an interview with other media that the purpose of taking pictures at that time was to let people concerned know the progress of the incident. There is no point in obsessing over whether to cry or not. In fact, the reason why family members insist on leaving is that they want to have surgery immediately, don't want chemotherapy, and don't want to wait.
The Beijing News reporter repeatedly asked Ma to respond to family members' questions in detail. As of press time, Ma Chanjuan said, "I just want to say that I was entrusted by my loving mother to try to persuade them to see a doctor for their children" and said that she knew that private placement was illegal. Other questions about the trip to Beijing were not answered.
On April 8th, Weibo Little Hope Tree, the official charity of Dashu, released "Looking for You" to find Wang. Looking for someone said that Wang's illness was serious enough to endanger his life. "On April 6, my loving mother helped her to contact the bed in Beijing, but the family members took the child away regardless of her life and death. The child's life and death are unknown. "
Wang Taiyou told the Beijing News reporter that they returned to Taikang's home in the early morning of the 7th. "When I got home, I found that my child had a fever, and it burned to more than 39 C. I quickly called the doctor in the village clinic to give the child an infusion. In the afternoon, we returned to the town health center. The doctor said, stop hanging up the needle. Go home. If the child leaks, lose some nutrient solution in the village. "
Turning twice a day is not recognized.
On April 9, Wang, who had been infusion at home, suddenly turned pale and could not lose the infusion. She was sent to the pediatric intensive care unit of Taikang County People's Hospital for rescue.
"The doctor kept pressing Feng Ya's heart, and her heartbeat was so weak that it almost stopped." Yang Meiqin said that when the doctor asked her if she wanted to insist on treatment, she answered, but the doctor said that further treatment required brain CT to see if the tumor had ruptured and oxygen should be removed, and the child might not be able to finish the examination. If the child dies halfway, he will be sent to the morgue for cremation. "The doctor also said that the child may not survive tomorrow. In this case, I have to give up. If you go to the morgue for cremation, there will be nothing. I want her to leave home. "
So, Wang was sent home by ambulance. "Passing through Zhangji Town, I bought a lot of clothes, shoes and dolls for my children, fearing that she wouldn't make it to the next morning to buy them." Said, but still on the road, Wang was moved again, and quickly took her home for infusion.
Page 3/(* * * Page 3) In the evening, volunteers posted a message on the Internet saying that Wang had passed away. After the local police intervened in the investigation, it was confirmed that the news of Wang's death was untrue.
On the night when Wang came home from the pediatric intensive care unit of Taikang County People's Hospital, people from women's federations, public security and civil affairs departments in Taikang County and Zhangji Town went home to check the situation and asked their families to take their children to the town health center for treatment.
Yang Rongguang, a doctor in the town health center, confirmed this statement. "After it was delivered that night, I was infused in our hospital the next morning. In the afternoon, the staff of government departments persuaded their families to send their children to the county people's hospital. But after it was delivered, the county people's hospital no longer accepted it. It was sent to Henan Cancer Hospital and the First Affiliated Hospital of Zheng Da on the same day, but it was not received. I sent it home that night. " Yang Rongguang told the Beijing News reporter.
However, the Beijing News reporter found in the pediatric intensive care unit of Taikang County People's Hospital that Wang was admitted to Taikang County People's Hospital 1 1, 18: 30 in April. Nie Chaoqun, a doctor admitted at that time, told the Beijing News reporter, "What we suggested at that time was to go to Henan Cancer Hospital."
Nie Chaoqun remembers that Wang was in a coma and his right eye was obviously protruding. "It is likely to be a tumor 3 cm high and 5 cm wide." Nie Chaoqun said that they only gave Wang a simple examination and found that her breathing and heart rate were normal, but her fever was 38.5 degrees. "The vital signs are normal, and there will be no problems on the way to the hospital."
On the same day, after being transferred to the First Affiliated Hospital of Zhengzhou University, Yang Meiqin said that the doctor on duty told her that the child could only enter the intensive care unit, not surgery or chemotherapy, and the daily cost was more than 10,000 yuan. If you die, you should send it directly to the morgue for cremation. "The government staff said that the expenses were paid by them, but on the one hand, I was embarrassed to let them bear so many expenses. On the other hand, I still wanted to go home with Feng Ya alive. So I decided not to enter the intensive care unit and went home by ambulance overnight. After that, he was sent to the town health center for treatment. "
Wu Yujie, director of Zhangji Town Cultural Service Center, followed his family to the First Affiliated Hospital of Zheng Da. He confirmed that the doctor on duty in the First Affiliated Hospital also asked his family and the accompanying staff of the town government. Wang was in the middle and late stage, why was she sent to their hospital? Family members said that volunteers have been questioning them online and they are under great pressure from public opinion. Be sure to put the child in hospital. "We also took the money in our town and prepared to pay for the children's medical expenses. But the doctor said that if you really want to be hospitalized, you can only enter the ICU, and your family will take your child home. I am afraid that the child will die in the hospital and be cremated directly, so you will not see it. "
"Don't toss your child anywhere."
Until the last stage of Wang's life, the volunteers still didn't give up. On April 13, three people, including Dashu public welfare personnel, came to Zhangji Health Center to visit Wang, and brought a rescue contract, hoping that their families could sign for rescue.
The above-mentioned "Wang's rescue process" shows that Dashu public welfare staff suggested that if the child was taken to Zhengzhou for medical treatment, he could be taken to Beijing or Shanghai for medical treatment according to expert advice after the child's physical indicators were stable. Dashu Charity Association is responsible for medical resources and will continue to pay all medical expenses for children. In addition, rent a house within one kilometer of the hospital for family members to stay in.
In this regard, Wang Taiyou said that Bai Mengxue's initial plan was to treat in Zhengzhou, and the plan was to treat in the intensive care unit and rent a house for his family. He also put forward the idea of "building a big tree for public welfare" and deleted Weibo from the list. "I agree with this plan. Later, she called the leader of their Dashu Public Welfare Center and changed her mind, saying that she couldn't go to Zhengzhou and went to Beijing and Shanghai. I said that I can't cooperate anywhere except Zhengzhou. "
Regarding why Zhengzhou is the only destination, but not Beijing and Shanghai, Wang Taiyou said that no matter where he goes, he will go to the intensive care unit, and he can't have chemotherapy or surgery. Children who go to Zhengzhou can suffer less. Wang Taiyou is still haunted by the hardships and frustrations of his last trip to Beijing. "More importantly, I think they must go to Beijing and Shanghai, because they have considered their interests, because going to Beijing and Shanghai can raise more funds." Wang Taiyou said.
"Wang's process of saving lives" shows that while waiting for the family to discuss the results, at about 13: 30, Grandma Wang suddenly snatched the mobile phone of Dashu public welfare staff and beat them.
Wang Taiyou told the Beijing News reporter that grandma grabbed Bai's mobile phone when she saw her fiddling with it to send Weibo, and told her not to send it again. Bai Mengxue took back her mobile phone and gave Grandma Feng Ya a push.
In this regard, Zhang, the head of the Propaganda Section of Taikang County Public Security Bureau, said that at that time, she was playing with her mobile phone. Grandma Wang thought that she was filming again and went to grab the mobile phone. "It is the process of grabbing a mobile phone, and there is no dispute. This question is clear. I participated in the survey. "
This time, the consultation between family members and volunteers is still inconclusive. The staff of Dashu Public Welfare left the Wangs.
On May 25, Shanghai Rende Foundation issued a statement saying, "Shanghai Rende Foundation put forward a controversial question about the' Wang incident because of receiving feedback from netizens, and took the initiative to suspend Shanghai Dashu Public Welfare Service Center to raise funds in the name of our association. "
In this regard, Dashu Public Welfare issued a statement on the same day, saying that in the Wang incident, Dashu Public Welfare did not set up a project, did not raise funds, and did not forward any news about the incident. "The Wang incident has nothing to do with any of our projects."