Universal connection and interpersonal harmony
Tutorial:
(1) Review memories: What unique abilities do people have? What is the difference between the process of life and animals? The significance and function of self-improvement and positive progress.
(2) Read the story of unemployment in Xiao He on page 36. Thinking about the problem:
1. Do you think there is a universal connection between things in the practice of dealing with interpersonal relationships since childhood?
2, talk about your own experience, how to look at interpersonal relationships from the perspective of contact.
Teaching process:
First of all, look at the problem from the perspective of contact.
1, the connotation of connection
Contact refers to the interaction, mutual influence and mutual restriction between things and their internal elements.
2, the characteristics of contact:
(1) objectivity. Connection is objectivity. The connection between things in nature and human social life is objective and independent of human will.
(2) universality. This connection is universal. There are no isolated things in the world. The whole world is an infinitely complex and interconnected organic whole, and everything is a part or a link in the interconnected whole.
Read the pictures and fine print on page 37 and think: What is the relationship between the old lady selling waste products in China and the American financial crisis? What does this phenomenon mean?
(3) complexity. This connection is very complicated. The connection of the material world is complex and diverse, including direct connection and opinion connection, internal connection and external connection, essential connection and non-essential connection, inevitable connection and accidental connection. Different connections have different influences and functions on things.
The whole nature is a complex and interrelated expression system. We live on the earth. Sunlight, air, moisture, soil, forests, mountains, rivers, oceans, all kinds of underground resources, and human beings and other creatures living in this environment have interacted, influenced and restricted each other in the long historical evolution process, forming a large ecosystem. Changes in any part or environment will cause changes in other parts or links and even the whole ecosystem. The same is true of human society. The following two short stories can help you understand the philosophy of connection:
The prisoner escaped.
Suppose a person is banned on a high stone tower, all the doors leading to the stone tower have been completely sealed, and there is no tool for him to climb down from the top. Even without guards, he seems unable to escape. What if his wife wants to save him? If you haven't come up with a good idea, take a look at the following examples to open your mind:
The grassland on the edge of the Dekalahari basin in the southern African plateau has little rainfall and is not rich in water resources. Especially in the dry season, local residents are always worried about water shortage. How can we find water? They found an interesting phenomenon. The local animal baboons didn't "move" because of lack of water, so logical thinking came out: drought-animals can't survive here-should move-since they don't move-prove that they are not short of water-prove that they can find water. According to this idea, the local people came up with a wonderful way to find water: they took the baboon home, gave it a lot of salt, and then let it go. Once the thirsty baboon was released, like a runaway wild horse, it flew along a rugged path to a hidden cave, pouncing on an undercurrent and moving spring in the cave and desperately drinking water. The local people traced it down and skillfully found the water source.
Along the same thinking path, the answer to the last question is easier to find: the prisoner himself came up with an amazing way-he asked his wife to catch a scarab and then put some butter on her head. Scarab thought butter was in front, so she climbed to the top of the tower. Tie a very thin silk thread to the beetle's leg, the second section is connected with a slightly thick silk thread, then a thick silk thread, then a thin cotton thread, then a section is thickened, and then a corresponding hemp thread is connected ... until a thick hemp rope is pulled to the top of the tower. Finally, the prisoner escaped from the top of the tower along the rope.
3. Type of contact person
Connections can be divided into three categories: the first category is the connection between things in nature, which is the natural connection of nature; The second category is the relationship between people and things, which is the relationship between subject and objective object; The third category is the relationship between people, that is, the relationship between subjects. It is also the most advanced and complicated relationship among all the contacts in the world.
4. Learning the viewpoint of materialist dialectics about universal connection requires us to do this? )
(1) We should look at the problem from the viewpoint of universal connection and avoid looking at the problem in isolation and one-sidedly.
(2) We should grasp the relationship between things as a whole and handle the relationship between parts and the whole.
(3) Be good at discovering complex relationships between things, distinguishing different characteristics of diverse relationships, and improving insight into things.
Second, look at interpersonal relationships from the perspective of contact.
1, the connotation of interpersonal relationship
Interpersonal relationship is the interpersonal relationship that people establish and develop through material and spiritual communication in social life. Interpersonal relationship is the basic form of human social contact, and interpersonal communication is an important feature of human social activities.
2, the role of interpersonal communication
(1) Human material production activities are realized through interpersonal communication.
(2) The communication between people forms various social relations, forms communication rules and social systems, and forms society on a secondary basis.
(3) People's social communication activities not only create society, but also promote social progress.
(4) Interpersonal communication is everywhere. Everyone can't live and develop without "interpersonal network".
Thinking about the problem:
Is there a job or a period of life that you can't handle with anyone? Are you happy to associate with people?
3. Interpersonal relationships are complex and diverse.
(1) People's social interaction and social activities are extensive and diverse.
(2) Everyone plays various social roles in society, such as students, children, parents, subordinates, leaders, brothers, sisters, pedestrians, partners, colleagues, classmates, friends and so on.
(3) People's values, life background, personality, thoughts, behavior patterns and values are different, so are their interpersonal relationships (see P40).
(4) When people have multiple social relationships, they must grasp their communicative roles and give consideration to each other.
Thinking about the problem:
How to understand the extensiveness of interpersonal relationships? What's your relationship?
Thirdly, interpersonal harmony is a positive and healthy attitude towards life.
1, two attitudes towards interpersonal relationships
(1) When dealing with interpersonal relationships, a positive attitude towards life will be formed by looking at interpersonal relationships in a connected and comprehensive way. A positive attitude towards life is manifested in acceptance, cooperation, harmony and harmony.
(2) An isolated and one-sided view of interpersonal relationships will lead to a negative attitude towards life. The negative attitude towards life is characterized by indifference, autism, exclusion and confrontation.
2. The attitude towards life of China traditional culture.
Interpersonal harmony is the attitude towards life of China's excellent culture. Harmony is not only the core value of China's excellent culture, but also a positive attitude towards life advocated by the Chinese nation.
Harmony is the highest social value goal advocated by China's ancient thinkers, while China advocated the philosophy of "harmony is the most important" and "loving the whole world". "Harmony between people" has had a far-reaching impact on China culture.
3. The connotation of harmony and interpersonal harmony
(1) Harmony is a complementary and antagonistic relationship between different things. Harmony does not mean not acknowledging differences and differences.
(2) Interpersonal harmony means that people with different personalities respect each other, tolerate each other, live in harmony, help each other, complement each other, unite as one, be stable and orderly, form a joint force and develop together.
The concept of "harmony but difference" is the basic explanation of interpersonal harmony. In interpersonal communication, under the condition of consistent fundamental interests, seeking common ground while reserving differences, resolving contradictions and achieving overall balance and harmony are determined by people's common interests.
(3) the characteristics of harmonious interpersonal relationship
A, get along on an equal footing. Non-discrimination and non-bullying are the basic conditions for reducing interpersonal conflicts and establishing good interpersonal relationships.
B, relaxed interpersonal environment.
C, mutual sincere trust. Mutual trust is the basic guarantee for maintaining interpersonal relationships.
D, friendliness and care. Being kind to others is the basic starting point of interpersonal harmony.
During the reign of Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, there was a college student named Zhang Ying. One day, Zhang Ying received a letter from home, saying that her family had an argument with her neighbor in order to compete for a three-foot-wide homestead, and asked him to use his power to smooth the relationship and win the lawsuit. After reading the letter, Zhang Ying smiled indifferently and wrote a letter with a poem: "A thousand miles to write a book is only for the wall. What's the harm in letting him be three feet? " The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang. "After receiving the letter, the family gave up the three-foot homestead. Neighbors saw it and offered it to each other. It turned into a six-foot driveway. The story of turning war into friendship has been passed down to this day.
4, the role of interpersonal harmony
(1) interpersonal harmony can promote the healthy development of people's body and mind.
(2) Interpersonal harmony is conducive to people's self-realization.
A harmonious interpersonal environment is conducive to absorbing the advantages and strengths of others with a positive attitude and correctly understanding yourself;
B, is conducive to promoting information exchange and information sharing between people;
C, is conducive to mutual assistance between people, as if to support and help people realize their self-worth.
Fourth, create harmonious interpersonal relationships and a happy life.
Caring for the interpersonal environment is as important as caring for the ecological environment, because they are both our living environment. The relationship between people is both objective and can be consciously created.
How to establish harmonious interpersonal relationships and create a happy life? This requires us to take the initiative to open the door of communication, learn to communicate harmoniously with others, cooperate in official business, establish pure and profound friendship and create a happy life.
1, get out of loneliness and communicate actively.
2. Learn to live in harmony with others, learn to cooperate with others, and be a popular person.
Step 3 build a real friendship
(1) If you want to have real friendship, you should be good at distinguishing "good friends" from "bad friends". A "good friend" is a real person, an honest person and a well-informed person. A "bad friend" is a flatterer, a backstabbing person and a flatterer.
(2) True friendship needs careful maintenance and care. To maintain friendship, we should: make friends with sincerity; Tolerance and harmony; Attach importance to friendship and be brave in helping each other at critical moments.
4, communication should grasp a certain degree.
Make friends at a certain distance, especially with the opposite sex, and grasp the degree of communication.
Lesson 4 Homework
I. Explanation of Nouns
1, connection 2, interpersonal relationship 3, harmony 4, interpersonal harmony 5, "beneficial friends" 6, "harmful friends"
Second, short answer questions
1, what are the characteristics of the connection mentioned in materialist dialectics? What should be done according to the viewpoint of materialist dialectics about universal connection?
2. Briefly describe the role of interpersonal communication. What kind of relationships do you have?
3. Briefly describe the characteristics and functions of harmonious interpersonal relationships.
Third, the essay questions
1, talk about your own experience in combination with what you have learned, and how to treat interpersonal relationships from the perspective of contact?
2. What are the two attitudes towards interpersonal relationships? What do you think should be done to create a harmonious interpersonal relationship and a happy life?
Philosophy and life learning consultation
Lesson 5 Consulting Development, Change, Prosperity and Adversity
Tutorial:
Last time, we learned that most things in the world are related. We should look at life from the viewpoint of universal connection, establish a correct and positive attitude towards life, learn to create harmonious interpersonal relationships and create a happy life. Let's look at a short story and think and answer questions.
Action and happiness:
There is a boat king named Kawamura in Japan. At the beginning of his business, he washed the leaves discarded by others, added salt to make pickles and sold them to poor workers. Many relatives and friends looked down on him at that time.
"That guy is a beggar!"
"That guy has no hope of getting a wife!"
Kawamura was not intimidated by other people's public opinion. The more others despise him, the harder he works. Later, he constantly improved the taste of pickles, became a strong pickle wholesaler, and finally gradually became a ship king.
Disraeli, an English writer and historian, said: "Action may not bring happiness, but without action, there is definitely no happiness."
Voltaire, a great thinker, said, "People are born to act, just as sparks always rise and stones always fall." . For man, inaction means that he doesn't exist. "
This story shows that people's life has both good times and coconut oil adversity. When encountering adversity, do you look at the problem from the perspective of development and change?
What attitude will you take in the face of prosperity and adversity in future life development?
teaching process
Read the pictures and materials at the bottom of page 46 of the textbook to show that human society is developing and changing. Can you feel anything from the above point of view?
First, look at the problem from a developmental perspective.
Everything in the world is developing and changing, and the unchangeable things don't exist. What kind of state does the development of things present? What is the essence of development?
1, the connotation of development
The development of things is not a simple increase in quantity, not repetition. Development is a breakthrough and leap in the nature of things themselves, and it is an upward movement in which new things replace old things. The essence of development is the emergence of new things and the demise of old things.
2. How to treat new things and old things?
(1) New things refer to things that conform to the development law and direction of things and have strong vitality and broad development prospects.
(2) Old things refer to things that have lost the inevitability of existence and are dying.
(3) Criteria for judging old and new things
Judging whether something is old or new is not based on the time when it appeared, nor on whether it is novel in form or phenomenon, but on whether it conforms to the inevitable trend of the development of things.
3. The development of things is the unity of progressiveness and stumbling.
(1) The general trend of things is progressive, and new things are invincible. New things not only retain the positive and reasonable factors in the old things, but also add new contents that the old things can't accommodate, which is incomparable to the old things.
(2) The development of new things is not smooth sailing, and it always goes through a gradual and tortuous development process from small to large, from weak to strong, from imperfect to relatively perfect. The road of development of things is tortuous.
The future is bright and the road is tortuous, which is the objective law of the development of everything.
The development of human history has experienced countless dynasty changes, the rise and fall of the national movement, the ups and downs of people's livelihood, countless glories and disasters. However, no matter how tortuous the long river of history is, human civilization is always developing and progressing from generation to generation, and guests are constantly promoting the development and progress of society.
Q: Talk about your understanding that the development of things is the unity of progress and stumbling with examples in life.
4. Learn to look at problems from a developmental perspective.
(1) Thinking and doing things should focus on development, base on development and keep pace with the times.
(2) Enthusiastically support new things and promote their development.
(3) Grasp the essence of development and learn to distinguish between new things and old things.
(4) Correctly understand the dialectical relationship between progressiveness and stumbling in the process of development. Regardless of success or failure, keep a clear head in the process of progress, be prepared to take detours, and be firm in the direction of progress when encountering twists and turns.
Second, life is a process of development in twists and turns.
1, life is a process of continuous development.
2. Life development is also the unity of progressiveness and stumbling.
Life doesn't go straight up. People can only mature and succeed after success and failure again and again.
In the development of life, we should keep a positive and enterprising spirit.
Let's read a story to deepen our understanding.
Dare to face setbacks.
On June 27th, 2005, Cai Zhenguo of Fengjiaxing Village, Anlin Station Town, Feicheng City, Shandong Province received the university admission notice from the Department of Bioengineering of Shandong Institute of Light Industry, which aroused the admiration and admiration of the whole village. /kloc-On the same day 0/7 years ago, Cai Zhenguo, who was only 3 years old, was curled up by the fire and could not stand. Jaw and neck adhesion, unable to lift head; The right elbow bends at right angles; There are almost no complete facial features on the face, the lower lip is valgus, and the auricle is defective ... After 82 days of treatment, seven operations were performed in succession, and a little life survived. However, the fire left a permanent mark on Xiao Zhenguo. His facial features have changed beyond recognition; His leg is bent and he can't walk. Even his grandmother thought the child was a basket case, and she couldn't even beg for food in the future, so she advised her mother to throw him away. Supported by her mother's strong belief, Cai Zhenguo's bent legs were dragged away alive. At the age of eight, she stood up and began to learn to walk. He learned to write, only two fist-shaped limbs and three fingers like tree buds. He had to put up with people's ridicule because those ugly and strange photos couldn't make the honor roll. He cruelly trained himself to take care of himself by cooking, washing clothes and sewing clothes. He took part in military training and took the physical fitness test of 1000 meters like a normal person ... The tragic fate did not crush this strong boy, and he stayed with his peers with perseverance. He won people's respect with perseverance and hard work, and he achieved his goal with tears and hard work-to be a useful person. For more than ten years, like a barefoot climber, he has surpassed many climbers wearing shoes with perseverance and courage. He went beyond his ideal goal and went forward bravely. His deeds touched others and infected the society. In August 2004, Feicheng People's Hospital performed a functional recovery operation for Cai Zhenguo free of charge, separating his head from his chest, so that he could finally hold his head high. In June, 2005, he was admitted to the Bioengineering Department of Shandong Institute of Light Industry with 604 points. In July 2005, Guangzhou Southern Hospital decided to do plastic surgery for him free of charge. Cai Zhenguo has an ideal lamp in his heart, and the goal he is trying to achieve is just around the corner. With his unyielding spirit, he flew a fire phoenix from the purgatory of disaster.
A person will encounter many blows, setbacks, failures, troubles and pains in his life. What do they mean to life? If you are knocked down, you will accomplish nothing. If you can overcome it and surpass it, it will become a ladder for you to move forward and become your precious spiritual wealth. A person will encounter countless enemies, opponents, blows and difficulties in his life. Sakyamuni said, "If you are a bowl of water, it will definitely become salty. If you are a river, it's nothing. " It's not who we met and how bad the incident was, but who we are and what we are. If you are a bowl of water, it must be salty. You are a river, it is nothing. Mud can make rivers muddy, not oceans, and wind can pull up trees and mountains.
A person's life will encounter many injustices and experience countless criticisms and praises. If your boss praises you, you will be happy; Criticize you, and you will be miserable; You will be happy when you get promoted; Criticize you, and you will be miserable. This shows that your emotions are controlled by others. You are not your own master, but a puppet. If your boss praises you or promotes you, you are valuable; Criticize you and attack you, and you are worthless; Your value is determined by others and needs to be confirmed and recognized. A man should be his own master. A philosopher put it well: I am the master of my own life and the captain of my own soul.
Prosperity and adversity are two inevitable situations in the development of life.
In the development of life, there will always be two different situations: prosperity and adversity. Prosperity and adversity are the tests of life.
1, prosperity
(1) Prosperity provides opportunities and favorable conditions for the development of life.
(2) Prosperity is also easy to make people fall into comfort and develop inertia, arrogance and femininity.
2. Disaster
Adversity can temper one's will.
(2) Adversity is a great test of life. Without strong will and courage, it is easy to be defeated.
(3) Adversity can help people know themselves correctly.
(4) Adversity can accumulate life experience.
(5) Adversity can make people forge ahead.
Prosperity and adversity are dialectical unity.
In the development of life, prosperity and adversity are interrelated and mutually transformed.
Question: Do you know the story of Han Xin's "crotch humiliation"? Combine this story and talk about your understanding of the dialectical relationship between prosperity and adversity.
Fourth, a positive attitude towards setbacks and adversity.
Self-study the content of teaching materials and establish methods to deal with setbacks and adversity.
The teacher sent a short story to everyone.
Grow up under pressure
There is such a little story.
A long time ago, a man caught an eagle in a nest on the top of the mountain. He took the baby eagle home and put it in the henhouse. From then on, the baby eagle and the chicken ate and played together every day, and slowly it thought it was a chicken.
Finally, the eagle grew up slowly. The man wanted to train it into a falcon, but the eagle didn't know whether it was an eagle or a chicken. It has no desire to fly. The master tried many methods to no avail. Finally, the owner took the eagle to the top of the mountain and threw it down at once. At this time, the eagle fell straight like a stone, flapping its wings desperately in panic, and finally it could fly.
Therefore, without a desperate environment, there can be no desperate people.
There is a company that used to be very good, but then it went downhill, and its product sales got worse every year. The boss asked someone to give their enterprise a comprehensive consultation, so he called a meeting of the heroes who started the business. After the meeting, the expert pulled the boss down and told him, "In fact, it is very simple to solve your problem."
The boss was surprised and said, "How simple?"
So the expert told the boss the story of "Falcon and Chicken". The boss stared blankly for a moment at first, and soon realized:
"Yes, the original problem is that all these loyal subjects are full! They have no money. They are all local farmers. They started a business with me when they had no money. They are like a tiger and a wolf. Now they can get something to eat without hunting, so their fighting spirit is insufficient. "
In fact, the execution problems of most enterprises are because there is no desperate environment and mechanism. Without mechanism and environment, why should people work hard? When people are in a state of vested interests, 80% of loyal ministers in an enterprise will become demoralized. It's just that they won't say that they have no fighting spirit. They will tell you: "This market is saturated, the quality of our products is too poor, and our service is not satisfactory ..."
The expert asked the boss how the product quality was when he started his business. How about after-sales service? The answer is much worse than now, but at that time, the enterprise did a good job and there was no such problem.
So what's going on now? The reason is simple, because the eagle has been locked in the chicken coop for too long.
What shall we do? If it is an eagle, you throw it off a cliff and force it to fly again. Otherwise the eagle will fall off the cliff without flapping its wings. In enterprises, it is sometimes necessary to treat those loyal officials who are numb, especially heroes, throw them off the cliff and force them to fly again.
What is the only difference between a chicken and an eagle? Eagles can fly on cliffs.