When Coolidge, the 30th president of the United States, took office, he hired a female secretary to assist him. The female secretary is young and beautiful, but her work has repeatedly made mistakes, either by typing the wrong words or remembering the wrong time, which has brought a lot of trouble to Coolidge's work.

One day, as soon as the female secretary entered the office, Coolidge praised her beautiful clothes and her beauty. The female secretary was flattered to know that the president rarely praised people like this. Coolidge went on to say, "I believe your works can be as beautiful as your people."

Sure enough, the official document of the female secretary has not gone wrong since that day. A senator who knew the ins and outs asked the president curiously, "your method is great." How did you come up with it? "

Coolidge smiled and said, "It's very simple. Before you see a barber shaving a guest, he will put soapy water on it. The purpose of this is to make others feel no pain when shaving. I just used this method! "

We should understand that the purpose of blame is to correct each other's shortcomings. So, with love, try to blame in an appreciative way, and you will get twice the result with half the effort.