I have seen all kinds of mother-in-law relationships around me. Although there are contradictions between the vast majority of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they are trying to maintain a superficial balance for their sons or husbands. But have you ever seen a mother-in-law beat her daughter-in-law and drive her out of the house? What the hell is going on?
This happened in Xuchang City. My daughter-in-law is Chunjing, and she is 50 years old this year. She and her husband are married for the second time. After marriage, because my in-laws live in Zhengzhou's husband and sister's house, life is happy and sweet. However, things have changed since my mother-in-law came back from Zhengzhou. This is not the recent conflict between the two, and the scene is particularly wonderful. The mother-in-law not only beat her daughter-in-law, but also drove her daughter-in-law out of the house. My daughter-in-law had no choice but to find a mediator. Through the mediator, we learned the ins and outs of the matter. On the day of the incident, the daughter-in-law had a dispute with her son because of a little contradiction, and the mother-in-law had a mother-in-law war because she cared about her son. The daughter-in-law told her mother-in-law that she was right. So what is the root cause? It turned out that my daughter-in-law said a word that day, insulting her mother-in-law who had no children or daughters.
For this matter, I have to say that both sides are at fault. But what the daughter-in-law said really went too far. For an old man in his seventies and eighties, what he wants most is to have branches and leaves at home. But because it is the son's problem, he has no position to blame his daughter-in-law, but it will always be the pain in her heart. The sudden release of spring was also due to the quarrel at that time, but I want to say that the disaster came from my mouth. This shows that spring is not a good harvest.
But I want to say that although the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to get along with, I think the fundamental problem lies with my husband. A husband must adapt to the relationship between his wife and mother. He can't blindly protect his wife, and he can't be stupid. If you really can't do it, you can move out with your wife and live alone. Be sure to show your attitude to your mother and wife.