From: Uncle Shan (ouba798) Author: Uncle Shan

Gina, it’s on the hot search again.

As always, everyone's evaluation of her still cannot avoid the word "good figure".

But this time is special.

She is pregnant.

The couple attended the event, and Gina happily showed off her slender figure despite being 6 months pregnant.

Lang Lang, who was on the side, looked happy and proud, and said quite proudly, "Her waist has almost no change."

The envious voice that I expected was not received. The comments area was full of curses:

"What is there to promote about the deformed aesthetics? All pregnant women follow her example and give up their health to cater to male aesthetics?"

Yes, it is indeed great to stay in shape, but I don't like this hot search.

Why should you praise a pregnant woman for her slim figure? What kind of abnormal aesthetic is this?

Since when did the figure of a pregnant woman have to cater to male aesthetics?

01

When it comes to this, some merchants are indispensable.

Recently, a promotional poster for RT-Mart shopping mall has caused heated discussion.

In their promotional poster, RT-Mart's women's clothing size recommendation chart tells you that S is defined as thin and M is beautiful.

Size L and above are all "rotten", "sloppy" and "sloppy".

They even marked it below "Only for girls aged 18-35, please consult customer service first according to your body shape."

In one picture, sexism, ageism, and size discrimination are all covered.

It's more than that.

Top actress Gong Li’s secretly photographed photos filled the screen with corpse-smelling comments.

Wearing a floral pink dress and looking casual and generous, she was scolded for being a tough guy.

Li Sidani, who recently participated in Sisters of the Wind and Waves, was also attacked unabashedly by Yue Yunpeng for her figure:

"Actually, you are not suitable for dancing. Because when I look at it from a close distance, your legs It's very thick."

"It's so ugly, your ankles."

Then, Xu Zheng also casually commented on Ning Jing's figure.

Even though Jing Jing was already unhappy, he still immersed himself in it and continued to comment.

These words may seem harmless, but his amusing expression still made people feel offended.

To be honest, this is not a joke, this is lack of quality, and it is using a mean tongue as humor.

Please open your eyes and take a look.

The tranquility during the "fattest" period he said looked like this:

I believe that neither Xu Zheng nor Yue Yunpeng had any malicious intentions.

But this is also the scariest point.

You said that "thinness" is the survival rule in the entertainment industry, but why is it habitually ignored by men?

Pan Yueming, who has a "fat body", is very cute;

Peng Yuchang, as long as his figure matches the role.

When it comes to women, it becomes professional ethics.

Did you notice that

Any man can comment on a woman’s figure at will, even if he is fat and has a big head and ears.

They are so ordinary, yet so confident.

02

Every month, nearly 100,000 people ask the question "Am I ugly?" on Google's website. Most of them are young girls.

Such huge data is not unrelated to the ubiquitous evaluations from the outside world.

If you have big breasts, people will stare at you and say, "Oh, you have nice breasts." If you have small breasts, you will be teased as "airport";

If you wear too much, you will be told, "You too You're too conservative." If you don't wear enough, you'll be told "Why are you wearing such revealing clothes?"

Clothes, makeup, fatness and thinness...

Behind these prejudices are ubiquitous and strict "standards":

Your figure must meet various conditions such as right-angled shoulders + A4 waist + peach hips + pencil legs.

Otherwise, you will be dissed as "unfeminine".

A few days ago, a "2020 Standard Weight Chart for Women" hit the screen in WeChat Moments, causing a panic.

Height 160cm, weight 56.3kg, several almost perverted figures clearly tell girls:

To meet the standards of beauty, you must be thin, and you must be extremely thin.

"Not fat" seems to be directly equated with success.

Under this morbid aesthetic, more and more girls are falling into doubt and panic about themselves.

In order to fit themselves into the "standard", they even adopt extreme measures such as dieting, taking weight loss pills, and liposuction.

I am thin, but my body is broken.

Is the pursuit of perfect body management a common ideal for all human society?

Successful body management is an achievement.

But it is by no means a necessary achievement to be born as a human being.

03

Yoko Yoko once cosplayed Marilyn Monroe, and she feels so charming just by looking at the photos.

The light skirt was gently blown by the wind, and her smile stretched confidently. The plump body and just the right amount of sexiness are unforgettable.

She is like our neighbor's girl, giving us a sudden "down-to-earth" relief.

Her existence tells us that confident people always have their own light.

There are too many perfect girls, so why not be an out-of-print "Hot Eyes Yoko".

Since Youyou can’t stop everyone from talking, why bother yourself!

Others' opinions cannot define your own existence. Compared with being liked by others, liking yourself is the most important thing.

I hope that the majority of men can understand a truth -

It doesn't matter if you can't learn to appreciate, it's not difficult to learn to shut up and respect.

Click "Watching" and forward it. I hope every girl can be as brave as Ning Jing when facing body shame. Go back:

Take care of yourself, I am so beautiful!