It is often said that we are in an era of looking at faces, loving a person starts with face value and is loyal to character.

Good-looking men not only have advantages at work, but also are more likely to be favored by women on blind dates.

It's true.

In fact, no matter men or women, whenever we meet a opposite sex for the first time, we always look at her exterior first, and then close our eyes before we consider her interior.

Judging people by their appearances is actually the normal mentality of many of us, otherwise those plastic surgeons would have lost their jobs.

I ate out with a group of friends some time ago.

A friend complained to me:

"Yesterday's blind date was too superficial. I totally judge a book by its cover. I only paid attention to a man's appearance and couldn't see my honest and pure connotation.

The world has changed, and now women don't pay attention to men's kindness and gentleness. It's really unfair to judge people by their appearances! "

Hearing this, I looked at him in front of me, a young man in his twenties, wearing an old-fashioned style and a military coat that our parents like to wear. The whole person looks more than ten years older.

So I asked him calmly, "Did you wear this to see others that day?" .

His mouth was full of food and he replied angrily:

"Am I rude to wear this? I am not a judge by appearances. What I value more is the three views and personalities of both sides. "

When I said this, my saliva splashed.

At this point, I can roughly understand the girl's mood at that time.

It's rare to dress up and kiss, hoping to find the right person, and then meet an uncle wearing dad's clothes, full of food, splashing breath and emotional. ...

It is said that loving a person starts from the face value and is loyal to the character.

I want to say here,

The so-called face value not only refers to your face, but also includes your clothes, life attitude and lifestyle.

Frankly speaking, this world of judging people by their appearances is actually very fair.

Judge a person by his appearance, we mean not only his appearance and facial features, but also his overall temperament, his gestures, posture, body language, way of speaking and so on.

However, now many people have entered a misunderstanding, thinking that it is only a slight improvement in appearance, but it is not.

Any external beauty is only temporary, and only by constantly improving one's ability is it permanent.

Be dignified, talk elegantly, and be humble. All the surprises are only due to long-term efforts.