Between the lines, I feel that he is really a good husband and father. . . . Forwarded it.
An exclusive interview with Park Shin Yang, a film actor who will become a father in April (reposted)
Last October, the film actor married Bai, who was 13 years younger than him. Before marriage, she was entangled in all kinds of cruel rumors, and now she lives a dreamy wedding life. Besides, Mrs. Bai's due date is at the end of April, which makes her doubly happy. There has never been an interview related to private life in the past, and this principle will be broken by this magazine.
On the eve of New Year's Day holiday, I received an unexpected phone call at the end of January from the manager of Park Shin Yang. The phone mentioned that "Park Shin Yang wants to be interviewed", and the only condition for the interview is to present all the interview contents truthfully, that is, never embellish it.
Although I received an interview invitation a few months ago, and I am still waiting for a reply, in fact, Park Shin Yang's decision to give an exclusive interview is unbelievable. Facts have proved that it is not easy to interview Park Shin Yang, let alone do an interview involving personal privacy. I am very excited that people like him are willing to be interviewed.
In fact, the fate between the journalist and Park Shin Yang began a long time ago. That's when he began to perform after studying in Russia. The first time I met him was at the production conference of TV series. At that time, a filmmaker said, "There is an actor who will become a very good actor in the future. Do you want to say hello to him? Introduce Park Shin Yang.
My first impression of him at that time can only be described in one sentence, just like a student. At that time, he was wearing jeans, a T-shirt and a backpack, and he couldn't find any gorgeous image of an actor. But as the filmmakers predicted, he joined the TV series < My Heart Tang Yang > and the film < After the performance, Park Shin Yang became a representative actor in the Korean film industry.
The last time I interviewed him was in the movie before the premiere, probably in the autumn of 1997. That was six years later. I was very excited after I got a response that I was willing to be interviewed. After the excitement subsided, I began to worry about how to present this interview, because everyone knew that he was not an impetuous actor, but an honest man.
# The first meeting
He had just finished filming when I was filming in Busan, and I wanted to be interviewed with an open mind when I left complicated Seoul. It happened that the location of the interview was the Paradise Hotel, where he and his wife Bai first met. I arrived at the lobby on the first floor of Paradise Hotel at 6pm on February 4th, but I didn't see Park Shin Yang. Unexpectedly, at the same time, he is doing exercise in the hotel gym, and has already taken the originally planned photos in advance.
Seeing Zhen now is like yesterday. "。 I came to the gym with my junior that day, and when I passed the treadmill, I suddenly felt an unspeakable feeling. Zhen Xuan (so called his wife Bai) just exercises on the treadmill "(he points to the treadmill in the gym).
Bai was supposed to leave the gym with her mother and brother. When she left, they had the first conversation in the corridor in front of the gym. He still remembers that the first request to propose to his wife was in the same place.
It's all fate to meet a wife 13 years younger than him. After meeting her, his life direction became clearer.
When I went to the room where Park Shin Yang stayed after the photo shoot, the first thing that caught my eye was this book. The reporter carefully studied that book and found that it was read by his wife who was pregnant every night in the United States.
# Reading that book on mobile phone is helpful for prenatal education.
"Of course, my wife Zhen mentioned that when I read this book to our baby star (the name of the baby to be born in April), I could feel that the baby in my stomach liked it very much. The first time I felt the baby's movement happened while reading. Originally, it was expected to complete the shooting work in early June of 5438+ 10, and leave with my wife Zhen, but the shooting progress was later than scheduled, so she went back and changed it first. "
# It's really accidental that two people meet in the gym.
None of this is true. In fact, I was shocked by everyone's follow-up reaction after the news of marriage was made public. I seldom gave interviews at that time. I didn't think I was an actor, but a student (studying acting). I didn't think I had anything special to report to you, but after everyone's reaction to my marriage, I found that I was not an ordinary person, and I was also a star. I am the prince of England. Or am I Michael Jackson? I'm neither. In everyone's eyes, I may be the right person for the groom? My inner suffering and anger is because my wife Zhen is troubled by those false rumors. "
The expression on his face shows that he suffered a lot during that time. After he publicly announced his plan to marry Miss Bai in August last year, he was miserable because of various false rumors, from many rumors surrounding his wife's white marriage to rumors that he tried to commit suicide by taking poison after learning about Miss Bai's past, and then to the news that his wife was pregnant when she got married in June.
They met for the first time in the same order as what they heard outside. The first meeting was held on April 5 last year. He accepted the invitation of the younger generation and attended the opening ceremony of the auto show held in Busan the day before, when Miss Bai was traveling with her family. It is the first time for them to stay in Paradise Hotel. Bai, who usually doesn't like sports, went to the hotel gym for the first time on the afternoon of April 5.
"Now that I think about it, everything is fate. In fact, when I got a call from my junior, I couldn't have gone to Busan. I can't book a plane ticket because I want to have a rest. Later, I bought a plane ticket through a friend of my junior's friend, and because of this plane ticket, I had the opportunity to meet my wife Zhen in Busan and get to know each other. Later, I learned that the friend of the friend who helped me buy the plane ticket was my father-in-law, and my father-in-law didn't know that I wanted to buy the plane ticket.
His so-called destiny takes a hand means that after lunch that day, in order to exercise, he went to the gym with his younger generation and had a special experience of "shaking all over" when he passed the treadmill he wanted to borrow. While waiting in line for the treadmill, Miss Bai happened to be there. She was waiting for her brother to change it after using it. Later, they ran on the side-by-side treadmill for 15~20 minutes.
After running the treadmill, he went to find his junior who was lifting weights. He first asked his junior, "Is she beautiful?" The younger generation answered a word "yes". It happened that I didn't wear glasses that day, and I couldn't see my wife's white face clearly, but he thought she should be quite young, so I asked the younger generation, "Do you look like a high school student?" Or like a college student? But the younger generation replied: "Like a high school student. "
"Hearing his words, my heart fell to the bottom on the spot, but I was also thinking, after my wife Zhen, my mother-in-law, my brother-in-law's exercise, how should I act? If I don't seize the opportunity and let this girl go, I will regret it for life. So I don't have any specific plans. I thought about what to say to Zhen in the aisle and finally decided to ask her three questions. First, I decided my age, then I asked her name, and then I invited her.
Finally, they had dinner together, but there were also their mother-in-law and brother-in-law. At dinner, they learned that she was going back to Seoul the next day. After learning the news, they proposed to have breakfast together the next morning, and they met again at six o'clock the next morning. After breakfast, it was raining in the sky, and they walked by the sea with umbrellas.
# The first day and the second day are the same for Miss Bai.
"There is no doubt that I am convinced that Zhen is the woman I want from the first day. Even though she is wearing jeans, a T-shirt and sneakers, Zhen is beautiful and has no special makeup. She is still very young. She is like a child to me. Compared with knowing her mother-in-law, after meeting her mother-in-law, my father-in-law held an objection. He thinks Zhen is still a child, and there are still many things to consider and worry about. Anyway,
He told us that this was the place where he first met Miss Bai. It was in front of this treadmill that they met.
While eating, the interview was also going on. Park Shin Yang's agent came running with his mobile phone. Don't ask who it is, he already knows who is on the other end of the phone. After receiving the phone, he said to the phone, "I don't know what happened today. Time flies and I'm still interviewing. It seems that I can't read a fairy tale book to our star today. I took a photo in the aisle of the gym where we first met, and I will show it to you later, because I'm still working hard.
# Deep feelings.
"(with a smile on his face) Do you feel this way? In fact, my dream is to build a family where we can be honest with each other and not quarrel loudly. It seems that my wish has come true. Last Christmas Eve, when two families got together, I cooked a steak for 10. My husband offered to go to gangwon for four days and three nights on the spot, so we went to play together. When skiing with my husband early in the morning, I said in a good mood, "Early in the morning with my son-in-law. Our family has no daughter, so our family regards Zhen as their own daughter, and I became the eldest son of Zhen's family.
# There is a special reason to live next to my parents' house in Yishan, Gyeonggi Province.
"I am the eldest son of my family. I never thought about leaving my parents to live elsewhere after marriage. When I put forward a plan to settle in the mountains, Zhen agreed without saying anything. We eat at my parents' house, and our house is just for sleeping. It can be said that we live separately but together. I think a mountain is great. You can climb that unknown mountain about 30 minutes' drive from home, because the south of the Yangtze River is complex and narrow. They will invade each other's space. I used to live in Wangdang and moved to my present home before I got married. I designed the decoration and furniture of our new home myself. At that time, the office that happened to live in one office was also moving. I was really busy at that time. "
# The rumor of suicide by taking medicine before is not true.
"Yes, I'm not a person who would do that, and I was busy decorating my new home. In addition, the office has also moved. I am tired, stressed and sleepy every day, but I can't sleep once I go to bed. In order to have a rest, I took sleeping pills and had an accident. This is the case. "
# None of the rumors about Bai are true.
"This is really interesting. When that happened, the fan cafe, which had only 4,000 members, suddenly poured into 40,000 people to become members. The purpose is to know the truth. In fact, it was fabricated by ruthless hackers on the Internet. What puzzles me repeatedly is why someone creates such rumors to hurt people, but considering that we are all strong and have never been hurt by those false rumors, in this case, Zhen Xuan didn't listen or smell them to avoid those hurtful rumors. Although it was publicly discouraged before marriage, the embarrassment at that time also indicated that the determination would not be affected. "
At that time, Park Shin Yang had made his position clear to everyone. Bai has not been shaken by outside rumors, and it is even more urgent to face the outside world hand in hand with her. He said to the uneasy Miss Bai, "When you die, what we left behind is not the gossip of others, but the love between us." "If you die, I will die."
Suddenly, I was curious when I learned that Miss Bai was pregnant. If I had known before I got married that marriage was imperative, I asked bluntly, "When did you know that Miss Bai was pregnant? When' tis once spoken, there was silence around. After a while, he replied very briefly, "I knew it long ago." "If so, why did the reporter avoid answering the reporter's question by" not answering personal questions "when he asked whether his wife was pregnant at the press conference of the movie" Table for Four "?
"The topic of wife's pregnancy, is it a very personal problem? Considering such a direct problem, my wife will feel uncomfortable. I was really happy when I learned that Jane was pregnant. At first Zhen didn't know how I would react and asked me, "Brother, what should I do?"? "Because I am happy," she said later, "because my brother is happy, I feel good. "Although pregnant before marriage, but still married, so it doesn't matter. It is not because Zhen is pregnant that we are in a hurry to get married, but because we think it is too slow to hold a wedding after the movie is finished, and because my friend who wants to help sing wedding greetings is going to work in the United States, we are in a hurry to get married. "
Help me prepare a kind wife with bread, fruit and popcorn, and I will no longer be influenced by the rumors that have been entangled in the past.
After the wedding, he went home to eat bean paste hot pot with his family until he fainted.
The star who will report to the world in April will be a daughter after ultrasonic photography and detailed analysis. His wife Miss Bai's fetal dream is not a car, but a dream related to a tiger. Two days after marriage, she started filming again, so she couldn't leave much time for her wife. Instead, I take a walk with my wife and enjoy a good movie while filming.
Because my mother-in-law left Korea for the United States in mid-January, so did his wife, so the rumor clues about going abroad to have children came from this.
"I've heard the rumor that I went to the United States before giving birth, and I can understand it, but my young wife is about to give birth and wants to be with her biological mother when giving birth. Is it wrong to do so? My mother regards Zhen as her own daughter, but it's good to have her own mother around anyway. Mothers also have the right to choose to stay in the most comfortable place to give birth, don't they? Because my brother-in-law was studying in America and my mother-in-law stayed there to take care of her, Zhen went to America to have a baby. This is the only reason, but everyone looks at it differently. "
# Seems to be angry with those who spread rumors.
"Our new home and my parents' home are almost 60 square meters. After this fact was known, I heard someone accuse me of living too luxuriously. A month before I got married, my mother was still living in the workplace. Although my income has increased a little, their house was bought by my parents' hard-earned money. Many people do this to Zhen. They said she was a spy? Said she evaded taxes? I can't figure out why people are so unfriendly to Zhen. I just got married, and people regard my marriage as a scandal, which really makes me a little angry, but maybe without such a universal test, I can't be an indomitable man to protect my woman, because the idea makes me grateful for these tests. "
# How to treat the false rumors circulated by Miss Bai before marriage?
"I took those words as words that only primary school students would say. Did Zhen fall from the universe? It's natural to have a boyfriend at that age. What can I do if they say so? I hope those angry people at that time can see my beloved people like me. "
# When shall I go to my wife's house?
"Go after filming, the film is expected to end in February 10. I want to make up for our honeymoon trip postponed because of the movie. Zhen's belly is much bigger, and I can't go far. The important thing is to get enough rest together. Before I met Zhen on April 5, I had no hope for my life. After I came back from studying in the Soviet Union, although I really wanted to develop my acting skills, I always felt very lonely. Although I long for someone to say gentle words to me, I just think that I can't love someone as a punishment. God only gave me the ability to perform, but not other abilities. In fact, I was exhausted during the performance, and sometimes my agent even carried me into the lounge. As for the idea of meeting people, I never thought about it. Sometimes when I meet girls, I think what they see is not ordinary Park Shin Yang, but film actor Park Shin Yang. Maybe if I can't meet Zhen, I will be lonely all my life. But I also want to live happily, don't I? Someone should be jealous! I hope I can always keep this love calmly. "
I am afraid that others will envy me for being too happy, so I don't want to show my happiness to the fullest.
# When I am happiest after marriage
"In the morning, when my wife makes coffee for me to drink, when she secretly prepares lunch for me, I feel happiest. Speaking of lunch, because she can't cook, she will bring me bread or fruit in my toilet and popcorn in my toilet one day. My wife Zhen is really cute. When she goes out to shoot in the morning, she will say "don't go ..." or "don't do this!" "Every other day, I will say,' Stop NG and come back soon. Otherwise, you will say, "it is more important to shoot well than to finish it quickly!" Later, it was changed to "I'm going to concentrate on filming" (smiling). When I got married, I promised never to quarrel. Like now, we will work together and hope to live like this for the rest of our lives. "
I interviewed him for a long time, and it was almost 10 at night. In order to catch the train 1 1 back to Seoul, and Park Shin Yang was filming the next day, I had to finish. Finally, I asked a question related to movies, and asked him to introduce what kind of movies are being made at present. Actors like to take the opportunity to help promote the film, and will mention various situations encountered during filming, or talk about their views on the film, but he replied with "I promised to do a personal interview today, so I don't want to talk about any topics related to the film."
As a result, at the end of the interview that day, I talked about my interest in furniture design that started a few years ago and the topics related to my family. Because there were still many topics to talk about, the reporter reluctantly left after 10 to catch the train.
# The second meeting
The second meeting took place five days later, on February 9, in the 30% hole in Seoul, in the broker's office. We had a meeting experience, and this interview was conducted in a relaxed atmosphere. As it happens, Park Shin Yang also has a good reason to be curious about the journalist himself.
"I used to think that it takes at least three years to understand a person. Over time, we can understand each other without words. We have known reporter Li for a long time and have always had a good impression, and the agent has always kept in touch with reporter Li. When I decided to be interviewed, I thought reporter Li was a very suitable person. If I'm interviewed by a reporter I don't know at all, I'll let him see that honesty in private. I want to say why this star is like this. The image I saw in the movie was just an actor's appearance, which was very different from reality, just like I am very different today. 』
"Type B, curly hair, long male, long grandson, worst groom candidate"
When not filming, everyone stays up late, wearing jeans, ivory sweaters and a black sports coat. The reporter may be familiar with the appearance of wearing a suit in the movie, but he doesn't know what to say. However, he only wears a suit when filming, and he usually has little chance to wear a suit.
In any case, although he is unsociable, he has many good friends in his circle. The film actor, Shen, Shen and Shen are all his best friends. He pointed out that when talking to those people on the phone, even if the words are rambling or the topics are casual, there will be no misunderstanding, but they are too busy to meet often. This day's interview begins with the topic of stars. ..
# byeol is a beautiful name.
"I thought long ago what I would choose if I got married and had children in the future, and then I thought of the names of mountains, rivers and stars. Such a name is not complacent, attractive or frivolous. Instead of the name "Shengbi" in the household registration book, because the two names sound very similar, and a very familiar monk thinks that the word "Shengbi" should be used when choosing a name. 』
# What kind of father do you want to be?
"I like children very much and hope to have many children if possible. Being busy with children is also a good life. Good ... after the birth of Xing Er, like all dads, I hope to give the best to my children and nothing bad will happen. 』
# What do you think about speeding?
"Yes, it was speeding. Who does not make mistakes? We had no problems from the beginning until we got married. Is this the Korean era? I am a person who never goes to a hotel. When I want to drink, I will go to the rock cafe. When it comes to speeding, I'm not like some people who have already gone to a restaurant but don't have the heart to put wine in their mouths. There are really many such people. I think such people are so-called hypocrites. 』
When it comes to sensitive topics, the whole atmosphere becomes heavy. The reporter played a prank and asked him the most annoying question. For a sincere actor like him, if he is asked about his blood type, the reporter is curious about his reaction.
# What blood type?
"(looking at me with funny eyes) Type B."
# Gee, this seems to be a bad blood type …
"Maybe it's because of a strong sense of autonomy and stubbornness? Well, 90% of the brokers in our company (Sidus) are B-type, and many friends in the entertainment circle are B-type. Speaking of the shortcomings of type B blood type, I want to refute that type B personality is very independent and will require you to be a blood type that does everything, so I think you should not have preconceived ideas about type B people. Reporter Li, what blood type are you? 』
# Haha .. I'm also a type B, and type B and type B are not suitable for touching. What about Miss Bai's blood type?
"She is type A, as far as I am concerned, she is the most unsuitable groom, with curly hair of type B, and she is the eldest son and grandson of the family. As long as something happens at home, there are at least 40 people. But I really don't want to give Zhen any burden. Zhen doesn't know how to do it yet. I have always had deep expectations that after the baby is born, she will be able to do it. If my wife can feel that she is the happiest woman in the world, that would be great. I will work harder for her happiness. "
There is still a break before the premiere in May, but he feels that if there is a good work, he will definitely put it into shooting immediately. If possible, I hope I can make two movies a year with the mood of learning. As an actor, I am very cautious in choosing the script for each performance, but once I decide to make 100 movies in my life, I should be able to choose my works more easily.
I want to be the best father in my daughter's heart, so I designed the bed, swing and desk for my child.
He always had an idea that he could design the stage for stage plays and musicals. Because of this interest, he really began to design furniture. It won't be long before the moo-youn-han furniture store in Gangnam-gu, Seoul has a place to put a table with the words "Parkshinyang Design". There will be sofas, beds, chairs and storage cabinets designed by him in the future. In order to make a crib for my born daughter, I hope I can even make my own swing and desk.
"In order to hear our star say that I am the best father, I will do my best. In order to reduce others' spending too much time gossiping about us and protect our happy home, I stood up for an interview, hoping to be an honest and reliable son in my father-in-law and a good brother-in-law in my sister-in-law's heart. Of course, it is the same for our parents. Zhen plans to study in the United States after giving birth. Although our house is often vacant, I still believe that our parents' home is our real home. 』
# Do you think you will see your wife soon?
"When I spoke to Hui Zhen on the phone yesterday, she said," Brother, I'm a little nervous. Because of this, I have the same mood (smile) as her. 』
# Do you have anything to say at last?
"I think it is best to improve the treatment of film practitioners. There is an amazing development in the Korean film circle, but the film practitioners have no one to speak for them, and they only get a meager salary of 18-20 hours a day. If there is an organization that improves treatment, I will definitely actively support it. The conclusion is that in order to overcome this phenomenon, our films should explore more overseas markets. After the cake grows bigger, the company will invest a lot of money, and the money that can be returned to the film industry will also increase. "
The reporter was very surprised to hear Park Shin Yang's answer that "the content of this interview has never been seen in previous movies, magazines or interviews" and "there is a lot of pressure". Before that, he also wanted to win the opportunity to perform overseas. If there is an overseas performance, even for this reason, it will add fuel to the fire!
In the process of interviewing him, I found something by accident. He is actually a coffee fan, and I don't know why he feels that "green tea seems to be more in line with his image than coffee". As soon as he finished, he laughed at once, and then said, "I'm curious about what kind of person everyone thinks I am" and "a very sincere and polite model man!" ? "I really don't know, because my responsibility will be great. If I hadn't accepted this interview, everyone would have felt this way about me. From now on, I plan to make a film every year, and the next interview will be done by reporter Li Lai! After that, Park Shin Yang responded to the reporter tactfully.
When we first met, my wife had some scruples about living in America and didn't want to show it to him. After the report was reprinted, she told reporters in great detail where they lived and where her daughter would be born. This is to protect their privacy, even if they will be treated differently, they would rather choose the Park Shin Yang couple who gave birth abroad. Here, they can stop caring about other people's opinions and start their own quiet and happy life.