Engagement: 1. Parents of both parties attend the banquet to negotiate the engagement, mainly to set the yellow calendar and the amount of the man's dowry. The amount of gift money depends on the family conditions of both parties. If both parties are ordinary families
(here, ordinary families mean that the annual income of both families is about 1, RMB), the current standard is about 88,888-18, RMB.
2. There must be plenty of time before the engagement date. In this period, we need to buy what the two people need for engagement. Let's start with what the man gives the woman, and make a set of gold ornaments
. Bracelets, anklets, necklaces, a pair of rings, and a diamond ring (the price of a diamond ring is about 15, now, but in fact, you can also go to a goldsmith's shop to buy a loose diamond and choose your favorite
style to make it. The price difference is very big, which can save about 35%. Note: parents should be asked first. Some parents like to buy 24K pure gold and think it can preserve the value, but young people don't like it and feel rustic), < p Wenzhou wedding candy is divided into different sizes. All the wedding candy needed by the woman is the responsibility of the man, including the red envelopes in the wedding candy, except some friends of the woman's parents. (< P > At present, 5-1 red envelopes are given by people, depending on the conditions of both parties and the number of wedding candy). What the woman wants to buy is a suit, two shirts, two ties, two pairs of shoes (one pair of casual shoes and one pair of leather shoes), two dozen socks, one gold bracelet and one necklace (if the red envelope for the best man is less than 58, you need to buy another shirt for the best man)
A set of dishes has 88 pieces, 98 pieces and 18 pieces. Then return one of the candied apricots sent by the man to the man, and the received
gift money will be returned according to the economic conditions. If the woman's conditions are generally 88888, it will be returned to the man, ranging from 38888 to 58888, and the remaining money will be used for the things she bought for the man and the need to buy a new house in the future. If the woman's condition is good, just accept all the gift money and buy a car for the man.
3: engagement day: Wenzhou people now have two kinds of engagement banquets. One is that the woman's house hosts a banquet for the man's parents and groomsman at noon, and the man invites the woman back at night. Another
is that parents and close relatives and friends of both parties hold a banquet in a hotel to get engaged. Generally, there are many people who choose the latter in urban areas now. In the afternoon, the man drives to the woman's home to greet her and her parents, and gives
the woman's younger brother or sister suitcase money (suitcase money means that the woman's younger brother or sister refuses to leave without letting her sister get married, and he will only let people go if you give him money, as explained by the older generation. )
The suitcase costs about 58-18. After arriving at the hotel, give tea to both parents and toast to relatives and friends to witness your love. Drink ~~~)
Get married: 1. After deciding on the wedding date, we will start to book the banquet in the hotel. Now Wenzhou seems to book the banquet one year in advance. I am dizzy. Everyone will get married on a good day. Then we need to
settle down first. The house price is too expensive, so I don't care. About 13 square meters will cost about 1 million RMB. Of course, the man is responsible for buying and decorating the house, and the decoration will take at least two months. After the decoration, the furniture in the room
is bought by the man, and everything else is dressed by the woman. This is a big expense, not to mention electrical appliances, even buying decorative things, kitchen and bedding
is a big expense.
2: Choose two people to take wedding photos in a good time and weather. Generally, photo studios are now engaged in price wars with similar skills and strength, but they don't care so much about money just once in their lives. Just be careful not to look at this one that feels good, and the more you choose, the more you spend. Generally, it is worthwhile to control it at 4,-5, to take photos.
3: It's almost OK to take photos of the nest. Please get married in advance, wait for the wedding with peace of mind, and get in touch with the photos of car rental and fireworks on the wedding day, but these are not relevant now.
Etiquette companies all over the street are all-inclusive. As for your personal preference, if you don't invite the emcee, I always feel that if you have too many banquets, you will be busy for half a day until 12 o'clock in the evening, and you will have to wait for others
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4: The bride just needs to get a facial and horny the night before the wedding, so she doesn't have to get up so early on the wedding day. Now, beauticians come to the house directly after 9: to get their hair done and nails done, and then have dinner. After this lunch, the next meal will be at lunch the next day. Here, I want to remind everyone that they still have to eat enough, hehe. . . Then, after one o'clock, the makeup artist comes home to put on the wedding dress,
put on the shawl, and it takes about an hour to make up and hairstyle. I would like to remind you that you should pay attention to calling the makeup artist in advance to tell her what color and style her wedding dress is, so that she can
prepare headdresses with the same color and style. The man is almost the same. It's not as troublesome as the woman. At 4 o'clock, the groom and the best man will leave for the woman's home to pick up the bride. When they arrive at the bride's home,
the bridesmaids will try some tricks to embarrass the groom. Finally, of course, they will open the door only after the red envelope is settled. (The red envelope is about 28 yuan, and there are nine bridesmaids here in Wenzhou, and the bride is just one table.) Then there are nine bridesmaids
and all the man's relatives of the bride will go to the new house Get off here, Wenzhou is renting a car, and cigarettes must be handed over, otherwise some bad drivers will deliberately drive fast and slow, so
there will be no queues and the video will not look good. Then, when you go to the new house, you will make a video of offering tea and glutinous rice balls, and you must remember the order of your elders when you honor things, otherwise you will be gossiped.
Next, another bus will drive to the hotel, then there will be a lion dance, and then a red envelope will be given (the red envelope is also 28). Next, some groomsmen will spray the newlyweds and bridesmaids with that spray.
It is suggested that the bride put down her veil, while the bridesmaid suggested that she prepare an old dress with a hat, and put it on before going in, hehe. The last level is, of course, a toast. This is the most important thing. Of course, it varies from person to person. Let's play it by ourselves, so we don't have to do it here. We should also pay attention to changing the wedding dress and hairstyle for the bride in the middle. It should also be noted that in Wenzhou, the man now gives the woman four tables of banquets, including red envelopes.
The extra banquets are for the women to take care of themselves, and the red envelopes are of course the cost accounting for their parents to marry a Wenzhou wife. According to the online statistical method, let's also estimate how much it will cost to get a Wenzhou wife who is in the upper middle school (with a college degree or above, a good figure and a stable job).
1. a house (more than 1 square meters, urban area), with an average price of 8, yuan, 8,× 1 = 8,. Make a down payment of 5% and borrow 4, yuan from the bank. If a loan with a term of 2 years can be obtained, the monthly repayment will be 2,648.67 yuan at the current preferential annual interest rate of 5.4% for commercial housing loans. 2. Decoration, with a medium decoration of 1 square meters, is 15, yuan.
3. Household appliances and furniture, totaling 7, yuan (some of which are contributed by the woman in the form of dowry).
4. Cars, based on ordinary scooters, are 14,. (At present, most newly-married families in Wenzhou are funded by women.)
5. Holding a wedding party, taking 25 tables in a medium-sized hotel as an example, including wine, cigarettes and sugar, is 12× 25 = 3,. The average amount of red envelopes recovered is 1,2 yuan per table, which is 1,2× 25 = 3,, making ends meet.
6. For honeymoon, Hong Kong, Macao, Xinmatai, Yunnan and Hainan are the main destinations, and the average cost per person is 8, yuan, which is 8,× 2 = 16,.
7. The period from falling in love to deciding to get married, including
going out for dinner, buying gifts, entertainment, traveling, and sending holiday gifts to my girlfriend's parents, takes 1 yuan as the standard, and talks for 2 years on average, which is 1× 12× 2 = 24,.
to sum up, the total cost is 4+15+7+1.6+2.4 = 66,.
With the family property of 2, yuan, the man's annual income is 5, yuan. After saving food and simple use, the disposable surplus is 4, yuan, (66-2)/4 = about 1 years. After marriage, it should not be a great pressure for the husband and wife to work together and pay back more than 2, yuan of housing loans a month.
Finally, the conclusion is: a man who graduated from college at the age of 23 can get an upper-middle-class Wenzhou wife before the age of 33 (which is acceptable for a man). If the family conditions are ok, he can consider getting married early. So brothers don't need to worry, work hard and try again.